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Holiday Cheer Mom-Style!

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Real Estate Agent with HomeSmart Real Estate AZ Broker BR030809000

 

Christmas is my very favorite time of year for many reasons.  For one I was born on Christmas Eve and every year since everyone around the country decorates their home just for me! LOL. My Mom, bless her beautiful heart, who died 18 years ago today, was an incredible Mom.

 

Ever since I was little our home was the 'Christmas House' and it was magical everywhere you looked.  Of course, I inherited that gene from Mom and I use it well and often!  I miss her and at the same time it's like she's always here in subtle ways suggesting this or that or saying, how about you try this honey. I feel close to her always. And I feel blessed to have her as my Mom!

The first or second year I moved to Phoenix my parents decided they wanted to buy a home here in Phoenix. I'll never forget the day they moved in and there were so many boxes of dishes. Like 3 or 4 sets of 48 place settings. What in the world are you going to do with all those dishes?  BTW she loved dishes and used to entertain A LOT. Again - another gene I inherited from her. Lucky me!  


 
That very first Christmas they were in Phoenix she wanted me to invite my friends over for Christmas Eve.  And she says.... bring as many friends as you like honey!  I was heavily involved in the community so I knew a lot of great people. When we arrived at their home, she, of course, had their home beautifully decorated along with a dinner table set to the festive T. The most beautiful part was she had no lights on - only candles.  And it was so peaceful and festive all at the same time.  My friends couldn't believe what an amazing party she had created for all of them.  They felt special to be part of this special Christmas Eve. That's just the way she was with everyone. She made people feel special! A gift!

 

Holiday Cheer Mom-Style!

 

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Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker What a wonderful day to have a Birthday- God Bless Mom's - Miss mine too she also passed 18 years ago - You are so full of fun and energy 

Dec 10, 2020 04:15 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Hannah Williams it has been a fun day to celebrate. I have another story about that very first birthday which is pretty cool as well. Yes, we were both fortunate to have wonderful Mom's. And you too, 18 years ago.   And....thanks! Now you know where it comes from - My Mom!

Dec 10, 2020 04:24 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Anna- the apple definitely didn't fall far from the tree, did it. Isn't it wonderful when your mom sets these beautiful examples for you. Your mother sounds like she also had a big heart as well to invite your friends over. 

Dec 10, 2020 04:41 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Kathy Streib you could say that!  She did set a great example for many  many people. What surprised me the most is how many showed up for her celebration of life, 1000+.  And I thought she was just our Mom!

Dec 11, 2020 01:00 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Your mom wass a wonderful role model and teacher, you got some of her best parts Anna! Like your mom, you make people feel special.

Dec 10, 2020 06:39 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! she was indeed and I am grateful to call her Mom.  Thank you!!

Dec 11, 2020 01:01 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Hi Anna,  Thank you for sharing this beautiful story.  Moms are a special gift to us - they share so much and through us live on. 

Dec 10, 2020 07:02 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Bob Crane Mom's are a gift that keeps on giving and giving and giving!

Dec 11, 2020 01:02 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Anna-Like Kathy said the apple definitely didn't fall far from the tree.  You do make people feel special. You definitely made me feel that way when I had the special treat of meeting you in person and staying at your house.  It is hard to lose a parent but even harder when it is close to the holiday and your special day.  You have lived your life in a way that I know has made your Mom proud.  

Dec 10, 2020 07:04 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Sharon Lee thank you! I"m happy you enjoyed your time with us. The first year was the hardest as we were so close and right before Christmas.  As the years have gone by I've come to know she's always there if I need her - which is a great feeling!

Dec 11, 2020 01:03 PM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

 Now that is Christmas cheer. Your mom had the holiday spirit 🎅

Thank you for sharing Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker 

Dec 10, 2020 09:02 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

She sure did Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS and then some!!

Dec 11, 2020 01:04 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker as I was reading your description of your mother, it could have easily been a description of you.... from all of your blog posts and all of the entertaining you've shared photos of, you've learned well from your mom....  mothers are just sooo special.... I'm sorry you've lost yours.... I lost mine in April at 97.... I think about her every day and tears flow.

Dec 11, 2020 04:36 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Barbara Todaro you were so fortunate to have your Mom so much longer.   I think of my Mom almost every day and know she's up to something!!  I learned a lot from my Mom and one thing I cherish is to always be gracious and kind.

Dec 11, 2020 01:06 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Your Mom sounds amazing!  I did not know you were born on Christmas Eve, but now I do!

Dec 11, 2020 04:57 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Brian England now you know I'm an angel!  LOL

Dec 11, 2020 01:07 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Anna. You bring a big smile to my face when you mentioned dishes. My Mom loved china and my Dad bought her many sets. Unlike you Mom, my Mom never used them! Still liked to look at the Cjona cabinet. Enjoy your day!

Dec 11, 2020 05:18 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Wayne Martin not sure why she liked dishes so much but it seems many ladies did so back then. We had a huge family so she needed them for those gatherings.  Me - we use plastic or paper for the big events!!

Dec 11, 2020 01:08 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks for sharing some of your special memories.

Your message makes many of us recall the Christmas times of the past.

Dec 11, 2020 05:25 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

It's a good thing to remember beautiful Christmas memories, isn't it Roy Kelley !

Dec 11, 2020 01:09 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Moms set a high standard and if they do their job right that gene gets passsed along as well.

Dec 11, 2020 05:41 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Ed Silva Mom's do set and expect a high standard, at least mine did!

Dec 11, 2020 01:10 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Anna - although December 10 is obviously a sad day for you, there are many happy memories of your Mom that have a special place in your heart.  Happy Birthday Month.  

Dec 11, 2020 06:04 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Michael Jacobs it's actually not sad but rather a day to honor my Mom and express my gratefulness to have been so blessed to call her Mom.  And thanks for the birthday wishes!

Dec 11, 2020 01:11 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good morning Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker - a house lit with candles.  Now that is a special holiday for sure.

Dec 11, 2020 06:43 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Grant Schneider she loved candlelight!  When we were kids she'd light the candles just to quiet us kids down during dinner!!

Dec 11, 2020 01:12 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Anna,

What a beautiful memory of your Mom.  I enjoyed reading it and the house lit up with candles must have been glorious. Happy Birth Month, we have a tradition of celebrating birth month--because we are all worth more than just a day.  Happy Friday!  A

Dec 11, 2020 07:53 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Thank you Ron and Alexandra Seigel . She was an amazing designer and everyone relied on her for ideas!  It's been a bit busy to think 'birthday' quite yet but I'll get there.  I celebrate more so after the holidays!!

Dec 11, 2020 01:14 PM
Rocky Dickerson
Realty One Group - Las Vegas, NV
Superior Service!

Good morning and Merry Christmas Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker your mom must be where you get your gift for making others feel welcome.

Dec 11, 2020 09:18 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Rocky Dickerson she gave me so many gifts, as did my Dad and welcoming people from all over was something we learned as young kids.  Kind of cool really, and we didn't even know we were learing that....it was just fun.

Dec 11, 2020 01:16 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Anna,
What a great memory of your Mom entertaining your friends.  I didn't have any such mentor in my life so I'm jealous you inherited the love of decorating and entertaining.  I think maybe I inherited a love of being entertained.  LOL 

Dec 11, 2020 03:09 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

There you go Carol Williams you do love to be entertained!  Good way to turn that puppy around!

Dec 11, 2020 03:18 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I wish I could travel back in time and have you show me that beautifully decorated and welcoming home of your mom's that Christmas Eve.

Dec 11, 2020 03:42 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Anna sounds like your Mom was a very special woman.  I am sure you miss her a lot.

Dec 11, 2020 03:59 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi George Souto best Mom ever!  You know she's kind of with me every day and I can hear her laughing and what she'd say about stuff.....well you know what I'd do.......

Dec 11, 2020 04:05 PM