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Update from our MultiGen Home - Go Granny, Go Granny ,Go Granny, Go

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Industry Observer with Nature As Neighbors

 

Last weekend, 93-year old mom tripped and fell going into her sitting room. She minimized the fall, saying she thought it felt like pulled muscles. Naturally, we called her doctor's office and they said to watch her carefully, and if she seemed to be getting around okay, it was likely muscular. 

 

Monday night, she took a turn for the worse and said the pain had increased. We called the doctor again and they said she needed to get x-rays early Tuesday morning. Mom tried to talk us out of taking her, saying she felt a lot better after a good night's rest. 

 

We insisted, telling her it was peace of mind for us. Instead of her doctor's office, we took her to another facility for x-rays as they opened earlier. The doctor gave her a thorough exam too, and his initial thoughts were that it was likely a muscular injury. However, he cautioned, the radiologist still needed to take a look at the X-rays to be certain. 

 

When we left, mom was in a good mood, thinking she had dodged a bullet. Like many small, slender women, she has osteoporosis, and brittle bones can translate into breaks and fractures. She ate when we got home and wanted to do some laundry. And then the phone rang. 

 

She had a fracture at the upper hip joint where the head of the femur rotates in the socket. Apparently, a twisting fall, with the head of the femur pressing on the socket caused a fracture. They told us to think of what happens you step on an aluminum can. Not a fun mental image. 

 

This type of injury, if not treated, could result in more damage and require a total hip replacement. Therefore, the orthopedic surgeon recommended pinning the joint to hold things in place to allow it to heal. We explained things carefully to mom, and told her it was completely her decision.  She went for it.  As our daughter later said, "Go Grandma, go!" 

 

Mom had surgery late Tuesday evening and is doing well with three new pins holding the hip joint together. She will be home either today or tomorrow. We are fortunate to have a Physical Therapist and a nurse coming in several days a week to help get her back on her feet - literally.

 

We are all grateful she managed the surgery so well and is in good spirits. "Go Mom, go!" 

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Debb Janes  Bernie Stea
Brokers/REALTORS®
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We help buyers and sellers in Camas, Washougal, Brush Prairie/Hockinson, Salmon Creek, Felida, and other Vancouver, Washington Areas. 


We bring our passion for nature and beautiful environments to Real Estate. Multigenerational and family estates, country land and homes, and small farmsteads are our speciality.


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Comments(47)

Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Roy Kelley we are lucky they could solve it with 3 screws in the hip, if the entire hip fractured, it would have been a much bigger deal. D

Jan 23, 2021 08:30 AM
Gloria Todor
Premier Property Sales & Rentals - Springfield, PA
& Doug Durren (484) 431-3686 in SE PA

Debb, Glad your Mother was agreeable to the procedure. She is in good hands in your household!  May her recovery be speedy!

Jan 23, 2021 04:22 PM
Debb Janes

thank you Gloria, she is doing remarkable. D

Jan 25, 2021 07:24 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

Happy belated birthday to your mother. I am glad that you can be so close Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD 

Jan 23, 2021 08:25 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Debb, I am so glad things are improving, you are not going to believe this but Diane's Cousin's mom just turned 94 and she fell too... broken jaw.... etc ....every day she is on the phone with the updates.... glad your mom is doing good.... long distance hugs to you, Endre

Jan 23, 2021 09:11 PM
Debb Janes

I'm so sorry to hear about Diane's relative.  Thanks for the hugs. D

Jan 25, 2021 07:25 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD - The family love that flows through each member of your family is so nurturing and caring. Debb, you exemplify how important family unity is and I'm sure the apples doesn't fall far from the family tree. Clearly, no one in your family will every walk alone...

Jan 24, 2021 08:48 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP thank you very much. I am so grateful we are able to take care of mom as she heals. And, she is quite remarkable - doing so well. 

Jan 25, 2021 07:46 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD- I have enjoyed learning about your mom and dad. Among the many things they gave you, strength has been what I admire the most. I can tell one of many great virtues they passed on to you and what you have handed over to your own daughter, son, and grandchildren is that ability to be resilient and not whine about anything. Your mom is amazing. She has such a beautiful smile and those twinkling eyes projects so much knowledge and wisdom. In photographs, I notice a sense of calm that must resides inside her soul. Clearly, that's not a forced smile. It's great that you're looking out for her and positively it was the right decision to allow her to have her independence in your Multi-Generational home where you and your family members are there, but not under each others' skin.

Debb, I truly admire you and wish more families were as good as you are to your loved ones. Even your dogs are lovable!!! 

Jan 25, 2021 08:23 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Debb, OH MY that could have been much worse, and glad she is on the mend.   As we age, it doesn't take much to cause lots of damage.

Jan 25, 2021 12:19 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh my gosh, Debb, I'm so happy to hear she's home by now! My, how far she came in the last two weeks! 

I'm sure she's in great hands. It sounds like she's a fighter and will follow her nurse and physical therapist's instructions to a 't' - and of course, having all of you caring for her is so helpful to her recovery. 

Jan 25, 2021 01:19 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Thank you Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP I'm so appreciative of your kind words. Hope you have a fabulous Wednesday. 

Jan 27, 2021 06:42 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Joan Cox mom has osteoporosis which makes falls even more frightening. Now, we have to be very careful to keep her from falling again. 

Jan 27, 2021 06:43 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

The PT is coming this week, we're hoping today. It will be to to have some first-hand guidance. She keeps trying to do things and we worry she is pushing it. ;) Thanks Debe Maxwell, CRS 

Jan 27, 2021 06:44 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD - I am glad they were able to do that pinning.  Mobility is important but with older folks a can or walker is much better than having a fall.

Jan 27, 2021 06:55 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

So beautiful in her crown!

How frightening for all concerned. I'm so glad she is doing well.

Jan 27, 2021 01:46 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Bless her at 93 still going enjoying life and all that jazz! Love and light!

Jan 28, 2021 08:57 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Sharon Tara what a gift to be that age and smiling big and bright like that! God bless!

Jan 28, 2021 08:59 PM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

What a happy picture of Mom!  She's a real trooper and has a great attitude. Looks like she has many more years ahead!

Jan 29, 2021 08:52 PM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

I'm glad to hear your mom is recovering. However, taking her to the ER immediately after her fall should have been the first action especially with anyone with osteoporosis. Needless to say, your mom does not look anywhere her age. She looks fantastic. 

Jan 29, 2021 10:07 PM
Liane Thomas, Top Listing Agent
Professional Realty Services® - Corona, CA
Bringing you Home!

Sending prayers that mom heals quickly.

Jan 30, 2021 07:12 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

It does my heart good to see the love on the face of your mother Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD 

Mar 07, 2021 11:11 AM