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The Difference Between Permanent Failure and a Bump in the Road

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Real Estate Marketing - Go Smart Solutions

**First, let me apologize for the delay in posting this. My younger brother got married this weekend, and the onslaught of family from all over the country got the best of my time. The rest of the series will be posted on Fridays, rain, sleet, snow, or out of town visitors ;) Now, on with it...

"I have not failed. I've just found a 10,000 ways that won't work."

- Thomas Edison

Some people get a thrill from new experiences; new challenges, and the prospect of the unknown have an invigorating affect on them and inspire action. For some others, however, the prospect of "new" is one of fright and anxiety, something to be avoided at all costs and with all effort.

Why? Why are most people so afraid to try something new? There are many possible reasons which, in part, probably depend on the person's past experiences, influences, and innate personality. I'll make the argument that most people are reluctant to try something new because they are afraid that they could fail. Notice I didn't say that they were afraid that they would fail, just that they could fail. The mere fact that there is a possibility of failure often deters people from even trying. What a tragedy!

In a recent post by marketing expert, Seth Godin, he proposes:

"The object isn’t to be perfect. The goal isn’t to hold back until you’ve created something beyond reproach. I believe the opposite is true. Our birthright is to fail and to fail often, but to fail in search of something bigger than we can imagine. To do anything else is to waste it all."

 

So I propose this:

Don't let the fear of failure keep you from trying something new. 
Instead, expect that every now and then you will, as Edison puts it, "find ways that don't work". When you experience those "bumps", reflect upon them, learn from them, and use them build confidence and do things better the next time.

Is there something you've been wanting to try in your real estate marketing campaign, but have been holding back because you weren't sure if it would work? Try it! Don't let the fear of failure, or the fear of others perception of you, or the fear of anything hold you back!

The next post in this series will be called, "The Power of Providing People with What They Need", is inspired by the second of my favorite Edison quotes, and will be posted this Friday.

I'll leave you with this video of the song "Dream Big", by Ryan Shupe and the Rubberband:

 

 


I work in marketing and communications for ClassifiedFlyerAds.com, focusing on tools and internet technology for real estate professionals. Our most popular tools offer competitive search engine placement and online listing distribution to over 30 real estate directories. We also offer blog profile syndication, widgets, and virtual tours - free to all subscribed members.

L. Wayne Denton
Denton Properties, Inc. - Loganville, GA
I have a handle on your market!!!

I love reading about Thomas Edison but liked the song in this one more.  I grew up with the song "The Impossible Dream" and knew that the impossible just takes a little longer.  Hope you had fun at the wedding and were able to throw some rice or birdseed as they ran.

Jun 23, 2008 06:49 AM
Kevin McGourty
Realty ONE Group - Phoenix, AZ

Candis -Good point. A baseball player learns early on that he is going to fail a lot more than succeed.  Only one ballplayer in history has ever had a batting average over 400 (striking out nearly six out of ten times).   

Jun 23, 2008 06:50 AM
Jeremiah Wean
Lakewood Lending Group, LLC (NMLS#132141) - Indianapolis, IN
NMLS#132221

Great post.  Learn to stumble forward, or as John Maxwell says "Fail Forward".  Look forward to your next post.

Jun 23, 2008 06:52 AM
Lorraine or Loretta Kratz
Crescent Moon Realty, Inc. & Land N Sea Auctions. - San Marcos, CA
Certified Negotiation Consultants

Candis:

Looking forward to your next post, congrat's on your brother's wedding and the excitement of having family and friends around. Love Seth Godin. Remember it not the number of times that you fall that matters its the number of times that you get up.

Jun 23, 2008 06:57 AM
Stanton Homes
Stanton Homes - New Home Builder - Raleigh, NC
Design/Build Custom Home Builder in North Carolina

One of my favorite quotes... thanks for sharing!

Jun 23, 2008 07:24 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Candis- looks like a good series.....and you said it well, just go for it, we all fail at times.

Jun 23, 2008 07:54 AM
Candis Hidalgo
Real Estate Marketing - Go Smart Solutions - Arroyo Grande, CA
L. Wayne - Thanks for the comment. I love this song... always inspires me. And, we blew lots of bubbles at the wedding!! Kevin - What a great analogy. I bet most baseball players have great determination... Jeremiah - Thanks. And you're right, "fail forward" pretty much sums it up in one simple phrase! Lorraine and Loretta - Great point,and thanks! I had a great time at the wedding. It was an emotional day, in a good way :) Penny - Your welcome! Edison actually failed approximately 10,000 times when he was trying to invent the electric lightbulb before he succeeded! Kathy - How true. If we could all remember that fact, maybe trying wouldn't be so scary.
Jun 23, 2008 10:00 AM
Doris Freeman
Zach Taylor Real Estate - Gallatin, TN
Broker/Agent, 615-961-7799

Thanks for the post and I look forward to rest of the series.

Have A Wonderful Day

Jun 25, 2008 02:49 PM