Time, something most of us seem to value and many of us put a high price on. We charge our clients, and others charge us....whether anything is or was accomplished.  It's almost 5 in the afternoon, and another day is gone.  Time, one of our most valuable commodities, and something that once it's gone it's gone has again disappeared.  As I'm "ending" another day I am seriously wondering what I've accomplished....and what if I haven't accomplished anything tangible, is it still an accomplishment.

It's almost 5 o'clock, and the day just seems to have sped by.  I know that I have been on the computer a large portion of the day......but I have also had to do some heavy thinking. There are times when being in charge isn't such a great thing, and we have to make some tough decisions.  Today was one of those days for sure.  Today I decided to start closing down my other office.  Probably the end of next month....

We had 2 Agents assigned to that Office. The top Producing Agent for that Office decided to move back to the City a few months ago. That in itself wasn't a catastrophe, and we were going to keep everything going, but then gas prices skyrocketed and none of the other Agents wanted to go out there anymore.  Well, as you can imagine an office that no one wants to work at and the high overhead didn't sound like a good business venture.  So, it just came down to Make a Decision, good or bad, right or wrong.....make one!

When I opened that Office, I did it on a whim....and it worked out.  But now it's time to just close it.....cut my losses and move on. So, today I finalized the decision, and had to figure out the logistics of the closure.  Do I spend the money to transport the furniture, or sell it out there?  How much will it cost me to terminate my phone contract early?  And our listings.....we have a few ending in a week, several ending a month later, etc etc etc. Decisions.....no one can see the inner workings of my mind, but does that negate the work it took to get to this point?

So many things we do in our daily life, both business and personal don't have anything tangible.

  What do we show someone we accomplished if we can't:

  • hold it
  • touch it
  • feel it  
  • look at it

And if we don't have anything tangible how do we measure it?  Isn't that what we do,  measure our accomplishments? 

  • Someone that built a bridge can say "Look at my Bridge"
  • Someone that wrote a book can say, "I wrote this book.
  • Someone that bought a house has a house to live in....
  • Someone that taught school can see the results of their labor in the children as they progress
  • Someone that designed a Blog can look at it, interact with the design, and make physical changes
  • Someone that writes a Blog Post can see it, and others can see it, and maybe others comment

But how do we measure the inner workings of our mind if there's nothing tangible to measure?  And again, does that negate the time?

 

Time is a commodity.....and at the end of the day I know that I want, I need to have something to say I didn't waste my time.  And this really is a personal thing, because I can sit in the garden for an hour soaking up the peace of the day, and I don't feel that wasted my time.  But on the other hand I can go to the Grocery Store and feel like my whole time is wasted.  Being unorganized and then trying to find something is a waste of my time.........

 

So, for you...

What do you need to feel that you have accomplished something

 and not wasted your time?

By: Kathy McGraw - CELLing Realty

 

 
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JUN
24
2008
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Kathy:  This was a tough decision for you to make, but you know what... I think you've made the right decision ... to make no decision is harder than whatever you have to do now that you've chosen to move on. Sometimes just being able to sleep well and work with people you can trust are more important than all the tangibles.  BTW, I feel the same way about the grocery store!  LOL!  Hope you get lots of helpful advice and support on AR and from the associates in your office. 

12:28pm • #1
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Kathy, you have brought up an excellent discussion between accomplishing things that are tangible and intangible. It is so hard to "measure" the intangible. The only good thought I can give you, like you soaking up the sunshine in a garden, is that something you wanted to do with your time? If so, you accomplished it. Similar to producing good feelings in others. It warms your heart but very hard to quantify. Life is full of quantitative measures and qualitative measures. A mix is ok and normal. The purely hard core goal people worry me sometimes. Good luck to you with the office reorganization. Sounds like it will work out just fine for you.

12:42pm • #2
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Hey there..today is another day...tomorrow another...life and it's curve balls teach us lessons ...that's for sure. What worked before may not work now. What may work in the future may not work now....the NOW. The NOW. Just BEING is what you have lived by...when we let go...it all happens.

What do I do so I don't feel I'm wasting time? Doing everything I need to do to take care of the ME first....then everything else follows...for without me...and sense of self ...I have nothing. Can't love if I don't love self. Can't help if I can't help myself. Can't do a darn thing.

Tangible. Hmmmm....I can't see inside but I feel it. That feels good. I haven't wasted the time it took to get where I am today.

Thanks friend...for being a friend.

 

Darn good coffee this morning!

12:42pm • #3
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Kathy,

There are many intangibles that have value...Inspiration, Wisdom, Knowledge, etc...like that 'priceless' commercial...! Thanks,   Fran

P.S. And all our good works that go unnoticed or are done in secret!!! Leave the measuring to the measurer!!! :)

1:56pm • #4
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Jan- Thanks....and yes, now that I've made the decision I'm OK with it.  A few others are saying well you could do this or that.....you know the things that will drive you crazy trying to work out when you cna't move on. Anyway, it is time to move on, and I've already been working out my next plan :)  Oh, and you are so right about working with people you can trust.....that helps big time :)

Gary- Thank you for sharing that insight....and yes it really does boil down to is it something you wanted to do :)  For me at least....and when we know ourselves, really know who we are, and what makes us tick....then we can accept that sitting in the Garden isn't a waste of time, no matter how many others might think so.

 Thank you for the wishes on the Re-organization ...I'm OK with it.

Sally- Hey Friend...Glad that "the coffee was good today" and that you could express those thoughts here.  Yes, we must take care of ourselves, and that isn't always something measureable....at least not in the "now" as you said.  But Hindsight is the test of what we really did with our time, and if it worked "for us".  Personal Growth.....what a wonderful thing to do with our time :)

Fran- Did you come here to add your glow to this post (your glowing personality as measured by the Blogging Quiz)  LOL........but seriously I agree on those intangibles.  They are indeed priceless. You make sense of course.

Now as a Parent....do you expect some tangible results from your kids after a whole day?

2:24pm • #5
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 Hi Kathy, I guess we've all had a few times in our lives and our businesses that we've been at that crossroad. Re "it just came down to Make a Decision, good or bad, right or wrong.....make one!"...

 The only thing I'm sure of is that we can't always see the result/consequence until the decision has been made. It's impossible to predict every outcome. Some of my best decisions were pure accidents or things I was sure were the wrong choice. We never know.

2:25pm • #6
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Hi marti- Oh how true that is of "not being able to see the result/consequence"....when I opened that office I had no idea at all if it would work.  Turns out it was a great decision.  Now in closing it, only time will tell if that was the best decision.  Actually in this case....it doesn't matter, as I won't be second guessing myself....when I lock the door for the final time, we're done out there and that's it.

Again, the "We never know" is what makes some decisions so hard, and indeed I think it's fair to say we've all been there at some point in our lives.

2:37pm • #7
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Kathy - I'm not a big believer that accomplishments need to be "tangible". I'm as good at wasting time as the next person. But there are times when I have nothing to show for my efforts, yet I know what I've done was well worth my while. Congratulations on making your decision. I'm sure it wasn't easy.

3:47pm • #8
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Hi Tom ~ so nice to see you, I look all the time in the So Call Pass Area Group, but the last post from you was on carragie rides I think.   LOL :)  Anyway, I hope all is well with you, and yes we can waste time and feel it was worthwhile for some reason or another.  And as far as my own decision...no it wasn't easy, I have been needing to decide for a few months now, and today was just the day.  No more procrastinating and second guessing :)

4:46pm • #9
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Kathy, Some days to me just watching the flowers grow is an accomplishment.  Intangible to others, maybe, but it not something I would have taken the time to do years ago....

5:19pm • #10
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Carole- I understand....and that is part of my point....who is to say that the intangibles aren't worth our time :)   Each of us will decide for ourselves and our situations.....that's my belief.  How are you anyway.....funny I just left Jo's post on her forever friends :)

5:55pm • #11
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Hi Kathy,
My, my what a "deep" post.  

Being busy does not always mean real work. The object of all work is production or accomplishment and to either of these ends there must be forethought, system, planning, intelligence, and honest purpose, as well as perspiration. Seeming to do is not doing."  Thomas Edison

 

8:31pm • #12
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kathy- Doesn't the intangible of the time you spent thinking and deciding turn into a tangible down the road when the actually act and work and sweat and tears of closing the office takes place? Everything we do starts with a thought and gets us to that measurable part of our life.

It sounds as if you made a sound decision, though bittersweet.

8:40pm • #13
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Cynthia- Funny...yes, the Tuesday Posts I never know what they're going to be, but they're ususally something that's on my mind....scary huh LOL :)  I loved your quote, and I hope you are enjoying your summer so far.

Martha-  Now why could't I say that LOL :)  You are very right, a thought does turn into a tnagible after some type of action takes place.  Thanks for adding that insight .....

9:55pm • #14
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Kathy, It sounds like you had one of those introspective days.  I'm glad that you made your decision.  It is so hard to be in limbo and it is always nice to make a decision (good or bad). 

10:27pm • #15
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Marchel- Yes, I think that's right, and introspective day.  A lot of thinking that's for sure, and I am glad that the decision is made.  Thanks for coming by and the supportive comment, I appreciate it.

11:03pm • #16
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25
2008
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Kathy, I had to make the same tough decision last year with the building company my father started in 1960 and I ran since 1978. I feel for you, but the accomplishment comes in the fact that you (and I) gave it our best shot and helped and provided our services to many. Still never fun though. Hang in there.

5:49am • #17
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contact any other agents in the area and see who wants to lease the furnishings, referr the listings, make some lemonaid.  cheryl

11:13am • #18
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26
2008
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Duane- Thanks for sharing your experience, and you are right closing the office wasn't not an easy decision, but I know it is the right one.

Cheryl- I hadn't thought of that for the furniture, thanks.....Did you show my listing yet..... LOL :)  Remember Sheldon, MO :)

12:59am • #19
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I think knowing at the end of the day you are still alive is enough accomplishment for me. But, you know what, sometimes the peace at the end of a long thought session can be and should be enough. I often go fishing with this as a goal, not to catch fish, but to accomplish something as simple as clearing my mind. Your mind needs to be cleared of the thoughts of "What if..." The "What if..." that is in front of you now is "What if I close this office at the wrong time, things change, or if I don't close it will it bankrupt me" Big "What if..." But, the accomplishment of clearing your mind of worry, can be the big accomplishment of the day, even though no one else sees it, you have really accomplished something for yourself!

Todd Clark, Helping Families Home - www.IFoundYourNewHome.com

1:08am • #20
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     Kathy,   Just got around to reading this post.   The worst thing we as owners/brokers do is second guess ourselves.  Nothing moves forward when our mind yin/yangs.

     Use whatever you can from the second office.  Refer the listings, close down the infra-structure of the office, and don't look back.  Went through this back in 2005 and am a stronger, better, more focused person for it.  The same will happen to you. 

11:23am • #21
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27
2008
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Being a small business and having the flexibility to make these changes is quite an advantage.  There is not corporate B.S. to deal with, no endless meetings, no committees, just one decision maker and that is that.  This is quite an advantage from my perspective!

The times when I have had to make changes be them personal or financial there has been pros & cons but I live without regret and so far so good.  Many times these hard decisions uncover blessings we did not know were waiting.

5:13am • #22
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30
2008
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Oh Kathy........I've missed the last few of your posts......I'm trying to catch you........

I so love this post......its so speaks ...resonates deep within me.  I have those very same questions " how do we measure the inner workings of our mind if there's nothing tangible to measure?  And again, does that negate the time?

Do you have any idea how profound that questioning is - when pen is put to paper or key to screen? While meandering through your mind it seems like shifting sand with nothing to hold on to.....But....But...

There are few days ever that I don't question the 'lasting value' of what I've done.......what I haven't done.......I'm not sure if there's even an answer in all of that.......probably someone wiser then me can see it...........but........just knowing someone else thinks it....feels it......gets lost within those thoughts...and then can still come up for air......and move on...........is comforting... Finally making a decision is comforting..........the brink of oneis not so comfortable.......comfortable in our discomfort.....hmmm

Thanks Kathy.........you make a difference....

1:12am • #23
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Todd- Thank you for the wisdom of that statement......it is indeed the what if's that need to be cleared from the mind for sure.  I read your comment a few times....:)

Kim- I aoppreciate your comments, and that is exactly what I plan to do.  Already I am feeling stronger :) It's nice to hear from someone that has been there, done that.

Hi Nannette- Having flexibility is a gift, as is the ability to make decisions without needing approval as you said.  Believe me I do value this, but sometimes it is still hard.  Pro's and Con's I separate most big decisions into columns with these as the heading.  Then I add to each column and weigh it, and make the decision on which column means more to me.  Right or Wrong once I have made the decision it is over :)

Liz-Ahh I could feel  your words.  I think we will have a lot to talk about on our 80 days around the world trip :) :)   Here's how I compartmentalize the complexity of my thoughts....I think of my mind like a Rolodex......"the Rolodex of my mind" :):)  Sometimes I need a few minutes to just sort through the thoughts to find the one I need or want for that moment......

All of my close friends laugh at me and ask if I ever stop thinking....I have been said to be Intense, thinking a million thoughts a minute.....and surely not all these thoughts can have value...... LOL :)  I enjoyed your thoughts......and yes we can come up for air and move on :)

 

2:03am • #24
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Hmmm Rolodex you say?  Mine's more like a Bingo Machine........lolMine tell me that my "why's' and why nots"  will be the downfall of me!  Intense......yep thats another one...........Love it when you share your thoughts.

11:30am • #25
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08
2008
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and on rereading that blog.......i'm off to bed.......c a l m ........AND stilled filled with more questions then answers...

2:55am • #26
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Liz- Calm is good, especially for bedtime.  Hey those questions will be here in the daytime :)  I got a kick out of the Bingo Machine...I will try to put that one into some sort of card for my Rolodex....... LOL :)

 

N-26......Liz wondering if gas is cheaper in Ontario or Toronto

I-16......Liz questioning whether the Title of her new blog says what she really wants it to say

B-9......Does Liz want to take time off at Christmas to be with her family, or maybe a client might have a need, or maybe that is the time to revamp the marketing, or maybe just shop, or maybe just sit in front of the fire, or maybe have some quiet time in the garden, or maybe make a new website.......B-9

 

Bingo.......Liz has won for sensitivity and personality...step right up for your prize :)

11:14am • #27
JUL
09
2008
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Wow Kathy - how cool, lol.......B I N G O and Bingo was his name! lol........Well.......i should ask Sylvie how much gas is in Toronto.....here in Vancouver its 1.47/litre......4 litres to a gallon......hmmm.......not pretty.......actually for me to drive from here in Chilliwack to downtown vancouver and back is almost a full tank of gas.........and I have to do it tomorrow.......

Title of my last blog.......hmm.........grin..........diplomatic, is what I call it........

Christmas......OH MY I can't even go there! I'm trying hard to focus one day at a time...:-)

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