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Coping With Alzheimer's Is Always A Challenge! Can Hit At Any Age

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After my meeting yesterday with the neurologist, I decided today to start a journal. She prescribed some medication to hopefully slow the progress of my Alzheimer’s illness. I’m physically very healthy, and she made a point of recognizing that fact.  

 

Alzheimer’s is not a reflection of mental acuity. It’s a disease that alters memory. I often forget where I’ve placed items. The most recent game of “hide and seek” was with facemasks that I strategically placed to find easily.  I tore this house apart looking for them. I finally found them in the one place I did not look!!!! 

 

If you want a chuckle, I opened every cabinet and drawer in the house. I’ll admit, I even looked in the freezer!!!! 

They were finally found in a drawer. 

 

My calendar is my closest ally. I write everything on post-its and the calendar box for each day is filled with appointments, including but not limited to a variety of Doctors. 

 

Just the thought of having been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease is an awakening!  It scared the B’Jesus out of me. I spend time reading; writing narratives; playing scrabble and solitaire online.  

 

I’ve mastered solitaire to the point of completion within 3 minutes. The game of chance is a key component with solitaire, just like life! 

 

There is no cure for Alzheimer’s. Exercising the brain as much as possible is a necessity. Taking medication to slow the progress of this disease is another important component of surviving its negative influences.  

 

This illness could rear its ugly head at any age. I originally met with the neurologist because of anxiety and depression. I rarely have depression now and will not take anti-depression meds. I don’t want to feel drugged. The fear of medication was the cure for my depression!!!  

 

Those are my thoughts to share today..... 

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Barbara Todaro, Great Grandmother to Caleb, Santino, Aiden and Gianni       

Todaro Team - Retired

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Comments(30)

Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Hello Barbara,

     I have not been in AR for over a year.  In browsing my first post I read is by my friend Barbara Todaro.  A fireball of a person who inspired me with every no nonsense post written.  

    Rather than be saddened with this news I will take it as a reminder of life.  Be happy my timing allows a hello and best wishes.  And to share a chuckle with you.  In my 'where the heck did I put that?!?*' searches I will look in the freezer also, and the oven, on ocassion, does not go unsearched.

    In the doc saying you are in great phyical shape I am guessing you still do some weights?  I vividly remember some very impressive photos of your weight lifting in the gym.  

    Best in going forward, because I know there is no backwards for you.  Mark

Mar 18, 2021 04:40 PM
Kathy Streib

Mark= I wish the tag feature was working. I was so happy to see your face in the comments to BarbaraT. And your comment was very uplifing. 

Mar 18, 2021 06:36 PM
Kat Palmiotti

Nice to see you Mark!

Mar 19, 2021 06:07 AM
Barbara Todaro

Thank you, Mark....I must have read your comment a dozen times.... thank you is not enough.....

Mar 20, 2021 05:01 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

BarbaraT- I've read all of the comments and know that if you haven't you will read them soon. Chris Ann offered some excellent advice. I cannot imagine what you are feeling but I know you to be a fighter. And while there is no cure for Alzheimers, what you are doing with your attitude and continued efforts at staying physically in shape...I feel that you will punch this thing in the nose every chance you get. 

Mar 18, 2021 06:38 PM
Barbara Todaro

yes..... with every bit of strength I have...mentally and physically.... 

Mar 20, 2021 05:02 AM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Barbara.

What a fighter that everyone knows you are.  Hang in there, keep your mind busy.

Mar 19, 2021 12:22 AM
Barbara Todaro

will do....

Mar 20, 2021 08:48 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Friday morning, Barbara.

Thanks for your update. I hope your are now keeping a daily journal.

Mar 19, 2021 04:43 AM
Barbara Todaro

I am and will share at some point....

Mar 20, 2021 08:48 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Hmm, I have done that many times in my life, can't find something and realize it is in the one place I did not look.  Heck, I have even looked around the house for my sunglasses only to find that they were already propped on my forehead and all I had to do was pull them down, haha.

Mar 19, 2021 05:54 AM
Barbara Todaro

so, there is hope for me!!

Mar 20, 2021 08:47 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I can imagine a diagnosis of Alzheimer's would be very scary. Luckily you are physically fit, have an involved family and friends, and are retaining your positive fighting spirit. Journaling thoughts is a great idea, as is doing all the puzzles. We're all here for you.

Oh, and as for losing things. My silliest stories are those that occur when I'm hunting for something that is on my head (glasses) or in my pocket. That happens to all of us.

Mar 19, 2021 06:07 AM
Barbara Todaro

I chuckled at your story....

Mar 20, 2021 08:47 AM
faye schubert
Retired - Branson, MO
Living the Branson Lake Life

Barbara, you continue to be a role model in so many ways and I know you will be that beacon of light in this current journey.

You continue to touch so many lives with your posts and open our eyes to being the best we can be.

Mar 19, 2021 06:49 AM
Barbara Todaro

value every day.... your mind is most valuable....cherish the memories while you continue to have them.....

Mar 20, 2021 08:46 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

You have an amazing attitude with a most determined mindset Barbara. Those two things will keep tickling your brain to keep your focus sharp. The best to you! 💝

Mar 19, 2021 12:49 PM
Barbara Todaro

my memory is what I'm fearful of losing.... Alzheimer's doesn't influence mental acuity.... just memory.... and I exercise that brain every day, Wanda.....

Mar 20, 2021 05:07 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Saturday morning, Barbara.

Have a lovely weekend.

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Mar 20, 2021 07:16 AM
Barbara Todaro

I'm looking forward to a warm day in Massachusetts...we may get one tomorrow..... and if that happens, the top will be off the BMW.... 

Mar 20, 2021 09:02 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Barbara, my thoughts are with you. I pray they continue to make discoveries about this disease and nip it in the bud - sooner than later. By the way, I too tore the house apart the other day looking for a silk mask ( a fav of mine). Only to find it in a drawer I apparently missed. 

Mar 21, 2021 08:01 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Sunday afternoon. Barbara. I hope you are enjoying the weekend.

Make sure you include all of your thoughts in today's journal.

Mar 21, 2021 10:54 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Barbara both my father in-law and my Aunt had a far more advanced case of Alzheimer's than you.  It is a challenging disease for the person dealing with it and well as for family members.  Barbara I pray that you are able to slow the progression of it, and do not ever have to deal with the advance stages of this disease.

Mar 21, 2021 12:50 PM
Rocky Dickerson
Realty One Group - Las Vegas, NV
Superior Service!

Good morning Barbara! My prayers are with you as you proceed down this journey. May they keep your symptoms at bay with the slowest of progressions.

Mar 22, 2021 07:34 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

thank you, everyone, for your continued support.... many of your comments made me smile.... smiling is a great form of therapy....maintaining a positive outlook as I continue on my new journey.... I'm thankful for having patient friends and family surrounding me.... 

Mar 22, 2021 07:48 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Barbara my heart breaks for you, I remember when you broke the news... I had my phone ready to call you but... I had excuses... all the time.. I am so with you not just because of our MA connection...Endre

Mar 23, 2021 09:55 PM
Jane Chaulklin-Schott
TEAMCONNECT REALTY - (407) 394-9766 - Orlando, FL
TeamConnect Luxury Homes - Orlando, Florida, 32836

Dear Barbara, I feel that as you write these days, you continue to be positive and uplifting to others... a leader who shows others the way in the more challenging aspects of our lives. 
I also feel strongly there is hope and healing in this picture.  No one knows for sure when there will be an opening in the medical and neurological fields today.  You are a strong individual -- your physical strength and determination in the lifting of barbells, -- unbelievable. 
The journal writing, keeping at brain and mind activities to build new dendrites and pathways in the brain -- just wonderful. Exercising the brain muscles.  You will always be in my thoughts and prayers...  You have a good plan going,,,and you have the dedicated perseverance and inner discipline to follow it through... 

Mar 25, 2021 05:40 PM
Kris Collis, Associate Broker
Smart Way America Realty - East Stroudsburg, PA
Professional Results you Expect 570-801-5525

Dear @Barbara Todaro,  

You leadership and dedication are the hallmark of AR inspiration now and always.  That's established! Now you're replacing real estate direct mail postcards to your farm with health postcards to your brain.  

Your approaches and self-treatments do for your brain what your advertising did for your farm - trigger the intended clients into action.  Just your farm has changed, from postcards to others to mental/spiritual postcards to you. 

It's all about farming you now to activate and generate neurons.  Your farm in retirement is you and you deserve all that attention!

Apr 04, 2021 12:13 AM
Barbara Todaro

I love retirement.... I exercise my brain every day..... my kindle is filled with reading material and I focus on educating myself with everything I can find on this horrible illness.... Alzheimer's is very scary.... mine is at a moderate stage....on a scale of 1 to 10, I'm a 5 or 6 according to my neurologist, as she was staring at the mri of my brain... I guess there has been shrinkage.... I'm on medication now to slow the process and reading is my new hobbie!!! @

Apr 13, 2021 03:56 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Barbara, I love reading that you are keeping a journal...a great idea for everyone. You are one of the strongest people I've known. Your strength and determination have always been evident. You are a triumphant survivor. Wishing you a wonderful Easter Sunday enjoying your beautiful family! 

Apr 04, 2021 08:03 AM
Jane Chaulklin-Schott
TEAMCONNECT REALTY - (407) 394-9766 - Orlando, FL
TeamConnect Luxury Homes - Orlando, Florida, 32836

Just writing to let you know I keep you in my thoughts and prayers, Barbara.  I am so happy you have so many posts and I am going to locate them and read and read.  Have a great week, Barbara.  You have such a beautiful family and so much to be grateful for.  I am hoping that medicine soon moves ahead and finds cures for the disorders and illnesses we encounter that are so challenging...  Perhaps we are nearer to those cures than ever before in history, we pray.

Apr 12, 2021 10:00 PM
Edward Gilmartin
CRE - Boston, MA

That’s horrible. Are you able to still work out at the gym

Apr 09, 2022 02:35 PM