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The Power of Ignorance:

By
Services for Real Estate Pros with Bryce Mohan Photography

I'm going to ask you a question in a moment that I hope you'll both think carefully about.

However, before I do that I want to share a moment from my life with you:

To the left is a quick snap I took this weekend. That's my son, aged 21 months. We were at the superb Pacific Science Center in Seattle. What's he doing tugging on that rope, you ask?

He's lifting 250 kilos.

To be sure, he is participating in a demonstration of leverage. He's also getting a little help from mom to boot (hey, he's only 21 months).

Now, if I asked you if a toddler could lift 250 kilos would you say no? Would you say it's not possible?

Maybe.

I'll tell you something though, my son wasn't daunted in the least. He grabbed that rope with the utmost confidence.

Why? Because he doesn't know he "can't" do it!

You might say he is completely ignorant of his limitations. Hmm.

 

Let's rewind the tape a bit:

It's me at center stage now, about to make a massive transition from corporate manager to professional photographer. Can you guess what people told me?

  • Art is great, but you'll never make a living at it
  • It's really great that you are exploring that side of your personality, but what will you do for income?
  • There's just too much competition in that kind of marketplace, the stars would have to align for it to work out for you
  • Sure, people make a good career out of it but it's like professional sports, it's a one in a million shot
  • Everyone can buy a cheap digital camera now, no one will pay well for photos

You know what? I was just too plain ignorant, to dumb to heed the warnings, and apparently too stubborn to give up. 

So I went and made a success of myself.

Fast forward a bit, I'm at it again:

This time I decide to branch out, perhaps even specialize in architectural photography via real estate. It's something I enjoy, the market is clearly there (in fact it's ripe for it). Any guesses as to what I heard?

  • It'll never work
  • Real estate agents don't understand the impact photography has on their listings, they'll never pay for it
  • Sure, they'll pay for it...but only the absolute minimum price...usually they hire those 'no experience necessary' virtual tour people.
  • When have you heard of a real estate agent that would actually expend funds to make a sale? They don't come from a business background, they come from sales
  • You won't even make the cost of your gas back (yes, someone really said this).

Once again I remained completely ignorant that it was impossible for me to succeed, and succeed I did.

Here's that question I promised:

Could it be that we impose the toughest barriers we may ever encounter, on ourselves? That we do so by equating difficult with impossible? That we do so by believing people who tell us; "It cannot be done, don't try". That we do so because we fear if we try we may fail? 

I want you to think for a moment about all the people you've read about, heard about, met - all those people who overcame amazing odds to achieve what they dreamed of.

What's different about you and them? I have a surprise for you.

Practically nothing.

Maybe the only real difference at all is they were just too dang ignorant to realize it can't be done. :)

So what when have you done the impossible? What will you do next? Shout it out and go get it!

Cheers, -B

Real-Estate-Photography

Comments(31)

"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL
I most certainly am :)
Mar 12, 2007 01:53 PM
Bryce Mohan
Bryce Mohan Photography - Bellevue, WA

George: thanks for the detailed response! I am definitely lucky to have the little guy and his mom as well. :)

BTW, The Edge is one of my favorite movies for a variety of reasons not the least of which is the courage displayed by Hopkins' character in adverse conditions, to say the least. Great film!

Today, I will kill the bear!

Mar 12, 2007 01:55 PM
Bryce Mohan
Bryce Mohan Photography - Bellevue, WA
George: P.S. Not all photographers are as diabolical as Baldwin's character was....mainly just the fashion shooters. ;)
Mar 12, 2007 01:58 PM
George Tallabas
RE/MAX Advantage - Nampa, ID
Idaho Real Estate
Good for you Bryce and remember....."What one man can do, another can do"!
Mar 12, 2007 02:01 PM
"JT" Prevatte
Former Agent - Fayetteville, NC

Ok...keep up these blogs and you are going on the favorites list.

"I'll tell you something though, my son wasn't daunted in the least. He grabbed that rope with the utmost confidence.

Why? Because he doesn't know he "can't" do it!

You might say he is completely ignorant of his limitations. Hmm."

There are many things I "wish I didn't know that I couldn't do".  Children are soo innocent...they accomplish so much because no one has ever told them they couldn't.

Negativity is a nasty thing....I grows and manifests by itself after the seed has been planted.  Anyone got any roundup?

Mar 12, 2007 02:03 PM
Elaine Reese, REALTOR® in central Ohio
Real Living HER, Powell Ohio - Powell, OH

This ties in nicely with your comment on my post. When I was in my 30's & 40's, I said that I didn't want to be sitting in a rocking chair wishing I had done something or the other. I've done everything I wanted to do and there's still time - hopefully - to do more.

Glad you and your wife took the jump to do something that is meaningful to you and allows you to have fun with the family.

The way I look at it is if we DO fail at anything, it just provides another fork in the road that leads to an even newer opportunity. This was a great, inspirational post!

Mar 12, 2007 02:09 PM
Maureen Maureen
Orangeburg, NY
Bryce -There is such power in your photographs. You truly have a gift and you are blessed to be able to make a living at it.  And we are blessed that you are willing to share some of your talent in the Rain.  Thanks.
Mar 12, 2007 02:15 PM
Jennifer Walker-Derby
Re/Max Westside - Marietta, GA
Real Estate Extraordinaire

There is nothing more true than that!

When I became licensed in real estate, I started working "on site" with a builder.  Knowing it did not match my personality, I stayed longer than I should because I got all caught up in the "resale is scary" mentality.  Every agent in that company was miserable but was too petrified to go make it out on their own in the world of resale.

The day before I quit, I had lunch with an old girlfriend.  When I expressed my apprehension about the scary transition from onsite to resale she said, without hesitation, "wow!  when have you ever been afraid to take a chance and when have your chances failed to pay off for you?"  I paused in thought, bought her lunch and put in my notice the next day.

My first year in resale I closed 53 transactions!  Confidence is a powerful thing.

Mar 12, 2007 02:23 PM
Edite Liepina-Lawrence
ERA Tradewind Real Estate - Longmont, CO

I do things I cannot do in order to learn how to do it! (Pablo Picasso) Nice post Bruce!

I also LOVE movie the Edge or any other movie with Kodiak bears in it. The fact itself that a bear that size and nature obeys a human, is a manifestation of impossible

 

Mar 12, 2007 02:24 PM
Dave Pautsch
RE/MAX Integrity - Albany, OR
REALTOR, CRS

Many years ago I attended a "Motivational Seminar" and, although I can no longer remember the name of the speaker, this one quote has always stuck with me. 

In a smooth southern drawl, the speaker said "Ladies and Gentlemen, did you know that the Bumblebee, aerodynamically cannot fly?  But, the bumblebee don't know that, and he just goes right on ahead and flies anyway!"

For over 25 years those words have rung in my ears...and it always gives me pause when I hear the words "I can't do that." 

 

Mar 12, 2007 02:34 PM
Bryce Mohan
Bryce Mohan Photography - Bellevue, WA

George: Thanks again - you area a wonderful supporter of your fellow Rainers. :)

Jeffery: Right on, they are a model for us all. If we are honest, of course we all succumb to feelings of negativity from time to time (myself included). I wrote this blog as much to remind myself as to remind others. there is a lot of power in putting your thoughts into written form. Thanks for stopping by and commenting. :)

Elaine: Thanks so much - it really feels good to put something up (especially when it's so personal) and have people make the connection with it!

Maureen: Thanks you, your comment really touched me. Being in the creative field is difficult at times because everything you do is so personal. Everything you do us up for value judgement by someone else and they are entitled to their opinion even if their opinion is that your work is poor.

Jennifer: 53! Wow, that's a success story to shout from the rooftops! Fantastic!

Edite: Very interesting take - that never even occurred to me! Thanks for stopping by. :)

Dave: Very good quote. From my studies of quantum mechanics I can also share the sun isn't hot / dense enough to actually burn it's fuel in terms of conventional science. Quantum dynamics make up the difference of course...and it keeps on going. :) 

Cheers, -B

Mar 12, 2007 02:36 PM
Fran Gatti
RE/MAX Integrity - Medford, OR
Managing Principal Broker - RE/MAX Integrity

Bryce,

A lovely post.  How wonderful that you have this positive way of thinking while your son is so young. He will be brought up thinking anything is possible.  My husband had that way of thinking, and it manifested in our five children to varying degrees.  I finally caught on when he convinced me I could pass the real estate exam on my first try (which I did) and that I'd be the best agent ever. 

He's an awesome inspiration to everyone around him.  Thankfully, he shares that with 30 kids every year in his classroom.  We are all better off for people like you and my husband Garry.

Thanks for sharing,

Fran

Mar 12, 2007 02:41 PM
Irene Potter
ZipRealty Residential Brokerage - Maple Valley, WA
Creating moving experiences in real estate

Bryce, you are not only a fantastic photographer you are also one fabulous writer. Thanks so much for reminding us to expand our inner selves and keep open to success.

PS That's one really cute little guy there :-)

Mar 12, 2007 02:46 PM
Joeann Fossland
Advantage Solutions Group - Tucson, AZ
Master Certified Coach to Motivated Agents

How right you are! And how blessed is that beautiful son to have a thoughtful father!


I got into real estate in 1983......We were excited interest rates had dropped from 20% to 17% and the average time on market had dropped from 9 months to 6 months! I was the top sales associate in the office in my 6th month! I truly didn't know any better and thought it was a GREAT time to get into real estate.

Thanks for a good reminder to do that which you don't know how to do.

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Mar 12, 2007 02:56 PM
Mitchell Jamel
Brite Real Estate Professionals - Saint Augustine Florida - Saint Augustine, FL
e-PRO Realtor
Bryce, So true... I was lucky enough to dream and my dreams turn to reality. With out hope you have no future. I am so grateful to still believe in myself each and every day! some days it's hard, but thanks to post like yours it renews my Beliefs. Have you had a Chance to watch the Secret?
Mar 12, 2007 04:03 PM
Ken Spencer
Buckeye, AZ
for Verrado, Buckeye, Sundance

Yes Bryce.  We are limited only by what we think might limit us.  Right on.......I like your excellent example with your son.  Too bad we all grow up and figure out all the things we can't do rather than be positive like our young people.

Ken

Mar 12, 2007 06:00 PM
Allison Stewart
St.Cloud Homes - Saint Cloud, FL
St. Cloud Fl Realtor, Osceola County Real Estate 407-616-9904
Bryce- Artists are a very different breed-we see things from a different perspective than others do. That is  what inspires us to capture beautiful images first from our minds eye, then through the lense. Because of this unique ability we can accomplish anything we set our artisitic minds too because by our nature, we think outside of conventional constraints. Shoot for the stars..you're ready there!  A Touching, inspiring post.
Mar 13, 2007 12:22 AM
Diane Bell, Hilton Head Real Estate, Bluffton
Charter 1 Real Estate, Hilton Head, Bluffton, SC - Hilton Head Island, SC
Your post describes so perfectly.....We Are What We Think! 
Mar 13, 2007 12:30 AM
Mary Pope-Handy
Christie's International Real Estate Sereno - Los Gatos, CA
CRS, CIPS, ABR, SRES, Silicon Valley
Bryce, that is a very cool photo of your son!  And of course you're right: attitude is (at least almost) everything.
Mar 13, 2007 06:34 AM
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