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Monday Musings: Are You in a Receptive State of Mind?

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Napa Consultants DRE00893924

We define the receptive state of mind as being tuned in, tapped in and eager to see what it is in front of your nose (the obvious) that will be of benefit you. 

 

We would describe the receptive state of mind as a happy mind.  Happy people attract happy people, happy circumstances and easy solutions to problems.  They don't anticipate resistance, they anticipate results.  Things always workout for them. 

 

"Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you. It can only come from you."

~ Ralph Marston

 

Unhappy people anticipate road blocks, and they get them by the dozen.  They can state facts and statistics that  all kinds of problems exist on their way to their goal.  They are so sure of this, that if you were to give them the solution, they would not comprehend it or see it.

 

"Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections."

~ Gerard Way

 

They are more intent on emphasizing the problems and the difficuties rather than seeing the light ahead. They will often say, "I see what you mean, BUT!"  At which point, if you continue, you will yourself agreeing with them, and feeling bad as a result.

 

During this crazy last year with the health crisis, we have stayed away even more than ever from the news, negative people and all the experts who predicted the end of the world.  

 

We stayed happy and healthy, we found ways to enjoy even more what we have and we grew even happier as a result.  We saw it as an opportunity, rather than a hindrance.

 

Our secret is taking fifteen minutes every day to meditate, just to sit relax and be a human being instead of a human doing. Let the thoughts fly, and find the stillness of inspiration. Be mindful, in the moment... all there is that moment--now!

 

"The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts."

~ Marcus Aurelius

 

"Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life."

~ Omar Khayyam

 

 

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Comments(18)

Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Alexandra,

What a wonderful post to inspire us all on a Monday morning. I treat everyday the same. I never look at Monday differently, unless there was something that was disappointing the day before.  I made an offer $25,000 over asking on a home and the sellers did not accept it!  So your post really helped fill the void along with the warm sunshine of this morning.  BTW, we did get the backup position.  It is really crazy right now. Happy Monday

Apr 12, 2021 08:26 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Happy Monday A and Ron,  It all depends on the positive attitude a person has and looks at thinks.  Love the quotes.

 

Apr 12, 2021 08:33 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Hi Alexandra... Gerard Way got it right. Then again, all the quotes you provided this morning were excellent in getting your point across.

Apr 12, 2021 08:59 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Alexandra and Ron - well-done.  

Apr 12, 2021 09:44 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Love that picture. The quotes are great.  I like Marcus's best. 

Apr 12, 2021 12:39 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Ron and Alexandra- I do love all of your quotes. You know I've known some people whose receptive state of mind seems to only be tuned to negative thoughts and wavelengths. 

Apr 12, 2021 12:49 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy,

I am certain we all have encountered those types, and the moment we do, we excuse ourselves for that urgent appointment on earth...LOL A

Apr 12, 2021 01:20 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sharon,

Marcus Aurelius was a very wise man.  He lived in B. C. times.  A

Apr 12, 2021 01:21 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Michael,

Thank you, I appreciate your kind words.  A

Apr 12, 2021 01:22 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Nina,

We have come to the point, where we look at imperfections as perfections.  A

Apr 12, 2021 01:23 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Will,

Thank you for your comment.  We all like positivity to surround us.

Apr 12, 2021 01:24 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sheri,

Thank you for the kind words.  I am happy to add a smile to someone's day.  Happy Monday.  A

Apr 12, 2021 01:25 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Being happy is being open to the good things that await, rather than worry about the things that are not. Enjoyed your Monday Musings post very much along with the stunning photograph Ron and Alexandra. Thank you for that!

Apr 12, 2021 05:41 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

I may have had a better day had I read this earlier.  I'll try to be more inspired for Tuesday

Apr 12, 2021 05:46 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Ed,

I wish you a great Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and the whole month for that matter. A

Apr 12, 2021 08:47 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Alexandra.

As you already know, I'm a very happy person.  At my age I can't let anything else enter into it. 

Apr 13, 2021 01:13 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

So well said and I only want to attract happy people to be around me, that is why I keep a smile on my face!

Apr 13, 2021 05:58 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

I like your selection of quotes.

Take care, be safe and have a productive week.

Apr 13, 2021 07:53 AM