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I was somewhat down yesterday.  Okay, I was really down yesterday.  I mean, I was I spitting mad at my kids, frustrated by work, overwhelmed with housework, saddened by the death of a child of a co-worker of mine, and mostly sick of myself for not counting my blessings....

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I really didn't know where to go with all of these conflicting feelings.  So I wrote a post. 

Within minutes, my phone rang.  Picture of Real Estate Agent: Amanda Hall--BROKER Fort Worth Texas (Hall Team Homes)

This smart, lovely lady called to make me smile.  Amanda Hall and I have never spoken on the phone.  We've carried on in hijacked posts and had tons of fun doing it, but have never spoken to each other.  Until yesterday, when Amanda had the feeling she could help.  So she did. Amanda reached out and I am privileged to call her friend and to have her telephone number stored on my cell phone!

Later yesterday, I missed a telephone call.  When I checked my messages, it turns out that another rainer called to say hi.  Picture of Real Estate Agent: Jason Crouch, Broker -  Austin Texas Real Estate (Austin Texas Homes, LLC)Jason Crouch, a great man who happens to be #1 in his home state on Active Rain.  I have never spoken with Jason before.  We've commented on each other's posts and I really love to read his stuff, but we don't really know each other.  Coincidence?  I don't think so.

All through the day, I got encouragement via email from a man who I feel I have become very good friends with.  Gary Woltal and I have never spoken, but yesterday, more than ever, this man reached out to see how I was doing. 

If you haven't had the pleasure of getting to know Gary through his heartwarming posts, you don't know what you are missing.  First thing this morning, first email I read and Gary is checking in.

Picture of Real Estate Agent: Gary Woltal - REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth  (Keller Williams Realty)

Today, I was out with clients and the telephone rang again.  Jason Crouch calling (another stored number in my phone).  By the time I was finished with my client, he was with his client, so we didn't get a chance to speak.  I truly want to thank him for his kindness.

I walked in the door this afternoon to my cell phone ringing again.  Picture of Real Estate Agent: Fairbanks Real Estate Broker Jesse Clifton (Jesse & Kathy Clifton, REALTORS - 907.699.6024 - )Jesse Clifton is just a wonderful human being.  He was calling today, on his way out of town for a few days, just to check in because I seemed a little down yesterday.  Jesse made me laugh, as always.  Not only is he a great realtor and a smart man, but he is just a great guy.  The third number stored in my phone in 24 hours, and all from my friends on Active Rain.

This is a public affirmation.  To the folks at Active Rain for creating this community.  To Amanda, Jason, Gary, and Jesse for really reaching out there.  To all the caring comments on this post and many others from wonderful people like TLW, Chris Fisher, Jason Sardi, Neal Bloom, Elaine Hanson, C. Tann-Starr, Sylvie, Pam, Sally Cheeseman, Irene Woodworth, Richard, Marc, Don, Andrew (come back), Jenn, Pat, Mara, Lisa, Mirela, Liz Carter, Paul S. ... and many others.  I can't thank you all enough for being people who I think of as friends.  Someday, I am going on a huge road trip.  I am going to stop by and visit a lot of you and raise a glass to your humanity.  I am touched by it and I am humbled.  Thank you.

 

 

 
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24 Comments on People, People Who Need People

Susan,

You are a good judge of character...these are 'all star' rainers with character...and time tested!!! Thanks,   Fran

06/26/2008 05:24 PM by Fran 'The Title Man' Gaspari Title Insurance-PA & NJ (Patriot Land Transfer, Inc.)


Awesome post Susan! Everyone has down times, and it's ok. It makes you appreciate the UP times more!  My favorite quote is  "This too shall pass" Abraham Lincoln   (it will...you'll see!)

06/26/2008 05:28 PM by Kimberly Wilson (Power Realty Partners)


Susan--It is really comforting to know they are so many wonderful people like the few you mentioned in AR.  Heart warming! Hope all is well with you!!

06/26/2008 05:30 PM by Hans Iduma, Certified Mortgage Planning Specialist (Prospect Mortgage, LLC)


Susan,

I hope you are having a better day today!!  I agree, this is a great place to make friends who can be there when you are up and you are down! I was in the hospital last week and had several who commented and wished me well, which was so awesome, considering I've never met them in person! Enjoy it, this is what life is really about!!

06/26/2008 05:33 PM by LaShawn Norden (RE/MAX Central Realty)


Susan - I am going to try to reach you again in the next few minutes - have your cell phone handy!  Thanks for mentioning me in your post - AR rocks!

06/26/2008 05:34 PM by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (Austin Texas Homes, LLC)


Susan, it really is heart warming how many friends we can make in this community.  And to think that it's mostly an unexpected side effect of the business reasons most of joined for.

06/26/2008 05:39 PM by Brian Schulman - Your Lancaster County, PA Real Estate Professional (Coldwell Banker Select Professionals)


Great post Susan!  We all have "those days" and we all forget to count our blessings from time to time.  I love AR and all the people on it!!

06/26/2008 05:41 PM by Tammy Anderson-Owens, Broker/Owner (The "Metro East Home Team" of RE/MAX Preferred)


Wow. I'm impressed that all these busy people took out time to reach out to you.  Thanks for making my day sunnier.  Veronica

06/26/2008 05:42 PM by Veronica DeCarolis (Weidel Realtors)


Wow... being new to AR I am amazed at all the care for each other that happens here.

I no longer feel like I'm swimming in a sea of sharks in the world of Real Estate.

Thanks for sharing so much with everyone....and writing about all that comes back.

Marie

06/26/2008 05:54 PM by Marie Westerman Ft Gordon Augusta Ga Real Estate (Century 21 Larry Miller Realty)


It's pretty cool how you do make friends through the rain. So here is my encouragement for the day. Today is the beginning of the rest of your life.

06/26/2008 06:46 PM by Steven Nickens R(S) GRI ABR Wailea Maui Real Estate (The Wailea Group LLC. Maui Hawaii)


Susan, thanks for the mention!  I actually meant to call you on several different occasions, but when I saw your post yesterday I decided it was time for me to make the call and for you to giggle.  I'll miss you while you are on vacation but I hope you have a blast!

I just paid it forward is all.  My buddies here at AR kept me laughing my butt off when my mom was hospitalized in March.  They knew I was getting email notifications to my PDA when comments were posted on my blog so they hijacked the crap out of it.  It was the best thing they could have done for my sanity and I absolutely adore them for it.

Marie, welcome to AR.  It is so much more than a lead generating referral machine.  You really do make lasting friendships here.  I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.

06/26/2008 07:00 PM by I HEART THE BLOG BUTTON Amanda Hall * Texas Real Estate Broker (Hall Team Homes )


Getting back on topic thought I would throw in some refresher training for everyone, including myself!

Having a Positive Atti+ude is a discipline:

http://changethis.com/14.PositiveAttitude

 

Enjoy! :~)

 

06/26/2008 07:26 PM by Dan Auito (www.magicbullets.com)


Susan, I was worried about you as all get out because you seemed so down with the awful events of the other day. I promise to call you. As my day was busy throughout I just peppered you along the way with emails from my mobile self. I do hope it helped a bit with a cartoon or an uplifting word. I am not any more special than anyone else but I do appreciate the mention. I am just someone who cares. I always will. THAT IS WHO I AM. I am glad you wrote this post however. I am always reminding people that there are many good people around them that would give the shirt off their back to them. I think you found examples in your life with your situation that this is true. Now go out and keep your chin up, pay it forward and make another's day brighter. You certainly have enough talent, laughter and love to make the world a better place. xxxooo

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ge12av1p1jk

Friends

06/26/2008 08:40 PM by Gary Woltal - REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty)


The day we meet will be AWESOME, but I won't wait 'til then to raise my glass -- Salut!

(it's a really good California zin)

06/26/2008 08:45 PM by Elaine Hanson, REALTOR® ~ Topanga, CA Real Estate Specialist (Pritchett-Rapf & Assoc. Realtors, Topanga)


Good Luck to you, Susan --  I hope you have a lot of good days, to make up for your bad ones...

06/27/2008 12:28 AM by Rich Schiffer, REALTOR, e-PRO (Weichert, Realtors)


Thankfully my google alerts were working and my name came up and so I saw this post. Just go to the gym or go to the beach and get away from it all!

06/27/2008 07:11 AM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


Susan, the compassion of others is so great here on Active Rain.  I'm glad that they were there for you when you needed a pick me up.  People do need people. I hope your day is better today!

06/27/2008 09:20 PM by Lynn Pineda - Realtor in and around Coral Springs Real Estate (Keller Williams Realty)


Susan darlin' - I am constantly amazed at the friendships I've made through this crazy place.  Make no mistake, when a friend needs a helping hand... or in your case a helpful giggle... we'll all come running.  I'm blessed to call you a friend!

Now, I am sitting here watching the river roll by and paying $14.00/minute (close but not qutie) to send you a message.  What message is that you say? 

I think I found your shoe!

The guys and I were walking downstream today and I cam across this. It's not a slingback, I realize... but have you by any chance lost a flip-flop? :)

06/28/2008 03:41 AM by Jesse -*- I really, really love my blog button -*- Clifton (Jesse & Kathy Clifton, REALTORS 907-699-6024)


Jesse, now that you mention it, I am missing a flip flop!  Thanks sweetie!  Have fun rolling on the river with your friends.  I'll see you when I get back.  xxoo

06/28/2008 07:30 AM by Susan Mangigian, West Chester PA Realtor RE/MAX Preferred, ABR (RE/MAX Preferred, West Chester, PA, RS152252A)


Susan, oh my goodness, I didn't know about your co-worker's child. I'm so sorry.  I'm so glad you're going on vacation.  You need a break. Try to relax.  We will miss you. 

I am amazed every day, at how quickly we make great relationships here in AR... friends we will have always...

Big virtual hug for you, and I hope you feel better.

06/28/2008 10:02 AM by Sylvie Conde, Broker, Toronto Real Estate (Sutton Group-Associates Realty Inc., Brokerage)


Susan - What a heartwarming post about the truly caring people you've been able to meet through this great netywork.  This is proof positive that support, encouragement and friendship can travel miles without ever being face to face.  Enjoy your vacation.

06/28/2008 11:45 AM by Lynn Johnson, Owatonna, MN Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Home Connection)


Thanks for yout tasking the time to provide us with this information in the Active Rain network. AR is the new "cyber backbone" of the industry, and with it's uplink to Localism.com it will transfrom the marketplace. Agents who don't see which way the cyberwind is blowing are going to find themselves at a considerable disadvantage inside of three to five years.

07/01/2008 05:40 PM by Rob Robinson (The Robinson Home Team)


Susan...

I'm pleased to see (from your other posts and comments) you're feeling better. We all lose our Mojo once in awhile. Myself included. I recently went through some family issues that put me in a funk. I can't write about it out of respect for my family. I think everyone here knew I was funked out. They could see it coming out of fingertips. I was in a mood and the Members knew it. They also know the best thing to do when TLW is in a funk is to leave her alone. Smart people :) They've all figured out that I can be a real bitch sometimes :) Especially when something that's out of my control is troubling me. I'm glad  your AR family reached out to you. One of these days I may very well allow that to happen to me. Until then I'll just keep stepping awaaaaaaaaaaaay from the keyboard when I'm funked :)

TLW...ROAR!

07/08/2008 09:01 AM by "The Lovely Wife"...Broker Bryant's Wife... (Co-Owner Tutas Towne Realty, Inc.)


Susan.....you are such a fun, wonderful person.  You really extend as much kindness as you receive!  I can't wait for your trip to be over, so we can send up the bat signal, and have some fun!

07/09/2008 12:36 AM by Meridian Idaho Real Estate ~ Pam Pugmire (All Pro Realty)


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