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6 Questions Every Unmarried Couple Should Ask Before Buying a House

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Mortgage and Lending with ChangeMyRate.com® A Mortgage Corporation NMLS #1326269

Not ready to get married, but ready to buy a home? You and your partner aren’t alone. Unmarried couples made up 9 percent of homebuyers in 2020, according to the National Association of Realtors. That number seems likely to increase, too, as couples reconsider the financial implications of saying “I do” in the wake of the pandemic.

While buying a house with your partner can feel like an exciting new chapter, it’s important to recognize that it doesn’t necessarily look that way in the eyes of a court.

“With married couples, you’ve got the domestic relations courts that have a framework of rules. Those rules don’t apply when an unmarried couple splits up,” says Barry Kreisler, a real estate attorney based in Chicago.

If you’re an unmarried couple looking to buy a house together, consider these six questions before beginning your search:

1. What are the laws for unmarried couples?

In a select few states, your decision to live together as partners could classify your arrangement as a common law marriage. However, laws in most states treat unmarried couples like individuals when it comes to assets like real estate. So, it’s up to the couple to write their own rules that dictate how their property is to be handled in the event of separation or death.

2. What should be included in the property agreement?

To get the same protection as a traditionally recognized marriage union, unmarried couples buying a house together must write their own defaults. 

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Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I've never really thought about any of that either married or unmarried but thank you for reminding me. :

Nov 11, 2021 09:55 PM
Jackie A. Graves

Hi Laura, thank you for your comment. Very much appreciated. Stay posted for future blogs and make it a great day. 

Nov 18, 2021 08:55 PM
Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Six very good points.  It sure could be a mess. Well we did it, we made it to Friday.  Now lets end this week on a productive note.  Sell  a house.  Thanks again for the Blog.  Bill 

Nov 12, 2021 05:05 AM
Jackie A. Graves

Hi Bill, thank you for your comment. Very much appreciated. Stay posted for future blogs and make it a great day. 

Nov 18, 2021 08:56 PM