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Monday Musing & Inspiration: Trending On Purpose!

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Pictured above is a tree I noticed yesterday afternoon, as we were taking a walk after lunch in the La Cumbre shopping center.

I was drawn to this pile of colorful leaves that the tree had dropped.  It was perfect combination of color near a small tiled wall.  

Yesterday morning, in our mastermind,  we had talked about creating our own reality, or trending on purpose, on our very own purpose.  As humans we often trend in self-opposition.  

We fall into the traps of comparing and contrasting, measuring our performances, and seeking approval.  In doing that, we defeat ourselves and give air time to negative thoughts.

Plants and creatures we love are incapable of self opposition.  They tune to the rhythm of Nature.  They live on purpose in harmony and joyfully.  They are who they are.  They have no ego, nor do they create one to identify with.

"The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions, the work you do, social status and recognition, knowledge and education, physical appearance, special abilities, relationships, person and family history, belief systems, and often nationalistic, racial, religious, and other collective identifications. None of these is you."

~ Eckhart Tolle

 

Trending deliberately means not trending with what others are thinking, or telling you how and what to be in every aspect of your life.   Don't critique others,  live and let be!  Don't disagree, don't fix, let it be.  Besides all that, remember it is none of you business!

 

"When you live in complete acceptance of what is, that is the end of all drama in your life."

~ Eckhart Tolle

 

We have said and many others have stated that "we are works in progress.  What if instead, you would take a different point of view and see your perfection, and merely worked to flick off all the accumulated debris that is not you?

 

When Michelangelo would select a block of marble, he saw within it the statue, and he knew all that was needed was to carve away at the stone that was not part of his vision?

"In every block of marble I see a statue as plain as though it stood before me, shaped and perfect in attitude and action. I have only to hew away the rough walls that imprison the lovely apparition to reveal it to the other eyes as mine see it."

~ Michelangelo

 

"I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free."

~ Michelangelo

 

Are you ready to set yourself free?

 

Happy Monday & Wishing Everyone a Great Week!

 

 

 

 

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Comments(61)

Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Ron and Alexandra:

I love the inspiration and message in your post, and the quotes are perfect. Michelangelo's 2nd quote is particularly poignant. 

Jeff

Jan 09, 2022 04:08 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Beautiful message, Alexandra! There are many who need to read and heed this message!

It reminds me of John McLaughlin's quote - "Everyone can lock into the rhythm on a tune. It's organic in nature. It connects the band as a whole and connects the band to the audience."   I would even go beyond living 'deliberately' and stress 'organically' as McLaughlin suggests.

As they say, 'Be YOU!' - That's my philosophy! No VIP whom I have ever met or with whom I have ever dined, or call friend, makes me any better or different than anyone on the planet. Our profession is filled with massive egos and I, for one, prefer to be the odd woman out and be real, humble and kind. It helps me sleep at night! LOL

Happy New Year to you and Ron!

Jan 09, 2022 07:04 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD You are right that there are those who will miss their drama.  We had lunch with a couple on Thursday who definitely would miss the turbulence...LOL A

Jan 09, 2022 08:35 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Endre Barath, Jr. I truly have no trouble with egos.  I accept it and move on, I do not have to focus on that aspect , and I do not as I practice this concept. A

Jan 09, 2022 08:38 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy Streib Thank you.  I loved your Tolle quote and sent it to many of our friends who would get i.  A

Jan 09, 2022 08:40 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Dorie Dillard Austin TX Ron and I love Florence.  What a wonderful place to learn and to study..  The Academia never gets old for either one of us.  The first time we were there was on our honeymoon and it was less than half of what it is now...and those unfinished works still gave me a chill so many times.  A

Jan 09, 2022 08:42 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets on the road!  Three years ago as we had parked our car, I heard a guy tell his friend that he was given a ticket driving 68 on the road.  And Ron and I decided not to speed again.  We use our cruise control 80% of our driving time.  And with the 8 miles of construction, the limit is 55, and the CHP is having a bonanza time giving tickets at they hide here and there.  The result is peace of mind, and here is another thought for you, we never knew what we did with those 5 minutes we gained by speeding...LOL A

Jan 09, 2022 08:47 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sharon Tara Thank you, and we wish you a great week.  A

Jan 09, 2022 08:47 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 It is one of my favorite quotes of Michelangelo, he does set the subject free, be it an angel or any other one of his works.  A

Jan 09, 2022 08:49 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Jeff Dowler, CRS I think that it says so much about the artist's vision.  And no doubt that after all these years his works is current and breathe life and awe into those who see it.  

Jan 09, 2022 08:51 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Debe Maxwell, CRS Good for you.  At an early age my father's message was, there is no one better than you and no one less than you...And both he and my mother were an example of this.  A

Jan 09, 2022 08:53 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

And, that's so true! As my Dad said, "We all don our pants the same way!"

Jan 09, 2022 09:14 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Ron and Alexandra Seigel  I get it and good for you, as you know there are many in my market who do not prescribe to your approach:)Endre

Jan 09, 2022 09:21 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Authenticity is important. I try to always say when I mean without any lack of understanding if I can help it. l

Jan 09, 2022 10:52 PM
faye schubert
Retired - Branson, MO
Living the Branson Lake Life

I love the picture of the tree and the fallen leaves.  Some view Fall as the leaves fall off the trees, but I LOVE to look at the leaves that have fallen and the beauty of this natural event.

Jan 10, 2022 06:54 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

I have a dear friend who has trials with his grown children. But - he recognizes that while he'll help them when he can, he can't change them. He often shrugs and says "It is what it is," and goes on enjoying life. I admire him.

Jan 10, 2022 11:58 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Endre Barath, Jr. Not my business what other people do.  I am so focused on good stuff that it has no significance to me, let alone worthy of my attention.  A

Jan 10, 2022 02:09 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

faye schubert It caught our attention because it looked like rose petals and I do like roses. A

Jan 10, 2022 02:11 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Marte Cliff and that is how we are.  Life is simply more enjoyable and healthier I our opinion.  A

Jan 10, 2022 02:12 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Good for you Alexandra... have to take lessons from you:)Endre

Jan 10, 2022 11:16 PM