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Monday Musings & Inspiration: Are We Lost in Thought?

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Recently, Ron has been re-reading Eckhart Tole's book, Stillness Speaks, and he brought up this quote below as an interesting description of the human condition. It also reminded us of Auguste Rodin's statue, Le Penseur or the Thinker! 

"The human condition: lost in thought"

~Eckhart Tole

We interpreted it as meaning that we as a human race rarely operate in the present.  For the most part we are on automatic going about our day relying on past experiences and memories.  

This brought to mind a talk by Deepak Chopra, who stated, that the average person thinks the same 50,000 thoughts every day.

"Observe Your Thoughts, don't believe them."

~Eckhart Tole

We made a point on that day to be in the now from the moment we left our home, to the moment we returned.  We found ourselves noticing more than we usually do.  As we drove to the harbor, we noticed that the exit on the Freeway heading back South was closed and being worked on.  

It is something we would have assumed based on past experience, would be open, if we were not in the moment. We found the perfect parking spot, even though we were at the store at the busiest time of the day, and bought the last piece of the swordfish that came in that morning. The manager said, it had our name written on it.

All five of our errands were accomplished smoothly and magically without any glitches.  Last Monday, I shared an Alan Watts quote that intrigued our readers.  It was the importance of going out of one's mind to come to one's senses.  That is exactly what we remind ourselves on a daily basis.

It is taking the time to taste the coffee or tea every morning:  to smell the aroma, taste the flavor, and to feel its warmth. And I appreciate that Ron makes it for me every morning.  

Once again, these words from Thich Nhat Hanh clarify my wordsL

"We can smile, breathe, walk, and eat our meals in a way that allows us to be in touch with the abundance of happiness that is available. We are very good at preparing to live, but not very good at living.

We know how to sacrifice ten years for a diploma, and we are willing to work very hard to get a job, a car, a house, and so on.

But we have difficulty remembering that we are alive in the present moment, the only moment there is for us to be alive. Every breath we take, every step we make, can be filled with peace, joy, and serenity. We need only to be awake, alive in the present moment."

~ Thich Nhat Hanh

It takes practice  be in the moment. Try it, you may like it!

"There are only two days in the year that nothing can be done. One is called Yesterday and the other is called Tomorrow. Today is the right day to Love, Believe, Do and mostly Live."

~ Dalai Lama

 

 

 

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Comments(34)

Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sham Reddy CRS I enjoy the Dalai Lama, and his wonderful sense of humor.  He has a way with words that distinguishes him from other wise men and women.  Happy Monday.  A

Jan 31, 2022 09:12 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP I think you would have loved the beach this past Saturday.  It looked like the dolphin playground.  We could not believe how many were out and frolicking with joy.  It was palpable...A

Jan 31, 2022 09:14 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

Ron and Alexandra Seigel - I would have enjoyed seeing the dolphin's playground! It must have been a beautiful sight. I don't think I would have taken my eyes off of them or wanted to leave!

Jan 31, 2022 03:22 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 Thank you for sharing Will Rogers quote.  It is a new one for me, and perfectly said.  I also love his sense of humor. A

Jan 31, 2022 09:15 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Wayne Martin wishing you a wonderful day,  I have learned and keep practicing to stay in the moment.  It is so much better than dwelling in the past.  A

Jan 31, 2022 09:17 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Nina Hollander, Broker we both love the Rodin museum in Paris.  I almost included his work of the Thinker at the gates of hell, but felt it had a negative tone to it, although it is telling work of his life.  There is a show on MHZ that I think you would love.  It is called L'Art du Crime!  Each episode is set around a famous painting and a crime related to it. It is worth watching, and is one of our favorite shows.  The last season featured Delacroix works....A

Jan 31, 2022 09:21 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Ron and Alexandra Seigel okay, I'll bite... what is MHZ? As for sculptures like The Thinker... seeing them in pictures just does not do them justice... that is certainly one art form one needs to see up close and personal. One of the first I ever saw was the Pieta at the World's Fair in NYC in 1964 and I remember just being blown away by it.

Jan 31, 2022 12:55 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kat Palmiotti you are welcome, and we wish you a delightful week ahead.  A

Jan 31, 2022 09:23 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Brian England how funny, the deep work is actually relaxing and enjoying without any thinking...A

Jan 31, 2022 09:23 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Myrl Jeffcoat  Daydreaming is wonderful and relaxing snd school was often boring an tedious.  I do love being in the moment, it is so much more fun than dwelling on old thoughts.  A

Jan 31, 2022 09:26 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Good morning Bill,

Thank you for your comment, and we wish you a splendid week ahead.  A

Jan 31, 2022 09:26 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Roy Kelley yes it is and the Rodin Museum has them for sale,  They use the original cast of the statue.  A

Jan 31, 2022 09:28 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Will Hamm Wishing you a wonderful day...A

Jan 31, 2022 09:28 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sheri Sperry - MCNE® The beauty of Sedona is a conducive to meditation and keeping the mind quiet. It takes practice, and we are often reminding each other to be in the moment, the payoff is well worth it.  A

Jan 31, 2022 09:31 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

It is interesting, sales is like a chess match. Not only must we be thinking ahead, but also not so lost in thought that we are not attentively listening.

Jan 31, 2022 11:12 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty I really appreciate your viewpoint,  You said it perfectly.  It is a chess match.   Wishing you delightful week ahead. A

Jan 31, 2022 12:29 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Ron and Alexandra- Love your post today. And I am always working on being in the moment. Larry's mom who had a PhD in Psychology, and was a Master Bridge Player was so incredibly smart but could never enjoy the moment or what she had. It was such a shame too. 

Jan 31, 2022 12:50 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy Smiley Thank you for your kind words. We just got back from a long walk in the neighboring marsh reserve.  There was so much to see, and at one point our conversation drifted to junk, and we both noted it and focused back on the blue heron that showed up.  A

Jan 31, 2022 01:37 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Love your very positive post this Monday, thank you for that and the smile it brought to my face, Ron and Alexandra! Your words made me think that I was along for part of the ride today! When getting caught up in the What if's, I change the direction. No sense in worrying, tomorrow is not here yet.

Jan 31, 2022 03:37 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! Thank you for you kind words.  We are very good at changing plans when needed, and being aware makes it so much easier to be in the right place at the right time and attract the perfect situations. A

Jan 31, 2022 07:44 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Alexandra loved Rodin and have been in Paris as well as Philadelphia just to see his statues.... now with that said  I am always thinking but not lost in thought must be my Chess Player in me...Endre

Jan 31, 2022 10:41 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Endre Barath, Jr. Chess is focused thought on strategy...it is not willy-nilly thought.  A

Feb 02, 2022 09:54 AM