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STOP Running with Scissors!

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

STOP Running with Scissors!

 

My mother would slow us down in a hurry by saying that. It worked. She also taught us the importance of taking the time to do chores right, whether doing laundry, especially folding clothes neatly then putting them away or when washing dishes by hand, getting everything squeaky clean.

 

Anything less than set expectations didn't quite muster, she'd learn ya, durn ya! Her teachings continue to play a part in actions taken on behalf of people who depend on the expertise and local knowledge necessary to achieve their home goals. Nothing less will do for me either, with clients.

 

Mistakes are often made because:

  • someone half-heartedly, hurriedly puts in the effort
  • anger guides the ego when a disagreement comes into play
  • some people think they know-it-all, discounting experienced advice  

 

Three things to avoid at all times:

  • Showing lack of care because more emphasis relates to getting paid quicker than servicing the clients wants and needs. Encouraging them to rush the process by changing the terms by pushing timelines up after acceptance is a sign that the clients are not put first in the transaction.

 

  • Taking a snippy tone because mistakes are brought to attention on the real estate purchase contract by another professional. Please keep in mind that even a small error can have a huge impact on everyone plus the burden of agent behavior is also placed upon the broker's shoulders.

 

  • Using creative writing when filling out an addendum, that may be misconstrued as practicing law. Recklessly winging-it to save time, rather than consulting an attorney or broker could lead to a panel of peers to decide a fate. A self-promoting, KIA doesn't fit well this industry well.

 

It is impossible to demand professional standards from those with a weak work ethic. Lessons can be/often are most painful for those who think of a transaction as a race to the finish line and can be akin to running with scissors, the danger is real. Many agents finally realize it on the way out.

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Comments (32)

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Respecting those who taught the lessons is remembering and implementing them Dorie Dillard Austin TX. A good life depends on that!

Mar 18, 2022 03:59 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Good to see you Charita Cadenhead! Experience and maturity helps to move forward respectfully and confidently, most of the time, that is. The outcome of running with scissors is never a good one!

Mar 18, 2022 04:01 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Haha! Thanks for the honesty Brian L. Sirota, Esq.. While doing most household chores was not especially fun, finishing them lent to a satisfied feeling of a job well done and if not, she'd learn us and repeat...repeat...repeat!

Mar 18, 2022 04:05 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Yes, they may have even compared notes on parenting Anna Banana Kruchten CRS, Phoenix Broker! You are so right about clients returning for repeat business because they are valued, their goals were achieved and trust developed over the course of a transaction.

Mar 18, 2022 04:08 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

An overactive imagination and some life lessons learned early in life help me in choosing a title that relates well, Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-939-2727. Thank you for stopping by and I am glad you enjoyed this post!

Mar 18, 2022 04:11 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thank you so very much for the compliment Sheri Sperry - MCNE®, it is noted and very much appreciated!

Mar 18, 2022 04:13 PM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

I am blessed that my parents set certain standards for my behavior at a very young age Wanda. Happy Friday to you my friend 🙂

Mar 18, 2022 05:24 PM
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

My first broker took me in under his wings and taught me the very same standards you wrote about. Your clients are lucky!! Thank you, Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! 

Mar 18, 2022 05:50 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Wanda- well said!!!  And I can hear my mother's voice in this as well. As a child it was annoying but I do appreciate the lesson she taught me. Do it right the first time...don't cut corners. 

Mar 18, 2022 06:28 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Children need guidance and boundaries set for them and enforced, otherwise they only get bigger and more set in their ways Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS and often become bullies and self-centered adults!

Mar 18, 2022 06:30 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Was lucky to reach out to like-minded people after getting my license, especially to a man with 20 years of real estate behind him and who I respected immensely. I still remember him fondly, he has since passed away. Thankful and grateful every day that he and his wife (not in real estate) were in my life Aura Alex!

Mar 18, 2022 06:33 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thank you so much Kathy Streib. One time, I hurried when putting my clean clothes in the drawers, it was sloppy because I wanted to go out with my friends (I knew it) and she poured them all out on the floor and made me fold and neatly put them away...again. Lesson learned!

Mar 18, 2022 06:36 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

These are fantastic lessons that you learned and are sharing. My parents also doled out the same lessons. And as you point out, there are many different levels of work ethic in play in the world, and dealing with people who do not share ours is an ongoing challenge.

Mar 19, 2022 05:07 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Wanda,,, I was raised to do things "right" or not to do them at all. This has benefitted me throughout my life. One problem I see is that too many new agents are just not properly trained and mentored... hence the sloppy work.

Mar 19, 2022 06:29 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

When I was in the corporate world, it used to really frustrate me that some people had a lackadaisical attitude about work standards. Of course, it was usually the owner's kids who lacked any kind of work ethic or motivation. One of them was found asleep under a desk and the person who reported him was fired shortly after. So happy to work for myself Kat Palmiotti!

Mar 19, 2022 08:00 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

I do agree that more training is necessary, Nina Hollander, Broker. When first starting out, I felt the need to improve, so another agent and I practiced writing contracts, countering objections and I also went to several KW trainings as well, other seminars, classes. I also went to Vegas for classes with Windermere and enjoyed it very much.

Mar 19, 2022 08:15 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much, Wanda, for sharing your personal experience and this excellent advice.

Mar 19, 2022 08:44 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Glad you appreciate this post Roy Kelley. Wishing you and Delores a wonderful day!

Mar 19, 2022 08:51 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

We have a beautiful day in Maryland and life is good.

Have a very special weekend.

Mar 19, 2022 09:00 AM
Sharon Miller
RE/MAX Platinum - Crane Hill, AL

Wanda,

Some terrific advice! I always appreciate the author (you), "telling the story" when sharing a valuable piece(s) of information. I was overwhelmed yesterday while  attending a closing. The buyer was very complementary, he stated, "I was impressed that you actually agreed to meet with us on site and show us the boundaries"! I was momentarily surprised and then replied, "how would a visitor from another state easily locate a vacant waterfront property in the middle of nowhere?" The couple replied, "the other realtors we talked with, just gave us directions as to how to find the place as they didn't deem it necessary to accompany us to the site location." 

Amazing, when the levels of trust and honesty are suspect in our society today, some  are too "all about themselves" to get off their hunkers and perform in a "professional" manner.

I guess accepting the ritual of "hand-washing dishes correctly"...... assigned by our parents, pays off continuing dividends in the big scheme of things.

I'll leave with this,

"It's not the will to win that matters-everyone has that. It's the will to prepare to win that matters."  

                                          Coach Paul W. "Bear" Bryant

Mar 26, 2022 09:05 AM