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HOW IS YOUR BALANCING ACT?

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Managing a team is a skillful balancing act. How do you hold people accountable while empowering them to do their best work? On one hand, you have the work to be done—the business to be performed. On the other hand, you need engaged and self-motivated and even self-managing team members. Going only one direction can cause problems.

I love to go back to management theories and one which I first studied when I was back in college is the Blake-Mouton Theory. You can Google it to learn more. This theory highlights some problematic management styles. If you are authoritarian or a control freak, you are concerned with doing it the way you know it needs to be done. My way or the highway. The other extreme is the leader who values relationships, wants harmony, and believes the work will get done. If you are this type of leader, you will not be watching what is going on. You will probably delegate and disappear. If either one of these examples sound like you, how is that working out for you?

The most desirable approach to leadership under this theory is described as the Team Leader. If you are a team leader you are leading by positive example, creating team collaboration, establishing accountability by helping members understand the benefits. Then you coach and mentor.

The biggest challenge for a new business owner or a newly appointed manager is learning to develop your team leadership style. You need to understand that what you learned to master your trade will not be enough to get results from your team. Here are just a few suggestions although there are many more details behind this.

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Engage your employee from the very first day. Explain, train, encourage, and ask for input. Once you are certain that the employee understands encourage them to make decisions. Encourage the input. Then monitor. But gradually let go. Learn to look at key measurements that indicate the employee is on track such as number of calls answered, complaints resolved, orders processed, customer feedback and other key areas related to business outcomes. Then you get out of the details.

Instead of watching the details and the minutia keep your eye on the direction of your company or department and the overall results. Set up overarching monitors and measurements to measure the overall direction and attainment of results. Likewise, when you see a key business measurement change you ask your employees why and ask how it will be corrected. You maintain control but you are not controlling. You have more important things to do such as promoting the growth of your business.

Get out of the way. Get out of the details. Let go, let them drive and watch your stress level decrease and your business or your career grow.  For a similar post on our website see BALANCE BETWEEN CONTROL AND EMPOWERMENT.

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Comments(20)

Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I’m getting better at it but I have my days here and there where it’s a little bit harder but still very much worth it so satisfying we balance your life out

Mar 20, 2022 09:16 PM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

I balance a whole transaction every time I take on a new client Grant 🤓.

Mar 20, 2022 09:54 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Grant as a Solo Agent, I balance it quite well, 20 listings, 3 in Escrow and dealing with about 10 potential buyers... on a side note check out my post tonight and let me know how this agent can do all that, inquiring minds want to know, Endre

Mar 20, 2022 11:28 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much, Grant, for sharing  your experience and your advice.

Mar 21, 2022 04:45 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Grant - I admit that whenever I hear mention of balancing act, the following Dr. Seuss quote comes to mind: Step with care and great tact and remember life's a great balancing act.  

Mar 21, 2022 04:57 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Laura - managing is always a skillful balance.

Paul - you do need thing from your clients at certain times.

Endre - I will do that.

Roy - thanks.

Mar 21, 2022 05:03 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Grant... having run a team some years ago (I disbanded mine in 2010), I know only too well what a balancing act it is... I ultimately decided it was not an act I wanted to participate in. 

Mar 21, 2022 05:06 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Michael - good old Dr. Seuss made his impression on our young minds  back when.

Nina - that is ok too.  Some people with real estate teams might need to make that decision.

Mar 21, 2022 05:22 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Leadership is evolving quickly and 'my way or the highway' very much obsolete, in my opinion.  m

Mar 21, 2022 06:04 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Accountability is so important in my book and if I were managing a group I would certainly want to hold everyone accountable for their actions and get rid of those that are not accountable for their actions.

Mar 21, 2022 06:29 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Grant, having been an independent agent working solo for years, having one agent it quite fun, and we do keep the engagement and communication open every day, even on vacations.

Mar 21, 2022 06:48 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Grant,

It is a balancing act that is well put.  Fortunately we have such a great team dispersed all over the US, Georgia, Oklahoma , New Mexico, and Florida.  When we have a time crunch every responds with great alacrity.  A

Mar 21, 2022 07:39 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Grant at my age balancing is becoming an issue.  🤣

Seriously, I tend to be more towards the middle, but more to the leaving those who report me alone until they request help.

Mar 21, 2022 10:54 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Well done Grant. Not everyone who is good at what they do can become a good manager. You've provided some excellent tips.  And I wish I'd had this information when I first became a manager. 

Mar 21, 2022 07:46 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Mark - you are right.  Good people will not last long.

Brian - that is good.  We must cause them to want to be accountable.

Joan - sounds like you have a very good arrangement.

Ron and Alexandra - I am sure that you have a high performing team.

George - that is is cute.😊  Stay in the middle and you won't tip over.

Kathy - I do provide it to new managers.

 

Mar 22, 2022 03:20 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Grant, although I don't think I "manage" my agent, we do stay engaged and connected each day.

Mar 22, 2022 06:05 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Grant:

Some are clearly far better at balancing than others. Those that don't recognize being out of balance could be in trouble.

Jeff

Mar 22, 2022 09:21 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

HI Grant Schneider - Thie is a balancing act and one that you have defined very well.  As a manager or team leader, it is important to have a say in the hiring process for your team.  You need to decide who will fit the dynamics you are looking for.  

Mar 22, 2022 12:43 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

It’s really nice to come back to this post and see all of your answers shining through one by one and inspiring me. :

Mar 22, 2022 09:29 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Joan - the accountability is there.

Jeff - they are either a country club manager or a control freak.

Sheri - well said.  And you certainly know from experience.

Laura - thank you.

Mar 23, 2022 03:28 AM