What a difference a year makes!  It seems like yesterday that we walked you to school for your first day of Kindergarten.  You were nervous and crying, and you didn't want to leave our side.  Somehow, Mr. E. got you to walk down to class by talking to you about everything from Power Rangers to the sports teams that you liked.  By the time that we got home from dropping you off, there was a message from Mr. E. telling us that you were fine, and that you settled down when you got to class.  It made us feel a little better, but we were still worried about you.

 

 

For the next several weeks, Mr. E. would walk you down to your class.  There were tears on some days, and on other days you would run right up to him and walk into the building, talking sports most of the time.  In any case, you were doing well as a Kindergartener even when you had your sad moments.  You learned how to pull yourself together and participate in all classroom activities, even though you missed us.  From very early on, we got great feedback from your teacher, and you continued to be the model student that you were in pre-school.

 

You've been through so much this year.  You played your first season of pee wee football, your first season of tee-ball and finished Kindergarten with an amazing report card.  We couldn't be prouder of you and your accomplishments.  Even when you've struggled at times with being away from us, you have always remained well-behaved and you always gave your best.  That's all that we can ever ask for as parents.

 

We didn't know what to expect going into the year, but we are certainly happy with the results.  You've learned how to read and write, and you really enjoy it.  You even wrote your first song about a girl that you like in your class.  While you've always been mature for your age, this song has shown incredible wisdom beyond your years, and it's been amazing to see how much you have grown up in the past year. 

 

When we opened the pool, you were the first one in.  Watching you walk down the ladder with confidence was similar to the confidence that you showed walking into school as the year progressed.  Trepidation was replaced by excitement.  Fear was replaced by the desire to try new things.  You took the plunge and put your head under water...something that you wouldn't even consider last year.  In some ways, we would like to freeze this moment in time so that we can enjoy it for a little while longer, and surprisingly, you wanted to freeze the moment as well.

 

Most kids can't wait to get older, rushing towards something, but not really knowing what it is.  You have embraced each age, and while you were excited about your birthday, you were as nostalgic as we were about the year that has passed.  When you cried on the last day of school, it was no longer because you feared the unknown, or because you didn't want to leave our side.  You cried because you realized that it was the end of a part of your life that you can't relive. 

 

You wondered aloud why you and your friends can't all move up into first grade together, which is understandable.  Most grown-ups resist change and fear the unknown also, but change happens, and we all have to do our best to roll with the changes.  When you first went off to Kindergarten, it was the first time that we didn't have you all to ourselves.  Early in the year, we used to watch the clock to see when it was time to get you from school.  Pick-up time couldn't come fast enough.  Eventually though, we all settled into our new routine, and we made things work.  We have no doubt that you will adjust to first grade and continue being the excellent student that you've become.

 

This was a great year for you, and even though you weren't ready for school to end, we're so happy to have you home for the summer.  Not having you around has given us a new appreciation for what it's like when you are home with us.  We will do everything possible to make this summer a special one for you, and embrace each moment.  Before long, we'll be dropping you off at first grade, and it will be time once again to roll with the changes.

 

 
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21 Comments on Great Job Little Man ~ Welcome Home!

JUN
30
2008
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Adam - Kindergarten...so many memories...

My children are all adopted.  My eldest son moved in with us the day before he started kindergarten.  Bringing him to school that next day was so hard - I barely knew him, and here I was leaving him in this strange place.  I cried a little.  He did fine.  I never knew what I was more upset by - the fact that I got so emotional, or the fact that he handled it better than I did!

As an aside, he's about to enter middle school, went from a special ed student to a kid earning A's and B's.  We couldn't be prouder - even though I still say I'm too young to have a kid in middle school...

9:08am • #1

Awesome stuff Adam...I cringe at the thought of these days coming....I know it is the inevitable, but looking at my baby as an infant I can't imagine it.  Great post man!

9:11am • #2
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Hello Adam, I love this post....take me back and I remember so much! Beautifully written. So happy for you and your beautiful family! Enjoy...it is so very sweet!

9:23am • #3
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Adam ~ Enjoy these days.  I don't think it can be said enough that the years just fly by.  (My son's high school graduation was yesterday!)   

10:24am • #4
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They grow up so incredibly fast, Adam.  I blinked and my sweet baby that always wanted to be around mommy turned into a 16-year old lunatic that can't get away fast enough.  I think God makes teenagers go nuts so that when they leave home it doesn't hurt so much.

10:33am • #5
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Adam, what a great post, oh how that time flies. Glad to hear he adjusted well, before he knows it down the aisle he will be walking,

Carpe diem.

Duane

11:44am • #6
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You sweet guy, you!  I remember where you are -- I think it was two days ago?  12 years?  Really?

You have so many wonderful things ahead and the chance to see them happen twice, in two different personalities, first your son, then your daughter.  We are making yet another transition to the next phase -- high school to college.  It is exciting and bittersweet at the same time. 

I was going to leave you a song, but when I started looking for the ones I wanted, my eyes got all blurry for some reason.  Maybe later  ::happy place, happy place...::

12:12pm • #7
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Take lots of pictures!  When they say that they grow up fast, that's an understatement!

 

Bob Mitchell

ValueList Real Estate Services, Inc.

12:22pm • #8
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Ahhh, yes!  The memories of when my son and daughter went to kindergarten.  Even though they are grown now and out on their own, the memory of them going to kindergarten will be with me forever.  Enjoy every moment you have, Adam.  The little ones grow up very quickly.

2:31pm • #9
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Those were the days. I remember when my daughter was that young. She was,and still is very gung-ho about school. But then again there was some sadness because now we know they are growing right before our eyes.

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Adam- What a nice tribute to your son growing and learning. I suppose this kindergarten thing is one of the many, many reasons that I homeschooled all my kids. I would never be able to handle the seperation so young. I treasure every moment with my son even when he is driving me crazy.:)

9:50pm • #11
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Adam, enjoy these years with your son, they seem to go by in a flash. At least they did with both of my kids. Best wishes to your son as he moves on to the "big time" - First Grade! 

10:29pm • #12
JUL
01
2008
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Love the tribute buddy... blink your eyes a few times and first grade will be gone... a few more and you'll be writing about his HS graduation.  It goes by so fast.  I talked to our oldest granddaughter today and it seems like just yesterday I was teaching our daughter how to ride a bike... now she has two children of her own.  Enjoy every second.

2:26am • #13
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Adam - It is hard to imagine that the first year has already passed.  I remember talking to you when your son was about to start kindergarten, and the worries that you had.  This was a terrific post about your little man.  It is now featured in Family Ties.

11:22am • #14

What a nice post, I hope he has a Great time this summer, and goes on to be a popular fun loving first grader, who no longer is afraid, but rather emboldened by his experiences of this year past.

2:03pm • #15
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Adam, I loved your story. Isn't it amazing how time does fly by us, literally it seems? 

Treasure these moments, for they will be gone before you know it. My son is 20, and my daughter is entering the 9th grade. Just seems like yesterday that I cried their first day of school.  I can tell you are a proud Daddy. Way to go!

 

5:06pm • #16
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Adam: Great post... its hard to believe that my youngest is now 1 month old and my oldest is now 2 1/2... Where has time gone ?

9:43pm • #17
JUL
03
2008
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Adam:  So sweet... there is so much ahead for your family!  You'll be blogging about it for many years!

7:40am • #18
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I don't know any other parents who embrace moments like these as you and your bride.  What a treasure we get to share those times with you. :)

9:38am • #19
JUL
06
2008

Adam,

Enjoy your son.  They grow up so fast.  My oldest daughter is getting married next month and my youngest daughter will be going to college next month.  I miss having my babies around me.

5:37pm • #20
JUL
07
2008
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Adam,

Great and insightful post.  Appreciate all of your time with you son.  Isn't it exciting to see the changes and the growth in such a short time.  It sounds like you are embracing the changes and relishing all of the growth and changes, too.  That is terrific!  Have a wonderful summer with lots and lots of pictures.  Posts like this can be saved for your son in a scrapbook.  Great job!

Have a Colorful Day!

11:09pm • #22

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