In working with new Real Estate clients and also adding new friends from the world or even here on Active Rain it is interesting how some harmonize with you and just "click". I have been curious why this clicking happens sometimes and other times you are more neutral toward a new person or even the opposite and don't really like them? I think with our client - professional relationships there are ideal partnerships and others you just tolerate.
But with regard to the friends we pick up along the way it really is a matter of attracting people into your life who mirror many of your own qualities. If you are a fun person you probably like fun friends. If you are a very serious person those that are very serious you seem more comfortable around.
Be aware that you are sending out these attraction waves all the time with messages which will click in a human relationship form of chemistry with those you like.
Those messages say, I like you, You can trust me, I am happy when I am around you, I want you to stay in my life, You make me feel good, I feel safe with you, I can be myself with you.
Whether you call it attraction, chemistry, electricity, familiarity, resonance, or love, you "know it" when you feel it. You just "click" with some people.
So, is this important? Look at who you are attracting into your life and who you are rejecting and repelling. Are they the right people for you or do you need to change your attraction rays? It is important because it will affect the quality of your life and your overall happiness. We want people around us who we can count on and understand us. The quality of our relationships affects the quality of our life.
So get out there and find out those who you click with and tether to them with a strong cord (nothing wireless allowed). And keep your cat away from stealing your clicker : )
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