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Some Things Should Remain in the Privacy of the Mind

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

Some Things Should Remain in the Privacy of the Mind

 

Some personalities enjoy verbally purging anywhere, not caring who is within hearing distance of their diatribes. There might be a place and time for that but never in close vicinity of clients.

 

These types of people attempt to make a connection with an audience that relates to their woes. similar to trauma-bonding. They try to look more like a victim and less like an overly emotional wreck.

 

That behavior may come back to bite! A difficult transaction is a time to step back in retrospect and discover what could be made different, next time, so processes go smoother with fewer problems.

 

Getting feathers ruffled and taking an offensive stance when things go wrong, or directing your anger towards someone else rather than looking at what could have been done better, is destructive.

 

When people lose sight of client retention, business suffers. It may become the end of the relationship with them and the people they would refer. Future opportunities will go to the true professional. 

 

Taking preventative measures ensures your business maintains excellent customer service and continues to thrive. Align yourself with positive, motivated people who hold themselves accountable for their actions.

 

And always keep business in front of you, rather than seeing it take leave in the rearview mirror because of something that was said!

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Dan Hopper
Dan Hopper - Gold Way RE - Westminster, CO
Colorado Broker / Referral Services

Oh,  ... no doubt there should be some space in one's mind to do that... "The mind is a terrible thing to waste"!

Jun 09, 2022 01:03 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

we have Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! a fiduciary relationship with our clients and these matters should stay private 

Jun 09, 2022 04:44 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

My plans are to continue helping clients with their real estate needs professionally rather than engaging in verbal brawls, Dan Hopper! Not to say that I will not defend my business practices in a civil manner because I sure will do that.

Jun 09, 2022 05:37 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

You are correct! Some need to use the COE as a guide rather than another document they have just glanced at or do not fully understand, Hannah Williams.

Jun 09, 2022 05:41 PM
Greg Mona
West USA Realty - Scottsdale, AZ
Professional Real Estate Representation for YOU!

We’ll written and sage advice Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! We all should look in the mirror once in a while (some more than others!) and give ourselves a reality check. And I wholeheartedly agree about client retention. We all work hard to get them so why not continue to focus on the good ones?!

Jun 09, 2022 07:22 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Wanda! I can't IMAGINE crossing that line - even with dear friends we represent as valued clients. Of course, we can share lessons learned but, there's a very diplomatic way in which to do so!

Jun 09, 2022 07:30 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Great advice, Wanda! Some things should remain in the head of the beholder. But if something really SHOULD be shared, there's probably a diplomatic way to do it. True in business and in real life, and online!

Jeff

Jun 09, 2022 09:13 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

So true. Save the rants for when you're home alone - or tell it to your dog or cat. They'll love you anyway.

Jun 09, 2022 09:26 PM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

sage words that all too often many forget to adhere to.....excellent reminder to everyone in the Rain

Jun 09, 2022 10:02 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I'm sure there is an interesting story behind the writing of this post! When involved in a difficult transaction, we should be figuring out what we can do differently next time.

Jun 10, 2022 04:45 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Nurturing past clients, being respectful and courteous to others in business builds a solid reputation, Greg Mona. Some understand, practicing that while others fail to think beyond the last transaction!

Jun 10, 2022 07:30 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

All Clients Matter! The ones that have become friends are so very valued, Debe Maxwell, CRS, could not harm them in any way and words do hurt, despite the childhood rhyme saying otherwise! 

Jun 10, 2022 07:37 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

In every aspect of our lives, there is someone looking, whether detected or not Jeff Dowler, CRS. Best to present our best selves!

Jun 10, 2022 07:38 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

It's probably a good thing animals cannot repeat what is said in private, except for birds, that is, Marte Cliff! I have a friend who adopted a parrot that swears A LOT!

Jun 10, 2022 07:42 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

You are welcome Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD. Wishing you a wonderful day!

Jun 10, 2022 07:43 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Am always trying to find ways to improve, gauging past failures and successes is important in order to grow in business and personally, Kat Palmiotti. It has worked for me!

Jun 10, 2022 07:45 AM
Diana Dahlberg
1 Month Realty - Pleasant Prairie, WI
Real Estate in Kenosha, WI since 1994 262-308-3563

Excellent advice and definitely worth consideration for every one of us.  Reading your well written post reminded me of the saying, "Open Mouth - Insert Foot" ... Our Words Do Matter!  Thank you!

Jun 11, 2022 10:06 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thank you Diana Dahlberg for stopping by and offering a comment. We can all learn from our experiences, especially teachable moments!

Jun 11, 2022 10:49 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Amen sister!  People need to think big picture.  And if you don't know about an entire subject/story, don't repeat it.  Gossip only makes the gossiper look worse!

Jun 13, 2022 03:36 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

That's right! Those who feel the need to share everything, especially at someone else's expense, in a less than private setting, will pay the cost, eventually Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ

Jun 13, 2022 03:40 PM