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When was the last time that you moved? Do you remember all the headaches, struggles, problems you overcame! I bet not, because it is so easy to forget. We remember the good times, the fun times, those moments that make us smile.

We do not actively seek out the pain points. But, as a Realtor helping clients move, buy and sell real estate it is good to remember the pain points, so we can warn our clients of the frustrations that can lie ahead and how they can be avoided.

For example, mortgage companies can drive you totally crazy with their requests for more information. I warn my clients about this all the time. However, I forgot it when we applied for our mortgage for our new house. I have felt like telling them multiple times to go...well anyway, after a deep breath, I usually comply and send them information I have already sent, or explain what they are asking about, although it is very clear from the information supplied already. For example, I had the processor tell me in an email last week she had no copies of statements from a bank account I use. Now, I knew I had sent her several already. Her very next email she says, she only has January and she needs February and March, which se did already have, but I sent again.

Getting your house ready for sale is another headache. Luckily homes have been selling quickly, so having to maintain the unreal situation of every thing in its place for a long time is not required, but this will pass as more inventory comes on the market and higher interest rates cause homes to take longer to sell.

As you prepare the house for sale, you might pack things up, let me assure you that no sooner do you move those boxes to a storage locker, than you realize you need what you  just packed, and of course you can now not remember which box you put it in.

I know in a month or two I am going to forget about all the pain, and be enjoying our new home. As I said it is so easy to forget, but worth remembering, so you can have empathy with your clients and understand their frustrations.

What was your worst experience when you moved, if you can remember it?

 

 

 

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Nick Vandekar
Nick is a Tredyffrin Easttown Residential and Commercial REALTOR selling The Main Line, Chester, Delaware and Montgomery Counties.

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Comments (21)

Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Nick... I am a champion mover having done it so many times. But after my last move 16 years ago, I decided the pain was too much to keep doing it. And now, I've lived in my current home for 16 years, which is longer than I've ever lived in one place.

Aug 02, 2022 04:53 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Well... I don't really remember the negatives but I do remember after the last move, I said, "I'm not doing this again!"

Aug 02, 2022 05:31 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

It has been a long time since I moved, but I am reminded of how much of a pain it is since we are currently clearing out my parent's home for renovation.

Aug 02, 2022 05:42 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Joan Cox as hard as it has been, we are planning to move again in about 8-10 years. That will be our final move, and who knows where it will be, as we have many options on the table.

Nina Hollander, Broker yes, you have moved a lot, and I am sure you are very happy to have been in the same place for a long time.

Kat Palmiotti your was a big move, with building a home included, I cannot imagine how hard that was. But, you do have the prettiest views.

Brian England I think temporarily moving things is harder, unless you discard at the same time.

Aug 02, 2022 07:47 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

We have so much stuff that we need to get rid of before putting our home on the market. It is a real challenge.

Aug 02, 2022 08:00 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 - the last time I moved was vivid memories and very easy too. I was relocated by my company to TX and stayed in an apartment the first year before buying my home. The company paid for both moves, packing up and delivering each time. Now I dream about moving again and all I have are nightmares about having to do it by myself. Ugh! Just the thought makes me ill. As you say, soon all of this will be in the past tense and you will enjoy your happily ever after with your new wife and new beginnings. I wish you complete happiness and most important of all, a stress-free experience. You don't need any of that stress in your life anymore. Enjoy the life and life experiences. You deserve it!

Aug 02, 2022 08:13 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Roy Kelley when I got divorced I shed most of my belongings, thinking I was moving back to Europe, and then when I moved in with my fiance I shed even more. Now it is her things, past family members belongings etc that need to be sorted and discarded.

Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP having someone else pick up the tab and do the packing would be wonderful. Unffortunately, it is on us, and I believe we will be moving things that do not need to come with us due to a shortage of time to process everything we own.

Aug 02, 2022 08:17 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 - Yes. I was lucky my Company paid for relocation. My next move is on me and I'm older now too! It will be a very big hardship on me financially to move single handedly. But like yourself, we somehow manage and do what we have to do. Moving is not easy. I wish you the best of health and strength to accomplish what you need to do. 

Aug 02, 2022 08:42 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Even though we help others move all the time, we forget how hard it can be and all the work involved. What I liked about our last move was getting rid of the "stuff" that accumulated and was really never needed!

Aug 02, 2022 11:33 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Nick- we've moved a lot for Larry's work and a few we managed on our own. With each move, I jot down what to do the next time I move!  One move we had, our furniture was on the way...termites were discovered and we went back and forth with the seller about tenting and treating the house. He finally agreed so all of our belongings were moved in and we had to open all the boxes and remove any food we had before the home could be tented. 

Aug 02, 2022 12:59 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I keep encouraging my fiancee to just discard all the boxes she has had in storage, but she insists she has to go through them before she can do that. Having discarded nearly all my stuff I find it easier to let go of things.

Kathy Streib that sounds like an answer to a question we should have on one of these monthly competitions. What is your worst moving horror story. I think I would have no idea what to do in that case. 

Aug 02, 2022 02:07 PM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

Our last move was the worst and I know it won’t be our last Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 

Aug 02, 2022 04:42 PM
Kathy Akers, ABR CRB CRS GRI
Fathom Realty NC LLC - Rocky Mount, NC
Your Trusted Real Estate Advisor

Nick, I know the pain well. In May we moved our Son from Wilmington NC to Crater Lake OR. Purging and deciding what to store during this short-term job assignment was crucial. Then in July, our Daughter bought her first home. Again, we helped with the move. She still has some items stored at our house, but it is slowly migrating to her new home. 

Aug 03, 2022 01:43 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS I know this will not be our last, hopefully we can purge more things before that comes around.

Kathy Akers, ABR, CRS, GRI, PSA I have helped my sons move countless times, I always end packing the trucks as I can cram more in than others. It is always good when the kids take their stuff. Usually a threat of it either goes or it goes out in the trash works well.

Aug 05, 2022 09:56 AM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

That happens SO often-- mortgage companies constantly asking for info that has already been supplied!  Why is that? So very frustrating for those buyers. And quite often, buyers send info as soon as requested, yet it is several weeks before it's requested again.  Very poor service but happens all the time.

Aug 05, 2022 03:25 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Nick - we bought a house in 2017 but that was not moving.  When we last moved we thought we has lost all of our Christmas decorations only to find the the next year in all of he boxes.

Aug 08, 2022 06:52 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR going through this over and over with NVR mortgages, sent them something they have had four times already yesterday and the processor, said, yes this is what we need....aaaarrggghhhhhh!

Grant Schneider I am sure we are going to have things hiding from us, although I am a great believer in getting everything unpacked as soon as possible.

Aug 09, 2022 07:21 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Tuesday morning, Nick.

Have a great day and a very productive week.

Aug 09, 2022 07:40 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Keep letting us know about different books, always like your suggestions Roy Kelley 

Aug 09, 2022 07:53 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

My mother was never one to stay in one spot for very long, Nick. From the start of 9th grade through graduating high school, we moved 8 times. One time, just one street over and I dreaded it every single time! As a parent, I vowed to remain in one place for the duration of our children's growing up years to give them a secure home. Was able to do just that and am still here!

Aug 13, 2022 12:24 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! we have moved homes, but have generally stayed in place for a while. I cannot imagine moving that many times so quickly. But necessity sometimes demands tough things of us.

Aug 18, 2022 06:02 PM