Back in February of 2012 my pondering had me posting the following:
Do you really listen to what is being said? Do you find yourself anticipating what you think is being said and then, instead of listening to the speaker your mind engages in thought of a reponse? It is a problem we all experience from time to time and must make a conscious effort to listen, really pay attention and listen.
When you find yourself beginning to formulate a response instead of listening, remember this: "Once you start thinking about how you are going to respond, you will inevitably miss the rest of their message."
It was a great thought then and a great thought now. How do I measurer my progress in the years in between. Honestly, maybe a "C". I started out doing well but then drifted back toward the bad habit of thinking about a response. Over the years I had good times when I truly listened but not nearly enough.
Now retired, I am determined to pay more attention to listening to it all, pause to compose my answer, and then respond. I am hoping that my next grade can be an "A-"! We'll see. Enjoy your day.
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