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No Good Deed Goes Unpunished!

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) DRE# 00949880

When I first started in real estate sales, my mentor would refer me to mobile  home sales when they became available.  She said it would be very good for me and that I would learn a lot, so I did quite a few of them.  I had a client that found just what he was looking for in a mobile home.  It even had a covered garage that went with it.  The transaction went very smoothly and we closed.  It was one of the smoothest transactions ever.  And then the seller's agent called.  She had just hung up with her client who had not even started packing!

She said she would personally go over and help her client pack everything into his truck.  I had an appointment with two new clients late that morning, but I told the seller's agent I would be over to help move her client out, too.  I called my clients and told them the situation and that, "We could still keep our appointment, but I may not be at my best because I was taking care of the emergency.  My client was scheduled to move in that afternoon.

 I showed up and we started working.  Of course, shortly after we started, the rain began to fall!  Luckily, it was only a mobile home and there was not a huge amount to move.  It only took us a few hours.

I promptly went to my meeting.  I bought my potential clients coffee and a couple pastries.  We talked about the neighborhood they were looking to purchase in, the real estate process and I even had a lot of recent sales in the area to show them.  The meeting went great!

I thought I looked like this.

Ray Henson

A few hours later, the referring agent called me and said, "I understand you showed up to the meeting today in a less than professional manner," and she clicked off a few of my most egregious offenses.  The writing was on the wall.  She was going to fire me.  I explained that her clients knew what had happened and that it was probably best that they find another agent.  I was not happy with them either.  I really do think it was the only time I was fired.  

Apparently, My clients thought I looked like this!

My Alter Ego

If the same situation came up again today, I would do almost everything the same.  The only thing I would do differently would be to change my buyer consultation appointment to later in the day or the next day.  I learned an important lesson that day.  First impressions are important.  They are more important than good deeds.  Oh, and no good deed goes unpunished!

Thank you, Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP, and Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist, for this month's ActiveRain Challenge.  It has brought up some interesting old memories for me.  I think I will have another story or two to tell!  The good news is that I did not get fired in those stories.  🤣 

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             eXp Realty of California, Inc

Raymond Henson, SRES, GRI, e-Pro

Past Client Testimonials   

3412 Babson Drive

Elk Grove, CA 95758

RayRHenson@gmail.com

916-698-8415

 

 

Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

Larry is a very wise man, Kathy Streib.  They were very young and I imagine the age difference may have played a part, too.  We just did not click.  

Mar 14, 2023 08:25 AM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

I am pretty much the opposite, Endre Barath, Jr., especially at that point of my career.  I was on the phone with a high end Realtor in your area and was more concerned about how to answer her questions.  I passed round one, but not round two.  The good news is that if I ever have the chance to refer someone to your area, I know a very good agent to call...YOU!  

Mar 14, 2023 08:31 AM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

You are certainly correct, Michael Jacobs.  I still do not interview much on the phone, though.  I like to meet people face to face for our first meeting.  I think I do better in that situation with the exception of my above story. 

Mar 14, 2023 08:35 AM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

Good morning, Nina Hollander, Broker.  I was just talking to a couple of friends this morning about this subject.  I told them about the time I was recommended for painting a JC Penney's store.  I had my initial meeting with the job superintendent.  At the end of the meeting, he said, "You know, you received great recommendations, but you really have not impressed me this morning."  Long story, short, he tried to hire me to go with his company across the country and paint all of their JC Penney stores that they were building.  I think I grow on people in a good way.  Still, I do work hard on making a good first impression.  

Mar 14, 2023 11:07 AM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

That is actually what I thought would happen, Kat Palmiotti.  It was a real surprise for me.  I do consider myself pretty good at hitting curveballs, too.  I swung and missed that day.  😉

Mar 14, 2023 11:10 AM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

I think so, Joan Cox, but as a relatively new agent at the time, it was tough to have that proper perspective.  I may have been just a touch angry at the time.  😉

Mar 14, 2023 11:16 AM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

I do like your style, Brian England.  I would love to have you show me homes after playing tennis.  Afterwards, we would discuss pickleball and that #ResistanceIsFutile 

🤣  Oh, and the conversation would probably be over lunch and an ice cold adult beverage!

Mar 14, 2023 11:19 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Two things came to mind Ray. 1st You are a really good guy!  And how shallow were those potential clients and the referring agent.  For Pete's sake I would have seen you as a hero and want you to be on my team when buying or selling after hearing how you just helped the seller - and the buyers out in a very big and personal way. Karma means something!

Mar 14, 2023 03:44 PM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

Thank you very much, Anna Banana Kruchten Phoenix Broker.  It was just a strange situation because I called them and explained the whole situation.  They seemed fine with it and we really did have a great meeting.  I have looked back a few times and wondered if I just read our meeting wrong.  I really should have talked to the referring broker longer for a fuller explanation.  

Mar 14, 2023 06:08 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

You did fine Ray.  The referring broker went a bit too far - at least that's how I see it.  As Kathy Streib wrote a post about the other day - hot off the collar and wasn't listening to you.

Mar 14, 2023 06:11 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Sometimes, in our efforts to help others, Ray, some people are unmoved and unbending when it comes to their needs. One time, I was 15 minutes late to an appointment for a listing, (it was unavoidable) and they wrote me off like I was a stinky, ugly, unwanted step-child and had no mercy! Ok then...😳

Congrats on being featured!

Mar 15, 2023 06:28 PM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

That really is harsh, Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! They did not know what they were losing! ! !

Mar 15, 2023 06:33 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

I'm with Brian England  on this one. We all try to help as best we can and if a client feels they are being slighted because your shirt wasn't perfect, then how would they feel if you were with them that the short got soiled?

Mar 16, 2023 05:43 AM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

Thank you, Ed Silva.  I appreciate your support and positive comment. 

Mar 16, 2023 06:43 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much, Ray, for sharing this story.

In real estate, there are new lessons to learn every day.

Mar 16, 2023 08:24 AM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

Good morning, Roy Kelley.  I am learning a lot of lessons with this month's challenge.  It has been very interesting reading all our friend's stories.  Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment. 

Mar 16, 2023 08:37 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Ray. Oh, that first impression sets the tone! And sometimes it is not meant to be. Enjoy your day.

Mar 18, 2023 05:12 AM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

That reminds me of the old song, Que Sera, Sera.  Whatever Will Be, Will Be, Wayne Martin.

Mar 18, 2023 08:46 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Ray Henson - I just noticed your post was FEATURED.

CONGRATULATIONS ON A WELL-DESERVED FEATURE STORY! 

Ray - you simply AMAZE me! I would choose you for my REALTOR any day!

Mar 23, 2023 07:52 PM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

Thank you, Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP.  That is a huge compliment.  I sure appreciate it.  You know that I would love to have you as my REALTOR, too!

Mar 25, 2023 05:48 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

Ray Henson - I wish you more success than cactus needles grows in Arizonia!

Mar 25, 2023 06:48 AM
Ray Henson

Thank you, Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP.  That is a lot of success.  Maybe you can take half and I will take the other half.  😉

Mar 27, 2023 06:29 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

Ray Henson - Now that woud be the ultimate gift for both of us! LOL

Mar 27, 2023 07:59 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I would feel SO much like a heel if I fired someone who MAY have looked a little disheveled because they had done a MORE-THAN-GOOD-DEED! Holy moly, Ray! Them firing you was the best thing that could have happened to you! 


On a side-bar - when people that I just meet say they 'hate dogs,' I am CONFIDENT we won't work together well! Same goes for volunteering and doing the right thing. If you are criticized for doing the right thing, there's something wrong with THEM, not you!

Thanks for another wonderful entry in March's challenge, Ray!

Apr 01, 2023 06:10 PM