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Marching to a Solution - Divorce

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 DRE# ER40011786

This month's challenge asks us to relay some transactions or situations where it took some measures to get a transaction to closing, or maybe they didn't close?

 

Back about 10-15 years ago I got a call from a past client telling me she had a friend that needed a REALTOR to sell their home.    This couple was in a nasty divorce situation, and didn't know if I wanted to get involved.    After finding out where it was - within 1.5 miles of my house, and it was a very nice house, I said of course would want to assist them.

 

I gave the wife a call, and set up a meeting the following day.    What a lovely woman, and they had three beautiful children aged 9-14 at the time.   All of the kids were top students, played instruments, and could speak at least 3 languages.   

 

This couple seriously needed to get divorced, as both sides filed restraining orders against each other.    The wife lived in the home with the children, and the husband had moved out into alternative housing until the home sold.    I got information about the home, and the husband's contact info, and contacted him for an appointment for the following day at my office.

The wife had told me the main reason they were getting a divorce was his cheating behavior.    OH MY!    When the husband showed up, he instantly wanted to know more about me, but nothing to do with real estate.   I had to continually switch the conversation back, and finally shut my folder and stood up.    DO YOU WANT TO LIST YOUR HOME OR NOT?  I told him, I had NO INTENTIONS of talking about personal items.   Guess he wasn't expecting that, and finally stuck with our conversation at hand.

 

There was issues with what was included in the sale between the two, issues negotiating the inspection issues, and when it came to closing, we couldn't close on the same day, as these two were ordered not to be in the same building on the same day.    Thank goodness there was a reasonable cooping agent working with the buyer!

 

This property did close, but did take lots of patience!

 

 

 

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Joan Cox
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Comments(26)

Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Nothing more difficult for us than handling a divorce transaction. Kudos to you Joan, well done. Bill 

Mar 21, 2023 06:33 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Patricia, some of our transactions do take LOTS of patience.

Mar 21, 2023 07:05 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Dorie, the wife told me he would probably hit on me, but knew what I would do.

Mar 21, 2023 07:05 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Nina Hollander, Broker  unfortunately, a divorce does provide us a listing, so have done quite a few also.   In fact, sat at the kitchen table and told one couple I went thru two uncontested.    I walked them thru, and they called me later and thanked me for saving them money!

Mar 21, 2023 07:07 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Wayne, he TRIED to provide a detour, but no way!

Mar 21, 2023 07:07 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Paula, it was, and one I had not been in before.

Mar 21, 2023 07:08 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Norma, I needed him to know it was BUSINESS, NOT pleasure.

Mar 21, 2023 07:08 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Bill, they can be tougher.

Mar 21, 2023 07:08 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Joan - the combination of a real estate transaction and divorce has the possibility of creating a roadblock.  

Mar 21, 2023 07:23 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Michael, it was court ordered, so he couldn't get out of that.

Mar 21, 2023 07:26 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Joan,

Divorce and selling property are not easy in the most amicable of circumstances.  As soon as you said that both parties had restraining orders, I figured you were in for a bumpy ride.  Kudos to the wife for dumping that philanderer.  What nerve!

Mar 21, 2023 08:49 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

I have had a couple of divorce sales but neither involved as much stress as yours did.

Mar 21, 2023 09:26 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Sheri Sperry - MCNE® and the wife said he had stepped out for the whole 20 years they were married.   I asked why she waited so long, she said three beautiful girls!

Mar 21, 2023 09:36 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Ed, it was a bit bumpy, but patience won out, and it closed.

Mar 21, 2023 09:36 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Those cheating hearts.  Thank you for completing the March to a Solution Challenge!

Mar 21, 2023 09:41 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

And this one was a serious cheater too!

Mar 21, 2023 09:50 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Joan- What a shame that two people had to end like this. Divorce can make any transaction difficult. 

Mar 21, 2023 07:26 PM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Kathy, I wondered how they stayed married for 20 years!

Mar 22, 2023 08:03 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Oh my, divorcing home owners can definitely make things more difficult!

Mar 27, 2023 11:54 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Kat, there are times they make the transaction MUCH more difficult than it should be!

Mar 27, 2023 12:03 PM