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How Do You Measure Success?

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Real Estate Agent with Florida Property Experts

moneyHow do you measure success? When you think of success, do you limit your definition to business and money? Or maybe you include marriage and family in your definition. Or perhaps you just have a specific dollar amount in your head that is your bottom-line prerequisite for anyone you consider successful. Or maybe, since we're in real estate, you think it has to be a certain amount of sales per year....

I was just reading LaShawn Norden's post on "How Do You Measure Success?" So I can't claim any credit for this "original" idea. LOL. However, I decided to post something similar, because I always love this question. First of all, it's always interesting to hear how people define success. And most people thnk of success in terms of money or business. And because we're in real estate, most real estate agents wll have a definition that corresponds with this industry. Mostlittle house people measure themselves against their local competition first, then expand their definition and goals outward as they climb their personally defined "success ladder".

Now before I give you my definition, I want to tell you that I'm interested in hearing YOUR definition, as it stands right now! I say this because my definition might just make you think, or even reconsider your own. But remember, I want to hear your current definition, as of right this second, before you read mine.

For my definition, unfortunately, I can't claim much originality it, anymore than I can take credit for the idea to write this post. What you're about to read is from a song by the popular Christian music group, 4HIM. This song is at least 12 years old, but it has always stuck with me. On LaShawn's post, I only commented on the chorus. But I just grabbed my CD off the shelf, and when I read the words to the entire song, I remembered just why this song has stuck with me all these years. Here are the words to the song "Measure of a Man" by 4HIM. They're also posted below the video I found on You Tube. (It's the only one I could find since the song's pretty old, and I don't think 4HIM is recording or performing anymore.)

 

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So that's it. 4HIM wrote what I consider to be the perfect definition of how we should see ourselves and others, and how we should live our lives. The words of this song also make it clear that even when we fall short... no matter how many times we fall short... God still loves us and forgives us, because He sees us through the eyes of mercy and love; like the perfect Father He is =)

Lisa Hill real estate agent

Lisa C. Hill, the Smart Choice for all your real estate needs.

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Comments(12)

Konnie Mac McCarthy
MacNificent Properties, LLC - Cobb Island, MD
Broker/Owner - VA & MD "Time To Get A Move On!"

waking up in the morning.....a Great success :)

Jul 07, 2008 02:27 PM
Mike Wong
Keller Williams Realty Southwest - Sugar Land, TX
Realtor: Commercial, Residential, Leasing, Invest
I never measured my success compared to others. Its different in each persons eyes. Im fortunate to come from a supportive and financially stable family. I was raised to be humble so I dont measure success in financial wealth. My measure of success is based on happiness. Everything that contributes to it, I define as 3 main components. Family and friends, love, and wealth and stability. Being able to accomplish all 3 simultaneously would define me as being a success.
Jul 07, 2008 02:32 PM
Alexander Harb
Knights Investing - Mesquite, TX
Dallas, Texas Real Estate Investing

I am featuiring this in, "Christianity and Real Estate", Lisa........

Yer hitting home runs now...keep it up, sister!!

(Ya lil Preachers girl you!!)

Jul 07, 2008 03:45 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Hi Lisa, I tell everyone that their goals and what success is to "them" needs to be written on a sheet of paper and not shown to anyone else other than maybe a spouse. It is very individualistic and no one knows your circumstances.

Jul 07, 2008 04:34 PM
Susie Blackmon
Ocala, FL
Ocala, Horses, Western Wear, Horse Farms, Marketing

Being successful to me means finding something (or some things) for a vocation that truly make(s) me happy.  When work doesn't feel like work!  When you can't wait to get up in the morning to get started again.  YES!  Wonder where all of this is leading me??  Happiness means different things at different times in life... it takes a while to really figure out what is important.

Signature Susie Blackmon

Jul 07, 2008 08:01 PM
Don Rogers
Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield - O'Fallon, MO
Realtor, Broker, CDPE, GRI, OnullFallon MO & St Charles County MO homes

Lisa,

It never ceases to amaze me how others see you and think that you are a success and you think that you are just average.  We do fail to measure our success against how our Heavenly Father measures us.

Thank you for the uplifting post.

Don R.

Jul 07, 2008 11:46 PM
Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time

Lisa, Success for me is doing what I love and having peace and joy in my life and doing my best to help others find the same. 

Jul 08, 2008 12:49 AM
Dawn Uselding
A New Dawn Real Estate Services, LLC - Manitowoc, WI
Short Sale Assistant

Amen Sister

Sucess is making a difference not only in today but for a lifetime.  Living a life with integrity is my way of finding peace and joy.  How well I am living for HIM is my way of measuring my sucess.

Jul 08, 2008 01:22 AM
Mary Jo Schaffer
Sweetheart Realty - Bandera, TX
Bandera Texas Real Estate

Lisa,  I love the song and your words of inspiration. I tell others that I am successful and I am truly rich. For God's Hand is upon me and my business, and He has never failed me.

Mary Jo Schaffer

Jul 08, 2008 03:06 AM
Ronelle Schroeder-Hill
Vacaville, CA

Lisa, for me it is about how I would be remembered if I were no longer here, not to sound morbid, but I want to be remembeed fondly

Jul 08, 2008 06:12 AM
Lisa Friedman
Alliance Realtors - Bedminster, NJ
Central New Jersey Real Estate

Lisa, I would define success as a measure of one's happiness and contentment in their own life.

I don't think that wealth has to necessarily be a part of success.  There are plenty of people who devote their lives to charity work and who do not have a lot of material wealth.

There are many people who do not have many friends or family, yet they are content in keeping their own counsel and they can be successful too. 

I guess my definition would be someone who is happy, healthy (both physically and mentally), who treats others well and does some common good, takes personal responsibility and has self respect.

Good question.

Jul 08, 2008 04:05 PM
Terry Rasner-Yacenda
Broker,Owner - Dreams Realty - Reno, NV
"Dreams Realty"

S - acrifice with purpose

U - nity of heart and Spirit

C - ourtesy

C - hist-filled living

E - quanimity with conflict

S - ensitivity to others' needs while recognizing your own

S - ecurity that you can continue to live and love and enjoy the life of your choosing!

Jul 08, 2008 05:30 PM