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I am reading an awesome book that I've been hearing about for a while.  It's called Jack Canfield's Success Principles.  You know Jack Canfield, he's the guy that wrote the Chicken Soup book series.  Anyway, I started doing this one success principle and I have to tell you its given me some exciting things to think about and I'd like to share them with you. 

Of course we all know it is important to write down our goals and a lot of people have started writing "bucket lists" especially since the movie came out.  Well, did you know that how you write your goals is just as important as the goals that you make?  Its true!!  I am a personal testiment to that.  I started writing my goals down on 3X5 cards and look at them at night before bed and in the morning. 

Here are some of the great guidelines I have really thought were important for writing your goals:

1. Start everyone of your goals with the words "I am"...Okay, don't argue with me on this.  Trust me.  I thought I knew better on this one because some of my goals aren't really written that way.  But just take the time to figure out how your goal would sound if you started it with "I am." 

2. Make your goal measureable and accountable.  For instance if you say "I am losing weight" then it is not nearly as powerful as saying "I weigh 178 pounds by no later than October 31, 2008."  See!!  There is a real definition in the goal - not just some lofty ideas. 

3. Use adverbs to describe the action words.  Adverbs are words that describe verbs, so think of words like easily, joyfully, graciously, comfortably, confidently, and so on.  You get the jist.  Again, don't question it, just do it for each one of the goals....

4. Make the goals about yourself and no one else.  That can be hard for some of us, huh?

5. Read them, believe them, know them, feel them. Every day.  And don't stop until they are true!! 

One last note literally.  Here's a link to Somewhere over the Rainbow by Israel Kamakawiwo Ole' if you would like some awesome inspiration music to think about your goals!! 

http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=c9KHo9z86rA

 

 
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18 Comments on Goal Setting Tips!!

But if i make the goals about me, then I can't control them.  Oh wait ... I can't do that anyway.

 

07/10/2008 11:13 PM by Bill Austin (East Valley Living)


   Susan,  Nice positive post with good everyday help in becoming a better human.  I like his books also.

07/10/2008 11:19 PM by Kim Harris-Broker/Owner/Sound Realty (Sound Realty)


Great post.

Thanks.

I am writing mine now.

Loved the music video.  One of my favorites.

Take care....until next time.

07/10/2008 11:20 PM by Linda Lipscomb RE/MAX Lexington Henderson County TN


Thanks Kim!!  I highly recommend Success Principles.  Also, I sometimes listen in to his free montly Q&A the first week of the month.  Go to AskJackCanfield.com for more info.  Its a cool call that also is free!! 

07/10/2008 11:21 PM by Susan Manning (Rancon Real Estate)


Susan -

Great tips - many espoused as well by our Team's Mentor, Floyd Wickman and his friends, as well as our Business Coach, Patti Kouri in CA.

However, we have to examine our goals in light of market changes in 2008.

Let's all keep close on this one!

DEAN & DEAN'S TEAM CHICAGO

07/10/2008 11:26 PM by Dean Moss - Dean's Team Chicago Real Estate Team (Dean's Team - Keller Williams Fox Realty)


Dean, I'd love to hear your thoughts on appropriate goal changes for 2008.  How have your goals changed?  Mine have changed by the markets I target and my sales goals have definitely increased as well.  How about you? 

07/10/2008 11:29 PM by Susan Manning (Rancon Real Estate)


Susan,

Goal-setting is quite important. Realistic goal-setting. I never thought about that " I am " part, but on thinking about it more it seems to make a big difference to the whole meaning.

07/10/2008 11:34 PM by Esko Kiuru - Las Vegas NV Mortgage Consultant (Sinifox Financial)


Susan, great post.  I am going to try the 3x5 card!

07/10/2008 11:35 PM by Tony & Darcy Cannon - The C Team (ERA Realty Center)


Thanks everybody!! 

Esko, what is realistic though?  Reality is the illusion that we create because of our pre-conceived ideas.  My point is this - why not dream and dream big?  I recently just came up with my "break through goal" and believe me it doesn't seem very realistic as I sit here and type right now.  I am just trusting that the right and perfect people are coming to me to help me create this break through goal in my life as it will help me accomplish so many more of my goals in life.  Make sense?  You are really the person who stops you from being anything you want to be in your life!! 

07/10/2008 11:40 PM by Susan Manning (Rancon Real Estate)


Susan,  Great Tips.  Here is another place to get some great tips for goal setting. From an author and speaker named  Bryan Tracy.  I read anything written by him.. he has some great info for free if you sign up for his newsletter..    www.briantracy.com       one of his best books is called  "Eat that Frog"    It is about starting everyday doing the most  undersirable task on your do list first thing in the morning.. once it is out of the way, the rest of the day is easy.

 

                                               Tom

07/11/2008 09:03 AM by Thomas Hargreaves (Teamwork Financial Services)


Thomas, thanks for the tip!  Jack Canfield actually refers to Brian Tracy quite a bit as well as his book.  Must be something to look at...better go eat the BPO frog this morning...

07/11/2008 11:26 AM by


Also, make sure you write them down!  Too many people have goals that they never write down.  Once you write something down, it makes it a real goal.

Jared

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07/11/2008 12:26 PM by Jared Pomranky ~ Detroit Investment Properties (Urban Detroit Wholesalers)


Jared, if you don't write it down, its only an idea!! 

07/11/2008 12:29 PM by


Susan, very good info. Thanks for sharing. I've bookmarked this so I can refer back to it.

08/19/2008 06:41 AM by Tanya Venable, Anderson, SC/Spartanburg/ Greenville, SC/ Home Staging (Fresh Eye Designs, LLC)


Susan,

Great reminder to write your goals down.  We all have goals but few of us write them down.  I have to try the 3x5 card where I can see it everyday.

08/23/2008 09:40 PM by Rosalinda Morgan, "The Rose Lady", Brookville NY Real Estate Professional (Century 21-Laffey Associates, Licensed Associate Broker)


Great post - I like his books also and I agree to write down your goals!

08/24/2008 05:51 AM by Norma J. Elkins (Triple "E" Realty)


SUSAN,

 

Great post. Please keep sharing tips!

 

Jim

08/29/2008 12:06 PM by Jim Fischetti (The Fischetti Group/Keller Williams)


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