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I only have one child. 2 1/2 But that's enough to make your world spin. In my previous post this morning regarding eating healthier, I had lots of suggestions of what to cook. Here's my dilemma and I know the same for lot's of you out there: time.

When you're a REALTOR, you do your best not to be reactive. But in the market we're in, it's every man for himself and take what you can get. So you run, you call, you market, you meet, you show, you list, you post you do do do. Then you get to go home to family

And you continue to do do do. Make dinner( or heat one up whichever is easier), clean house, clean baby, chase baby, entertain baby, do a dance for baby (although hubby likes that too), put baby to bed, do laundry, clean house more, plan for tomorrow and maybe sleep hoping you haven't forgotten a walk thru or empty spot in a contract somewhere.

I've received other blogs from single moms. I salute you with all my being. I was raised by a single mom and with a small child now, in this industry, I have absolutely no knowledge of how you do it. But you do. And our children still play soccer, go to girl scouts, have friends and eat macaroni and hotdogs for dinner. But we survive.

I personally would love to start a group for Mom's in the Real Estate business. I don't think you get the kudo's or support you deserve from either family or business and clients. The time management issue is for me a nightmare. Maybe it's easier for some of you. I'd love to hear some of your ideas and share them in a group situation where we can benefit from experience and sharing.

Whatcha think?

Anyone see a sippy cup around here anywhere?

 
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4 Comments on Clients VS Children-The Time Management Nightmare for Moms

Holly, on behalf of the Dads out there I want to request you open up your idea to all parents. There are lots of Dads (like me) who do all the Mr. Mom things too. Although my wife does help out with things around the house, since she has the 8-5 job (sometimes 8-6) it is up to me to be Super Dad.

I have three boys (13-12-7) and I do all the Doctor, Dentist appointments, I drop off/pick up at camp, do the grocery shopping, make most dinners, do the laundry, mow the lawn etc. etc. etc.

Lets here it for the Self Employed Parents, Moms and Dads!!!

07/18/2008 09:03 AM by Christopher Bonta,Realtor/ Integrity and Honesty (The Masiello Group)


Holly,

Being raised in a single parent household always has issues, yet so many have thrived and shown that loving and caring will make a difference.....by wise use of time management, it is always about the QUALITY not just the quantity of the time.

Start the group, and don't forget those single Dad's....have a great weekend.

07/18/2008 09:05 AM by Dan Brudnok - Realtor, e-PRO, ABR, CSP - Chester County RE Professional (Keller Williams - Exton - PA License Number #RS225179L )


I love your post!  As the mom of 3 very active young boys I never have enough time either!  This is a difficult business to be a mom in because of how demanding it is.  I am getting much better at organizing and deligating.  I keep games and toys in my office so I can take the kids with me to do paperwork and know they will be entertained.  Clients with children also love this because my office is completely kid friendly for their kids too.  I also have someone else clean my house and this opens up tons of time.  At first I hated paying a cleaning person so much to do something I am totally capable of, but it is so worth it and reduces my stress in ways I can't describe.  I also work with a partner who has twins.  Her and I split everything and work with each others clients.  Our clients love it because they feel like they are getting 2 agents for the price of 1.  We love it because we never miss the kids activities and we get to take time off knowing someone else is there to service our clients.  The only downfall is we never get to go on a vacation together!  Good luck-I think your moms group idea is a great one! 

07/18/2008 09:06 AM by Michelle Bush (RE/MAX Realty Professionals)


Holly,

Chris and Dan have a point; we don't often think of single Dads.  A friend of mine with two little ones, 3 and 6, is in just the position you've outlined in your blog, and he doesn't have an easy time of it either.  This is a much-needed post.  Thanks for taking the time to write.

Mike in Tucson

07/18/2008 09:08 AM by Mike Jones (Tucson Mortgage Company, LLC)


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