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IT ALL COUNTS.

How we talk, the tone of our voice, how we write, how we dress, how we laugh or don't laugh, our choice of words, our grooming, our presentation, our response and timing, our energy, it all counts. Why some don't get this and act unprofessional, crude, hurtful, or mean is beyond me.

That's not to say in blogging or in life we can't be silly, or tell jokes, or never take a risk, or God forbid, make mistakes. But remember YOU ARE VERY IMPORTANT IN THE WORLD TO OTHERS. Do not miss this point.

This is just a simple message today and one of my great life philosophers I knew from way back when said it much better than I can below. Just remember you are special. I think you are special. What you do with who you are uniquely in the world counts very much. Because, as you know now, IT ALL COUNTS!!

"The majority of us lead quiet, unheralded lives as we pass through this world. There will most likely be no tickertape parades for us, no monuments created in our honor. But that does not lessen our possible impact, for there are scores of people waiting for someone just like us to come along; people who will appreciate our compassion, our encouragement, who will need our unique talents. Someone who will live a happier life merely because we took the time to share what we had to give. Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. It's overwhelming to consider the continuous opportunities there are to make our love felt." ~ Leo Buscaglia

Posted by Gary Woltal - Associate Broker REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth on 07/23/2008 11:28 AM

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36 Comments on It All Counts

JUL

2008

Gary, you are sure right about this. Good advice.

Gary~ It does all matter. You would be amazed how the little things we can do for someone is just the right thing they need to brighten up their day! Everyone really is important in their own way!

Gary---can you imagine a drop of water trying to get off the mountain without all of the others to help it along? Can you say "evaporation?":)

Gary - This is so true. I once wrote a similar post about how we are all here for a reason, tying it into "It's a Wonderful Life". Kudos to you and your wise views on life.

Chris: We very much affect others around us whether we believe it or not.

Vickie: Our unique strengths do have an impact, and that is why we need to put our best self forward out there.

Charles: Good visual. A drop by itself seems so insignificant at times. But think of the world's oceans. They are full of drops that add up. Evaporation happens if we don't roll down the mountain with the others. Wasted talent.

Jason: I think that too, that we are here for a reason, and we matter. It is not random where we are at or who we encounter.

Very nice Gary - very true and simple........we all make a difference - one way or another - even if we don't think we do.........I love Leo! :-)

Gary - this is another inspirational and reflective post. I love the quote in your post about the impact we may have on others. Thanks for another great post.

Gary - It is amazing how many fail to focus on the more important things in life, sharing, caring etc.

Liz: Leo was such a cool guy, and I know he wrote many books and was on PBS TV a lot. Sad that he died what seemed fairly early.

Sharon: I am glad you liked that quote passage. It was a good one. Thank you for all your Maui info. I have truly enjoyed it.

Jennifer: I know you are a great carer and sharer, so I know there is plenty of hope for the world!! : )

Yes, it all counts. The problem is that many times we are so hurried and overwhelmed, that we start loosing perspective of the most important things.

Hi Gary: I'd like to add "tone" to your list. Sometimes, it's not what you say, it's the way that you say it. We all have times of frustration, and even if a person is smiling at you while stating a problem, you can hear the grumble in her voice. Before I make that telephone call to chew out a person (who probably deserves it), I try to conjure up an image of something amusing. I have my favorite images in my head. That image puts a chuckle and lilt to my voice, helps to keep me calm and cool when explaining the problem to the person on the other end of the phone. And I gain better cooperation that way. So, when you have unpleasant business to do -- and we all do at times -- think of the funniest thing that has ever happened to you, when you laughed really HARD and hold that thought when you make the call.

Gary, You are so special to post such wisdom. "....It's overwhelming to consider the continuous opportunities there are to make our love felt." ~ Leo Buscaglia

This is too true! I think that people sometimes forget that who we are and how we present ourself is one of the biggest selling points to prospective clients.

Gary, Beautiful post and the perfect quote to go with it. I love Leo Buscaglia from years ago and still do, he was just walking inspiration. I used to get to see him on PBS specials and still have all the old books.

Gary: This is a great post. So many of us don't ever think of the impact we have on others. How big something that seems inconsequential can be. A reminder to be more aware...and a good one.

Marzena: To your point I think then we should slow down. Easier said then done, I know the feeling.

Elizabeth: Great point. What do they call that, the smile in your voice. Give them a spoon full of sugar with that vinegar. You are the master Elizabeth ; )

Margaret: I think we always can do much better at touching people, and uplifting them. I keep trying to get better at it.

Rich: If we don't project the right image, who would want to work with us?

Carole: I was a big fan of Leo Buscaglia as well. He could really connect with the heart.

Chris Ann: I have seen as a receiver in my life the impact of something small that had meaning. If the other person only knew. They would come back and do it more to me and others.

I forgot about Leo. My Mum had all his books when I was growing up. Maybe reading all those books helped make me who I am today.

Michelle: Leo Buscaglia had a very nurturing style as a writer and life coach. He wrote many excellent books. Maybe why you did turn out so wonderful : )

Gary...

When I started reading the quote, I thoght it might be Winston Churchill. I was surprised that it was attributed to Leo Buscaglia. Thanks for the uplifting post!

Richard: Leo was a master at perceiving the heart of people and uplifting them. Churchill was great at oratory as well. Remember that Never Never Never quote of his?

You're right Gary...it does all count. As always, great post...and I don't mean that to be a pat answer either. It is subtle and true. Thank you.

Later in the rain~Deb

Deb: If we step back and look at the good things and the not so good things we did in a day and accounted for it honestly with ourselves, we would say it all counts. The negative things had a not so nice impact and the positive things we could say, done good on those ones.

Gary - Good point. There are people in this world who have no clue about self-image. How we dress and act has an impact in how we are received by society. Evrer notice those who don't conform are the attention seekers of the world?

Gary,
Your post is the place to come when one feels "down". You always have an uplifting message. Thanks.

Gary, I enjoyed this post as I do all your posts. It is important to compliment others or give them a smile. It can mean a lot.

Hi Gary, What a wonderful post. Your wisdom never ceases to amaze me. I always have a better outlook after reading what you write. Thanks!

Carol: It is one thing to be individualistic but we have to fit in and be part of society as well. Especially in business you are developing relationships and you want all your ducks in a row. If you are a serious non-conformer it doesn't fit every job category. No IBM types there.

Cynthia: We'll make this place an oasis for you yet. I'm building it one palm tree at a time.

Shirley: Those smiles and compliments I know make me soar. That's why we need to send them out as well.

Denise: I love your reports from Brevard. Keep those words and photos coming. I thoroughly enjoy them. Thanks for your kind words. I try here.

Wow, that quote brought tears to my eyes! So beautiful. Thanks for being someone who encourages others here on AR

Pam: That whole passage by Leo Buscaglia was rich. Tears to the eyes are ok : ) I'm getting to you. VERY GOOD!! ; ) But it reminds me of so many more opportunities to touch than we do, and it makes me strive harder each day. With your help that will be possible!!

Gary - you express ideas so well and this one is so important. Let someone know that they are special to you, even a little thing, a thank you, taking a moment to look someone in the eye and ask how they are, and then listen to their reply.

Virginia: I am so glad that you get it. Sometimes I write things and I wonder if anybody believes me about stuff. It is heartwarming that you get it. Maybe you just have to live enough life, I don't know. Even your example, How are you? and listening. So simple, but so many don't do it. Thank God for people like YOU!!!

JUL

2008

Gary,

We are important to someone and we may never know who we were important to. We touch many lives as we go through life and will influence some in ways we may never know.

Don R.

Don: You just have to be assured that you are affecting others in good ways even if you don't know how. Many have touched me and they don't even know how important they are in my life. I try to thank them but sometimes I can't reach them because they are so busy.

Gary, you and your posts are a great example of how the uplifting thoughts, kind words, and your focus on others can make other people special. Each of us can see the positive impact your actions make on so many readers.

At the same time, I have to remember myself...it all counts. Even when we goof and say things that would have been better left unsaid.

Gary, you're right everything counts... all the pieces of a puzzle !!! Once we finally put them all together we finally GET THE PICTURE... The real us and who we are!

Sondra: I think the slip of the tongue things we say (counts) as well, and we do impact negatively people and hurt them, even without intending to. It's something to consider. We're not perfect, so it is going to happen. But I think as we get older we should get better at this it all counts idea.

Arina: That is a good way to look at our presentation to the world. Very much like a puzzle we have many facets. When those get to know us better and see all the pieces that is the real person who we are. Quite insightful!!

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