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Your client's best friend in the area is often you!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Austin Texas Homes, LLC 453249

Having worked with countless buyers who are relocating from other areas (well, maybe not "countless"), I usually enjoy being the first person that they get to know in Austin, Texas.  Of course, with this privilege comes responsibility, because they may lean more heavily on me and my knowledge of the area when they have questions.  Frankly, they may not know or trust anyone else enough to ask.  This is not limited to real estate expertise, but instead extends to restaurants, entertainment, lodging, and more. 

Once they are moved in, they will also have questions about who can mow their yard, or paint the house a different color, or build a fence for them.  Who to ask?  YOU, of course!

I was working with a client recently and we were getting along reasonably well.  I don't know if we would have been friends under different circumstances or not, but it hit me one day when we were talking that I was his sole Austin area friend.  The tone was different somehow, like he was truly interested and appreciative of my time.  Then I began to think of other people I had met over the years, and how important my friendship was to them, at least for that season.

I have always tried to be a "friend to the friendless", and my career has been no different. 

To be sure, many of these client friendships have lasted for years after the transaction.  Others, however, have withered on the vine, primarily because my mind shifts toward the next piece of business, and because I have plenty of close friends and my family to keep me busy. 

I probably could leverage these friendships more effectively, if I am being honest with myself.  Unfortunately, follow-up has never been my strong suit.  I am more of a hunter-gatherer when it comes to real estate, it would seem.  I am not bragging about this. 

That being said, I manage to get most of my business from referrals and past clients, probably because I am just as transparent in real life as you have seen me in my blog.  I have found that people simply trust more quickly when I am open about myself. 

The next time you are working with an out-of-town or out-of-state client relocating to your area, keep in mind how important you really are to them.  In addition to being a real estate professional, we are called upon to be therapist, adviser, and friend.

 

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If you're looking for a home in the Austin area, you can also visit my primary website at www.austintexashomes.com.  Thanks!

Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Jason, they say people do business with those they like. If you can't get past the likeability factor you are sunk.

Jul 25, 2008 04:53 PM
Matt Dollinger
@properties - Chicago, IL

Jason,

Good post and something that i believe that everyone needs to remember when they're working with out of town buyers... As Gary about spoke about, we all need to have that Likeability factor going on, but also be genuine about it.  I might also recommend taking a look at Tim Sander's books The Likeability Factor and Love... The Killer App.  Both are written about how honest helping of others and providing to them (recommendations, referrals, etc.) help change the face of business.

I'm a firm believer in all of this, as long as (as it seems with you...) it's genuine.  Hence the name of my blog and company is The You Factor www.theyoufactor.com 

Keep up the good work.

Matt Dollinger

@properties

Jul 25, 2008 05:05 PM
Cameron Novak
The Homefinding Center - 1000 Palms, CA
Real Estate Broker since 2008

I know exactly what you mean.  I have a few relo customers who have become good friends.  They refer to me as family.

It's a terrific feeling.

 

Jul 25, 2008 05:19 PM
Jeff Johnson
On the Move - Louisville, KY
Proud To Be Your Realtor

My buyers have all become lifelong friends.  It is so important to cultivate this cause its the right thing to do.

Jul 25, 2008 05:42 PM
Sun City Grand Homes Surprise AZ Real Estate Leolinda Bowers Designated Broker Leolinda Realty
Leolinda Realty - Surprise, AZ
Sun City Grand in Surprise Arizona

Jason, My clients are my good friends.  My clients think of me as a friend.  When you can develop this type of relationship, you will consistently obtain listings and thought of as "my Realtor".  It seems to me that you understand "The Secret".

Jul 25, 2008 05:48 PM
Adam Waldman
Westcott Group Real Estate Company - Hauppauge, NY
Realtor - Long Island

JASON - As you know, most relocations around here involve people leaving Long Island, however, I have had a recent dealing with a couple that is looking to relocate from Canada.  You are right about being there for them in ways that go beyond real estate.  If you are truly an area expert, you become a tour guide of sorts also.  The great thing about people relocating is that they give you a new perspective about what knowledge is important to help with their transition.  As bloggers, they can also be a source of inspiration. 

The reason that I put together the post about local supermarkets was because of this couple.  They wanted to make sure that they were in close proximity to shopping, and supermarkets are as local as real estate, so they had no knowledge of what each store was, or where they were located. 

Being in a market like Austin, which is often times named as one of the top places to live, I know that you will have many more opportunities to help people get acclimated to the area.  I'm sure that the relocation package that you've created allows you to dispose of the competition rather easily.

Jul 26, 2008 12:01 AM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Jason...

Wow, funny you mentioned this. I deal with mostly out-of-town clients and it's true: They depend on you for everything. So there's a lot more tome involved, many more phone calls, and it' just natural that a relationship evolves. Good insight, thanks!

Jul 26, 2008 12:08 AM
Pippa Mac
Chevaux Group Realtor, The Woodlands and Spring - The Woodlands, TX
The Woodlands TX Real Estate

Its always amazing what people will share with you.  I find it is an honor that they trust me with some very sensitive things about them.  Your openess does show through in your blog ... keep up the good work!

Jul 26, 2008 01:17 AM
Debi Ernst
St. Charles County, Missouri - Prudential Alliance Realtors - O'Fallon, MO
GRI, e-PRO, Broker/Sales Associate

I've noticed that a realtor sometimes wears many hats.  I've been a counselor, friend, nurse, telephone book, decorator, and many others.  It makes life interesting...  :)

Jul 26, 2008 01:38 AM
Aventura | Bal Harbour | Sunny Isles Beach | REALTOR® 786-229-7999
SIB REALTY, Llc // WaterWayRealty.com - Sunny Isles, FL

Hi Friend!

It is very true... somehow this business tends to mold "friendships" where otherwise it may not be so. We are often called on as therapists, consultants and psychics!

Jul 26, 2008 03:14 AM
Vicki Burton
Southport Realty-Southport, North Carolina - Southport, NC
A local Buyer's Agent - Southport NC Real Estate

Hi Jason, I think the friendships we develop with ous clients is one of the great perks of our job, particularly with buyers. It's built on mutual trust and continues after the deal is done. I laughed at your "hunter-gatherer" confession. I guess cause it hit a little too close to home!

Jul 26, 2008 03:31 AM
Sandi Justice
Wilkinson & Associates Real Estate - Wilmington, NC
Wilmington NC Living

Hi Jason!

Thanks for the tip on the signature name.  As I come back to thank you for such a wonderful post...I see yet another one which really touches my heart.  It's as if I wrote it, as I have experience the same bonding.  At first, I'm not only their liason to the community...but their new best friend when they are having the stresses of moving to a new town.  As they get settled, it is like seeing your child grow up and leave the nest.  Even though you see them less often...the bond is still there and it is a strong one.  I think that is why I chose to specialize in Relocation.  I think I love to surround myself with great people, or Earth Angels as I refer to my Buyers! Great Blog Post Jason!

Jul 26, 2008 04:29 AM
Anonymous
Not Yet Licensed

I have always tried to be a "friend to the friendless",

Hey Jason,

Is that an I Love Lucy reference?  :)

Jul 26, 2008 04:37 AM
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Martha Brown
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc., Annapolis MD 21403 - Annapolis, MD
Your Homes Around Annapolis Agent

Jason- So very true. Having worked with many out of townersI have noticed how dependent they are on me to share my knowledge on homes, neighborhoods, food, fun etc. It can be exhausting but so rewarding as well.

Jul 26, 2008 04:57 AM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best

My short story- My million dollar buyer needed to leave town for a son's graduation a week after they closed.  Two large labs and no 'familiar' kennel nearby.  I was the hero of the day.  Little did they know I fell so in love with their dogs I almost nabbed them!  May I also add, their million dollar buyer friends showed up six months later...  Would I have done it if I knew there was another large commission coming my way?  Of course, but I didn't know it at the time.

Jul 26, 2008 05:27 AM
Sondra Meyer:
EXP Realty, LLC - Corpus Christi, TX
See It. Experience It. Live It.

Jason, you've made several really good points here.  We are "ambassadors" to our communities until our clients get to know their way around and meet other people.  For those that are local, sometimes we do fill their need to have someone that can listen and emphasize with their experience.  And, I'm glad I'm not the only one in the world that could be doing a better job of keeping up with past clients.....an ongoing New Years resolution. 

Jul 26, 2008 06:58 AM
Birmingham Alabama Real Estate, Stephen Wolfe
LivingInBirmingham.com - Birmingham, AL

Jason, this really is so true and, really, regardless of whether or not we are thier best friend, we ought to be thier friend. As you pointed out many times clients come to us for referrals and we ought to have a list of folks that they can call.

Jul 26, 2008 12:35 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

I like to get them together - invite clients to the same parties - they often make their own relationships this way.

Jul 26, 2008 02:41 PM
Anonymous
Not Yet Licensed

Hey Jason,

Georgina Hunter's comment reminded me of something.  One of my top producing clients invites all her buyers and sellers to her house once a year for a big party.  Like you, she becomes friends with most of her clients.  It's a great way to have fun and maximize referrals.  A real win-win.

Jul 28, 2008 06:10 AM
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Christina Williams. REALTOR® TN property search & local insights
First Realty Company - Crossville, TN

Jason ~ This is so true. You hit the nail on the head with this one!  I spend at least two weekends a month at clients bbq's, outings or getting together for dinner. As most of my clients have moved here from out of town.  Some of my best friends are past and present clients. One of the best perks of this career! 

Aug 01, 2008 04:51 PM