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I Love Being A Work-At-Home-Mom (WAHM)

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.

There are so many wonderful things I love about being a Work-At-Home-Mom (WAHM). At the top of my list is the ability to be there for my learning disabled children. My six year old son, Noah, suffers from Autism. My two year old son, Stephen, suffers from Pervasive Development Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (PDD-NOS). When you are balancing two sets of therapy schedules, three freelance positions, and trying to get a little face time in with your husband, things can get a little crazy in your daily planner. No one really knows what anyone else’s life is like and I am flattered that you’ve been very curious about mine. Since I have received so many emails from the readers of my blog; I decided instead of answering each person individually, I would simply publish the answers on the very blog that generated each inquiry. The number one question revolved around how I do all of the things that I showcase in my blog.

The answer isn’t as complicated as some of you were lead to believe. The fact of the matter is since I am working for small periods of time for multiple clients and customers on a broad spectrum of projects, the most important thing for me are to manage my activities during a set amount of time wisely. It’s not the “time” you concentrate on; it is the “efficiency of the activity.” This is my key for how I manage to get so much done: (1) I schedule my time carefully in 20 minute intervals until my “list of things to do today” actually get done. (2) I prioritize my phone calls into (a) immediate answer or return, (b) 24 hour return, (c) 48 hour return and also try to ensure that a response rarely goes past the third day. All important calls are followed up with a fax or an email to recap the talking points and to document where I am in the project with the client.

As an independent contractor who telecommutes I have to be very careful about my attitudes toward the flexibility in my schedule. You control your schedule and can not blame someone else for what you fail to do with it. I am responsible for my own health insurance, errors and omission insurance, general operating expenses, transportation, marketing and overhead. If I am not careful with my management of my activities or fail to schedule adequate time to perform my goals, then my business may fail. As a Real Estate Paralegal operating (1) a Mobile Notary Signing Agent business, (2) conducting legal research/investigations and (3) working as a New York State licensed Realtor, my self-management style is based upon obtaining “the most bang for my buck,” e.g. maximizing a final result while minimizing time, costs and commuting. If you are anything like me and your wireless laptop and cell phone is your office, then technically your business can virtually remain open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. This WAHM is never absent; I am always on duty and simply an email, fax and / or phone call away.

On a final aside, yes I am an artist and I create illustrations, fine art, and graphic art and absolutely love my photography, however, I treat my creativity as seriously as I treat my e-commute and schedule time for those activities accordingly. I even treat my blogs as a job and take the branding of my name and association very seriously. If you are going to be a WAHM, then time and activity management is the key.

Comments(58)

C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Naoma, I do it one day at a time. Sometimes, I even skip a day to unwind. :-)

 

Jul 26, 2008 06:40 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Hey Lizette, thank you! I've seen your little cutie pie and understand exactly how you feel about your pet. ;-)

Jul 26, 2008 06:45 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

I live under the illusion that I am organized and efficient, but girlfriend, you put me to shame with all that energy.

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Jul 27, 2008 03:50 AM
Elaine Hanson
Coldwell Banker Realty - Malibu | Topanga - Malibu, CA
REALTOR - Topanga, CA Real Estate Agent

Bulletin, people -- When I talked to C yesterday, I realized that she has left out a thing or two.  Don't worry, I thanked her for leaving them out, but I'm sure there are more!

Long live the Chaos Queen!

Jul 27, 2008 03:55 AM
Cristal Drake
Prudential California Realty - Fullerton, CA
Realtor - Fullerton Real Estate

Wow, C, thanks for sharing so much of yourself with us!  I knew you were an amazing artist and photographer but you are also one amazing mother and human being!  I am so glad we met in the rain!

Jul 27, 2008 05:02 AM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

You guys are making me blush. That is a neat trick! ;-)

Elizabeth, thank you for your kind words, but truth be told, I can get pretty disorganized at times, especially when the little minions make it into my file cabinet while I am otherwise occupied. :-)

Elaine, the Queen of Chaos thanks you! (I shall have to pace myself with these revelations - LOL)

Cristal, it's a lot of fun sharing and a great place to sit back, relax, and just be me. I enjoy hearing from you all and have to say I really love my Club Chaos family. BTW, thank you for the compliments, your kind words are very much appreciated.

Jul 27, 2008 05:14 AM
Yvette Smith
LONG & FOSTER - Williamsburg, VA
Realtor In Williamsburg VA, Homes for Sale

HI C!

Time management is key.  It's become extremely challenging during the summer months with the children out of school!  First day of school...almost here!!

Thanks for sharing,

Jul 27, 2008 08:23 AM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Hey Yvette, I understand completely. I did some serious scrambling to get my kids into Summer programs. Having a few hours each morning without the pitter-patter of little feet and crashing items goes a long way in fight to help keep my sanity (LOL).

Jul 27, 2008 08:58 AM
Deborah Burroughs
San Diego, CA

I was actually wondering how you accomplish so much (and I didn't know about all the things you're juggling). I always thought of myself as being organized until I started working from home. :) I'm still managing just fine, but I get distracted often. I want to go out in my newly planted garden to see if the plants are okay (and stuff like that).

Your advice about doing what you love is so true. Life is short--when you put it all in perspective. We each have gifts that are unique to us, and ignoring those gifts can make life a bit dull. :) Sometimes, it feels like you don't have the time to enjoy yourself especially when you're juggling so much. But Carolyn, you seem to have found a good system and an even better attitude. You are amazing!

Jul 27, 2008 03:19 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Thank you Deb, I appreciate your kind words. It is not a perfect system, but it does work well for me. :-)

Jul 27, 2008 03:32 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Carolyn, this excellent story about being a Work at Home Mom has been featured in the Group Diary of a Realtor. Congratulations. I hope even more readers get to view your well written thoughts here.

Jul 27, 2008 04:00 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Thank you Gary, what an honor! I truly appreciate it. :-D

Jul 27, 2008 10:04 PM
Anonymous
Abby - new WAHM

I am encouarged by such a story of strength and passion -- by your determination to succeed as a WAHM. My journey as a WAHM began when my child turned 5 and started going to school -- I wanted so much to be there for her new experiences every step of the way, that the only way I knew was staying home. It's been rewarding so far. People underestimate the challenge of managing yourself, it really is a character building process. I'm also learning how to invest and manage my wealth in the most optimum way. If I could recommend a reading to you get "Stop Sitting on Your Assets" by Marian Snow --  it's a must for every WAHM -- it teaches simple and significant ways of wealth management and about leveraging the equity of your own home -- you best asset. http://www.stopsittingonyourassets.com. Being a realtor as well, I believe that you have much to learn from this book -- it will help you view real estate in a life changing way. :)

Jul 28, 2008 02:15 PM
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Michelle Hall
Century 21 Hecht - Denver, NC

Carolyn, very impressive I could learn a thing or two from you.  Actually I just did, you gave me a little guidance on the phone issue.  I like how you have it broken down. 

Jul 28, 2008 03:37 PM
Pam Pugmire
Silvercreek Realty Group - Meridian, ID
Meridian Idaho Real Estate

Carolyn~It really is true that busy people get things done.  Most people who don't have to be more efficient AREN"T.  It's amazing what we can do when we put our mind to it!  You are a testament to WAHM everywhere!  You get it all done, and manage to have some fun along the way!

Jul 28, 2008 03:41 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Hey Michelle, I'm glad you enjoyed the post and found it useful. :-)

Jul 28, 2008 04:30 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Hey Pam, I do get a lot done, but truth be told, I don't always get it "all" done; however I did enjoy the compliment. Thank you!

Jul 28, 2008 04:32 PM
Laura Watts
Positive Properties, LLC - Laurinburg, NC

C.  I am really amazed and in awe of you. I really wish I could get organized like that. I start out organized with my schedule in hand, when BAM, I am thrown off course and have to tend to something that wasn't on my calendar of events for the day.

I am a notary myself, but all mine is done at the office. I don't bring it home with me for the simple reason, I would never get any thing done. There are several notaries in my family, but for some reason most of my family like to call on me to notarize for them. I don't advertise my notary either because I would be bogged down worse than I am now.  Real Estate, BPO's and REO properties keep me hopping.

I enjoyed this blog.     The Energizer Bunny has nothing on you. LOL

Jul 28, 2008 05:37 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Thank you, Laura! I appreciate your kind words and have to admit it is not every day that I get compared to the energizer bunny. Cool! :-)

Jul 28, 2008 10:19 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

http://www.wahm.com/

Someone sent me this link. Very interesting. I'm checking out their telecommuting list and the associated blog... Hmm...

Sep 12, 2008 03:21 AM