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WILL YOU PLEASE QUIT REMINDING ME!!! I GET IT ALREADY! YOU SOUND LIKE MY MOTHER!

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty LLC 0225227139

Those of you who know me well, also know it is not likely that my mother would take offense to the title of this blog.  Mothers out there who do, it is just a cliche.  Nothing is meant to be personal.  If it does feel like a personal attack then maybe there is something for you to take a look at.

But I do hope that the person who is in charge of the the crazy hype that constantly reminds us of how high the gas prices are, and how bad the economy is, and how bad the mortgage & housing market is, every day, day in and day out, takes this to heart. 

I wish I could meet this one person.  I'd knock'em flat out.  Who ever started the campaign of daily reminders?  Like, do I really need to be reminded?  I get it every time I go to the gas station, everytime I go to the grocery store and every time I compare my income from 2003 to today. 

I am sick of the whining too.  I say suck it up.  I don't know how to say it nicely to get my point across.  Folks sometimes life is hard.  The man on the top of the mountain did not FALL there. 

So what are ya going to do?  Keep reminding yourself that times are hard and it means we have to actually start paying some dues or just get up and do it?

I'm reminded when other catastrophes happen in our country.  I remember September 11.  We did not whine about that, we did something about it.  The city of New York and people of this county rose to the occasion.  That is what we do

Our freedoms were not handed to us on a silver platter.  As a result of our freedoms this Constitution of America acknowledges we are the strongest and most liberated people of the world.  I think we can over come a little housing slump, a little economic slip, and shuffle things around, white knuckle it and get through.

I don't mean to minimize the extend that some folks may have to "shuffle things around".  I know for some this may mean, foreclosure, no summer vacation, and for some just a little tightening of the belt.  Hey, I am in the same boat.  But I am not going to complain about it.  I am going to suck it up and do what I got to do.

There will come a day and this will be history.  An important part of history, no doubt but I have the attitude the sooner the better!  And I'm just going to do what I can to move in that direction.  It starts with attitude. 

I was told by a wealthy person, one day a while back, "Skid row is a state of mind".  No matter how hard it gets I am just not going there.  I am going to make a difference today.

 

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Nannette Turner Saunders, Associate Broker

Short Sales Coordinator

Keller Williams Realty

1709 Laskin Road

Virginia Beach Va

Dana Couch-Davis
Kendall Haney Realty Group - Memphis, TN
CRS, GRI, ABR, SRES

Yeah I do get tired of those constant reminders.  I think people think if they constantly remind me that it will spur me to work hard ... as if 65 hours a week isn't enough!  Even my mother wasn't that annoying with reminders!  :)

Jul 27, 2008 02:34 AM
Nannette Turner
eXp Realty LLC - Lynchburg, VA
Online Marketing Home Ownership Advocate Specialis

Dana exactly!  I appreciate your comment!

Jul 27, 2008 02:39 AM
Barry Bridges
Barry Bridges Weichert Realtors Bridges & Co. - Smith Mountain Lake, VA
Lake professional

Don't forget to............         JUST KIDDING!

Jul 27, 2008 02:48 AM
NADEEM IQBAL
alpha - Saint Augustine, FL

Hi:

Comeon let us be realistic, the realestate agents are played their part in the foreclosure problem. They lured the customers into buying things which were overpriced. Now both the agents and the customers have to pay the price.

 

Ofcourse the BUYER has the prime responsibility by agent is NOT scott free !!

 

No offense meant !!

 

 

 

Jul 27, 2008 02:53 AM
Nannette Turner
eXp Realty LLC - Lynchburg, VA
Online Marketing Home Ownership Advocate Specialis

Barry... LOL! Thanks for the comment!

Nadeem no offense taken but it is just type of thinking that sounds like whining to me.  Mainly because the topic is not just the housing market at this time.  Can't blame high prices at the gas station on real estate agents can we?  Does it really matter at this point who is to blame.  My point is, what are we going to do about it?

Jul 27, 2008 03:03 AM
Betina Foreman
WJK Realty - Austin, TX
Realtor, C.N.E., with WJK REALTY

It seems most people have a negative attitude. My mother always said you have to make the most of of what you are given. This market may be hard for some. Some people are forced to sell their homes, but there is always someone out there ready to buy. So I say its time to make some lemonade out of life's lemons! Thanks!

Betina

Jul 27, 2008 03:10 AM
NADEEM IQBAL
alpha - Saint Augustine, FL

We have to be CONTENT in life !! That is the key to happiness.

 

We need to look at people who are below us and thank God for his blessings.

 

Be content with what you have.

 

I never get upset with market crashes !!

 

Jul 27, 2008 03:15 AM
Nannette Turner
eXp Realty LLC - Lynchburg, VA
Online Marketing Home Ownership Advocate Specialis

Betina I agree some folks always see the negative side of things and I am probably an eternal optimist to a fault.

Nadeem  I just look above and thank God for the blessings he has given me and pray that he will bestow blessings on those that are in need.  Thanks for your comment!

Jul 27, 2008 03:21 AM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Like you, Nannette, I tend to look for the silver lining in things. You can spend a lot of time dwelling on the negatives, or you can embrace the positives. We all have that choice in life. If you surround yourself with negative people, you become negative yourself.

Elizabeth weintraub sacramento real estate agent land park

Jul 27, 2008 03:31 AM
June Lewis
Northwood Realty Services - New Castle, PA
Realtor Northwood Realty - New Castle,Pa Lawrence Co 7247304571

It is what it is...........the complaining and reminding isn't going to stop...It's been and will continue...if it's not the market or high prices ,  it will  be something else.  I personally feel a lot of today's negative talk is due to the media.  We have been hearing lately about how bad the mortgage crises is and that the banks have tightened up their loans......the last few times , this has been on almost every news show........

...............well yesterday at the bank in town,  I talked with the bank loan originator..guess what?

She has never been as busy as she is now. She is doing FHA loads...non the less,  she found a solution. So you are right we need to focus on solutions and take the complaining with a grain of salt .. Thanks for an interesting post.

PS as real estate agents, we should be experts in sucking it up and going on.

Jul 27, 2008 03:33 AM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

I agree with you and your commenter's Nanette... Now if you would....

Jul 27, 2008 08:42 PM
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Rate A Home - Saugatuck, MI

Nan, OK, I admit I did write a post about gas quite some time ago, it didn't bring the price down, byt hey were back below $4.00 a gallon, LOL. If the little girl can't have a horse, can I? Great post!

Jul 28, 2008 12:20 AM
Nannette Turner
eXp Realty LLC - Lynchburg, VA
Online Marketing Home Ownership Advocate Specialis

Duane I think a horse would be cheaper than these darn gas prices.

Mike... lol I have a long list of what needs to be done today.

June you are right learning to leave the negative and accentuate the positive.

Elizabeth hanging out with negative folks can be very draining.

Jul 28, 2008 12:37 AM
* Rate A Home
Rate A Home - Saugatuck, MI

Nan, HeHeHe, my best horse impression, grin. We may be back to those soon, history repeats itself.

Jul 28, 2008 12:44 AM
No longer
Altavista, VA

Nannette great post and I totally agree but have come to the realization that I must block all negativity from my life and continue to be a more positive influence because change starts within myself and nobody else is going to make it better but me!  I would love to meet the wealthy person love that skid road quote....makes alot of sense in the scope of things.

Jul 29, 2008 12:10 AM