Barack vs John...based on their Astrological charts...who do you choose?

Exactly Chris.

Looking up you 2 right now.

So Chris,

Here you go....

Your strengths are:  ambitious, tradition-loving, radical

Weaknesses: unsympathetic, repressed, overcompetitive

best: friendship

worst: family

So here it goes:

The focus is a mix of conservative and radical viewpoints.  You both value traditions, and you both look forward in life.  Aquarious/Picses people ar etough on the outside, however hyper-sensitive on the inside. You both have lot's to teach each other about emotion, however the repressed feelings are there.

Marriages and family relationships suffer when Ashlee will have to shoulder crushing domestic burdens.  It's better for work.

It's a Michael Jordon, Magic Johnson match...

Just for a little info...my exfiance (who I was with for 10 years) screwed me over... Pisces...takes over...they are usually directed in the wrong way when thing's aren't going well or doing great when they are.

For us, the best is a Sag.  they understand us.

The advice is" Show sympathy and understanding toward each other. Dig for emotional support.

I was with my ex who is a Pisces for 10 years...he asked me to marry him (finally) moved me from PA to FL and the rest need's to be a private email...as well as we love and want these people to love us...an Aries or a Sag...it so much better...and again...this is just my opinion.

You are so smart...differing view's are great and I love the conversation. As I said, my best friend was 8/16....we are both true, I repeat, true Leo's...I knew that from your first post!   (((hugs))) my friend.

I wasted 10 years on a Pisces...I can only imagine the conversations. K

LMAOROF me either...who was pres in 1978...I'm thinking Reagan was soon...

I do know that I stayed in President Nixon's summer home while in college in 1977 (my professor took us there and they were friends)...slept in his family room here in Florida...amazing...great time...that was then, this is now.

Tell me both of your birthday's and I'll let you know. 

Usuallly Leo's and Sag's are inseparable...Oh yes..you're still in the same house...got cha...Birthday's..

Sag, just love's ya...but send me Birth dates.

OK, will get back to you in a few...NJ...my friend! Geeze Louise, why can't I just go to bed???

I'll do the chart...give me a few.

OK, here is what I think:

 August 2nd is the week of authority... December 10th is the week of the Originator...

Your strengths are: energetic, supportive, idealistic

Weaknesses are: rebellious, immature, attention-hungry

best is being siblings

worst is marriage.

You two compete with each other. Leo's are calming, you are inspiring.

Love affair's are idealistic, yet selfish.You both need attention.

Marriage is not recommended. It is a b/c a mutual maturity is not there. No balance.

Friendship is there. Family is inspiring. Not sure that this is any better than a great friendship where you both will take care of each other.   You will probably be able to work together for a common goal and be great negotiators....with management... JMHO...not an expert...just what the chart's say.

Constructive goals...is what you two are about.

Just an opinion.

Chris,

I thought my best friend(loved each other on site in 1980, however were married to spouses-it was the look), who asked me to marry him just a few month's before I found out he got some other woman pregnant...Moved me to FL..left me and went back to here...gave the kid to a friend who couldn't have kid's...so he say's...I took care of him for years...now he's legally blind...God work's in strange ways....I thought we would be together forever...

We've loved each other for over 30 years. Both of our parent's don't want us to be together so...we've tried others...He was here in Florida and he said to me...You know I will alway's trust and love you...I said...I know...if you need me...I'm here...gorgeous guy, now blind...trying to maintain his current relationship...

Even as bad as it was....I would alway's help him.

yup...I'm a nice person.

Good luck, and I hope everything work's out. 

Chris,

Don't give me that BS that you don't feel the pain of someone passing...You just deal with it on your own terms and while you are alone...It doesn't have to be in the form of tear's...but you do deal with it in your own way.  I'm sure of that since I've read you here.

I think that you are afraid to let your emotion's known, which is why your GF tells you what she does.

My take on you...and you know I have children your age is that you have been hurt...or better yet have not had the love, the hugs, the emotional support that a child needs to cultivate a loving relationship later in life...You are so afraid that someone is going to hurt you again (and I think this has happened to you) that you are afraid to let Ashlee love you...(this is my youngest daughter's name too sp. Ashley) What you need to do is establish trust with someone.  Honestly, I think that you and I have somewhat established that...we can email and not talk here, however...I think honestly that you have great potential...you've just not had the loving support to make you confident enough in your relationship...You can do it...You have an edge...which is something that has come from not enough support due to your past family issues...I'm here for you...email me.

Yes, Chris, I still do...not sure why, everyone tell's me I'm stupid...he told me he loved me...when I helped him the last time...I held his hand and walked him across the street.  I  helped him get money from the ATM,,,he cannot even see to pay his check at a restaurant...he just put his money on the table and told the waitress to take what he owed and another 20%...

You know, if our parent's never got involved in our relationship we would have been happy and together...He tried to please his parents....

It's strange, he has come to visit me for my birthday since we havent' been together for the past 5 years...it's the same old, same old...we still act like the country club genre...we still are the same together as if nothing ever changed...If I was carnac...I would tell you...we'll be back together, whether he can see or not..in about 5 years... I alway's told him..."Year's from now, I'll be pushing you around in a wheel chair, and we'll be back together..." HE said he knows, as do I...after our parents aren't here...we will again love each other and take care of each  other...I know we will...

Chris,

No, I am not wrong about that statement, you just don't want to deal with it...I too felt like you...I loved him apparently more than he loved me.

I really do not think you are as cold hearted as you say.  I think you internalize and deal with your feelings when you are alone or with someone like me who understands.  Am I right?

I think that you are very much like me...you give your heart away...you hope that you get it in return...you trust, (me, I got hurt) and well, get the edge on...

Between you and me right now, we are having a horrific storm and I get scared so I have to go...but, my friend...I'll be back tomorrow...

And don't think for one minute, I don't understand your feelings. I do...yikes...lightning bad, gotta go...