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For the last year or so, there has been "blood in the streets". What do I mean by that? Most of you who are still in the business are here, because you've gutted it out. You've made the necessary steps in cutting staff, minimizing costs and sticking with the basics. The "what works" approach with very little extra fluff due to the fact that there isn't time or money to do otherwise.

I was at a seminar on Friday of last week and had the opportunity to talk to a realtor that I've done some business with over the years and he told me that if it didn't get better for him within 3 months; he was going to find another job. You've all heard it from your colleagues. Poor, poor pitiful me at every turn and it's easy to fall into that rut. We are essentially pessimistic creatures.

I turned around midway through the seminar to find this realtor friend of mine gone. He just gave up. Quit. Finito. Done. My question for you is...... when are you going to quit? When is it too much for you? Are you done?

This, my friends, is what we call a market correction. It stinks. I hate it. You hate it. Our families hate it. It's not fun, but, now listen to me here...... this is where fortunes are made. What? Are you kidding me? Actually I'm not. This is where you truly find out what you're made of. This is where you build your business, improve your processes and solidify your market. This is also where you can improve your mental processes. I'm talking about attitude.

Let me tell you. There is no better time to get your mind right than right now. I'm talking about engaging in positive affirmations, reading uplifting books, meditating and learning to "think right". I know it's tough. I know you don't want to do it. I know that depression lurks around every corner, but what's your plan when this market turns around? Is your attitude still going to be at the mercy of the market or WILL YOU DECIDE THAT YOUR ATTITUDE, NOT YOUR APTITUDE DETERMINES YOUR ALTITUDE?

Cut off the TV. Stop watching the TV and reading the news. Remember the old newspaper saying, "if it bleeds, it leads." There is no good news you are going to get from the boob tube or the newspaper right now. It won't sell newspapers, so it ain't getting printed my friend. Get some audio books by Zig Ziglar, Tony Robbins, Dr. Steven J. Covey, Brian Tracey and Dr. Wayne Dyer. Take a look at positive affirmation training. It sounds corny, but it works. Their are tons of self-hypnosis tapes out there. There are books. There's positive reinforcement through meditation. Avoid the negative like the plague and reinforce the positive. Internalize your belief through these methods that you can make it. Crazy? Maybe, but Henry Ford went bankrupt twice before he got Ford Motor Company off of the ground and the Wright Brothers made trips to North Carolina for 23 years before their plane actually flew.

Remember, "if you do what others will not do, you will have what others do not have." I don't know who said that, but it's a clear indicator of what we must do. Now is the time that winners are made.

 
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13 Comments on Positive Attitudes

JUL
30
2008

good post..I agree with you..we must have a positve attitude..there is still plenty of money to be made in this profession..you just have to keep working at it!!!

10:07am • #1
130,028 Points Outside Blog

J.R. You can capitalize off the negative by showing the analysis and explaining the new construction is not building more than what they have and to get these prices you must jump in now otherwise the prices will go back up. I like knowing what they are hearing and I turn it around to be positive.

10:16am • #2

Hi Jon,

Great post! Thanks for the motivation!

 

10:18am • #3

Hey Jon you are totally agree with this and I actually made a blog about positive attitude too, I also want to add something for those who are thinking about quiting to watch "The secret" is like a documental where they talk about the law of attraction which shows us that everything with picture in our minds can become real, in other words our minds have the power to materialize everithing we want.

Sincerely,

Jean Arias

10:24am • #4

John

Great post , I don't know who gained perspective from it , you or all of us out here surfing AR for inspiration. Well siad and right on time as the summer doldrums hit us all.

Laura

10:31am • #5
287,958 Points 4 Featured Posts Localism Sponsor Outside Blog

Everyone is feeling the pinch. I am hanging in there, but you are right lots of people are leaving the business. You have to have guts, drive, determination and talent to stay in a tough market like this. OH yeah lets not forget knowledge and professionalism!!

B

10:54am • #6
100,917 Points

You must keep a positive attitude.  If you are a negative realtor, you will allow negative things to happen to you.  If your positive, positive things will happen for you.

10:55am • #7

Great post J.R! You always have to be positive. Keep these posts coming.

12:06pm • #8
SEP
01
2008
122,976 Points 2 Featured Posts Hit Router

Hi J.R., I enjoyed your post.  This quote, "if you do what others will not do, you will have what others do not have.", is so TRUE.  I've found that I still have business when some previous top producing agents don't have much right now...one reason for this is that I've always been willing to help buyers in the lower price point, buyers interested in short sales and foreclosures, etc.

It was nice to finally meet you in person the other day when I was in your office building for a closing!

10:33pm • #9
135,477 Points

Jon - I agree - I watch very little TV and spend my time reading and growing. I associate with positive people. The more we think and focus on something (positive or negative) the more we attract it into our lives.

10:36pm • #10
SEP
03
2008
Localism Sponsor

Me too. I don't watch TV much.

12:50am • #12
Localism Sponsor

Mind over matter!  Think and Grow Rich is the perfect book about possitive thinking.

10:00am • #13
SEP
05
2008

Attitude is EVERYTHING J.R. and I fully agree with your post. I ever teach a short seminar on having a great attitude on a daily basis. Have a great day and thanks for the post.

9:10am • #14

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