Palm Springs, California is one of the top resort destinations in the country.
The natural beauty of the desert, sunshine 325 days a year, the small town atmosphere, mid-century architecture, the Hollywood connection, are some of the many reasons people want to come to Palm Springs.
People see the "perfect little village" of Palm Springs as the ideal place to live, work, and play. And there are many people who want to keep up that facade, and don't want to see some of the problems that the city faces on a daily basis.
I am talking about hunger & homelessness in Palm Springs.
I recently joined the Special Events committee of the Palm Springs Regional Association of Realtors, to help raise money for the various charities the Board sponsors every year. One of the charities that we sponsor is a organization called Well in the Desert.
This non-profit organization was created in 1986 to provide hot meals to the homeless, the working poor, and the seniors & children who are facing hunger. I haven't seen any official numbers, but I have heard there are about 300 homeless people in Palm Springs.
The committee recently launched our "Friends Feeding Friends" program for the benefit of the Well in the Desert. Each week at our Board meetings at the Mizell Senior Center, local Realtors have been bringing in non-perishable food items & cash. To date, we have raised over $1000 in cash and have brought over 500 items of food.
With the launch of Friends Feeding Friends, I felt I needed to do more. I spoke with the President of the Well, and became a volunteer food server. To be perfectly honest, I didn't know what to expect. It's one thing to write a check to charity, but to actually volunteer my time to an organization was foreign to me.
I have to say that this has been the most humbling experience in my life!!!
I have had the opportunity to speak with many of the clients during my food service. The stories I heard were heartbreaking.
One man had a stroke, his wife left him, and he became homeless.
An elderly woman comes in on a daily basis for food because she doesn't have enough money because of the cost of medication.
A 20-something guy was living on the streets because of his drug addiction.
A mother brings her 2 children to eat because their school doesn't serve lunch during the summer.
Hearing the stories of these people have put things in my life into perspective. Yes, I have financial problems due to the current Real Estate crisis, and I may have to get another job to pay the bills.
Everyday I am grateful to have a roof over my head, food on the table, good health, and the love of family & friends. Circumstances can change in an instant, and I could be "that person" on the street.
The next time you are walking on the street and see a homeless person, don't be so quick to judge them & their circumstances.
My husband is an assistant principal at one of our local elementary schools. He has worked in education as a teacher and administrator for going on 13 years now. Often he comes home and tells me heart breaking stories about how some of the children eat on Mondays like they haven't eaten since their last school meal. It is terrible to think that kind of thing happens to children in this country. At the same time, it makes you thankful for everything God has blessed you with. Thank you for the post and for reminding us that no matter how bad things seem to us sometimes, there are always people who are suffering far greater than we are.
It almost seems ironic that such extreme situaltions exist in a typically wealthy community, as I understand it (my ex lives there). You are bringing such a blessing to the community. I think every place has its beauty & abundance of good, and also the list of things/issues that we need to embrace with our heart as well. All the best to you in your endeavors!
What a wonderful story to share, thank you! P.S. is such a wonderful area I just love it. It's 97 miles from my front door.
It's so nice to see how you and others are giving back, especially you taking the step of serving to become more involved. When you see those faces you really see those as human beings who just need help. It could happen to any of us.
Keep up the great work and continue to share your successes.
Norma- I feel good about what I am doing. Thank you for your kind words.
Laura- These kids that I serve are absolutely amazing. I had one little girl that I was serving, and I decided to add a little more food on her plate. She informed me that she couldn't eat everything on the plate, and she did not want to waste the food. This girl was thinking of others before herself. Volunteering at the Well really does make me realize how insignificant my problems are.
Mara- I was speaking to one of the clients today, and he asked me where I lived. I told him that I lived here in Palm Springs. "You must be rich" , he said. I told him I am far from it. Palm Springs is an affluent community, but it is one of the most charitable places I have ever lived. In some small way, I am doing my part to help my community. I think if more people get involved with their communities, the world would be a better place.
Lynda- We're practically neighbors!! People are people, and we all need a little help sometimes. This experience keeps me grounded and reminds me that this too could happen to me. I count my blessings everyday. The next time you're in town, let's get together for coffee.
I worked for years with homeless and individuals who had issues. There is always something behind all of that and sometimes all it takes is a listening ear to help.
Harold ~ Thanks would love to. Fellow rainer Marlene Bridges and I are there often, LG's in P.S. is one of our very favorite places. We will call you next time to say hello.
It is so wonderful to hear of your efforts to help others! That is really the best way for us to forget our problems (or at least put them in perspective) is to focus on someone else for a change!
I always think "There but for the grace of God, go I" when I see people in these circumstances, and realize it could be any of us.
Volunteering at the Well has given me great satisfaction. The clients really appreciate any help that is given to them. A woman gave me a hug after I told her that I volunteer to just help out any way I can.
Harold - Great post! I remember the family making a great trip to Palm Springs a few years back. It was my first trip to the area, abd an absolutely gorgeous place - especially in the evening.
I think one of the most delightful dinners I've ever had, was at a place called "The Blue Cayote" - abolutely amazing southwest cuisine.
Harold - You are a very lucky dog! That is where we had dinner. Right there at the table on the patio nearest the little wall next to the sidewalk. I absolutely adored this enormous appetizer plate they brought out, which had all kinds of mini tacos, enchiladas, tamales, etc., on it!
If it were steps from my office, I'd need to waddle through life:-)
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You're making a worthwhile contribution to your community, and you're right, it feels good to get actively involved. Keep up the good work.