Well, I guess I have the benefit of a 13 year old daughter to help me with this one but The International Plaza "mall" in Tampa has the best overall atmosphere of all those I have visited in the area.  It has a more upscale feel but has many of the same stores you find almost anywhere.  It's not just the shops that make it inviting but the overall character and feel of the entire experience.  The outdoor courtyard, with it's several dining establishments, make it a real winner.  How many malls have Valet Parking and an auto detailing area after all?  I'd be interested in hearing your opinions and I'll check in from time to time to share more information and details on this great shopping and dining adventure.