It's been a while since our last installment, so just to recoup:

We've been reviewing and dissecting, in order, each of the AcitveRain Community Guidelines at length to ensure that we're all on the same page, and are fully aware of the expressed expectations for members who participate in our valued community.

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Our next guideline reads as follows:

"We encourage free speech and defend everyone's right to express unpopular points of view. But we don't permit hate speech which contains slurs or the malicious use of stereotypes intended to attack or demean a particular gender, sexual orientation, race, religion, or nationality."

This particular guideline has recently been the focal point of some rather exhaustive discussions/introspection. There are times when the actual guideline itself isn't debated so much as is how the guidelines are/should be enforced. Suffice it to say, that the administrators of this platform do genuinely attempt to apply/enforce all of these guidelines and the Terms of Service fairly and equitably to all members. In the final analysis, we have a very serious duty and responsibility to our members to ensure and maintain a safe, respectful environment of participation. The decisions we must make at times are never easy or pleasant, but our intentions are always for the benefits of the greater membership.

With that said, let me simply make a few observations as it relates to this guideline:

ActiveRain Membership ISN'T FREE!

Your involvement here has a cost. And it's called RESPONSIBILITY and RESPECT.

Membership here on ActiveRain is a privilege, not a given right. Your right of continued active participation is earned by the manner in which you consistently conduct yourself and the way you treat your fellow professionals.

Blogging, by it's very root and nature, serves to evoke and stimulate meaningful discussion and debate. Many times these discussions involve contrary, dissenting, or unpopular points of view. How we deal with such differences reveals the very core of our character. It is entirely possible to express our views and argue the merits of our position without resorting to hateful personal attacks and malicious slurs. It's completely acceptable to 'agree-to-disagree' without compromising your opinions/convictions. While it's many times easy to become emotionally embroiled in spirited debate, we must strive to keep issues professional, and not personal.

And, as those who have an intimate understanding of the Fair Housing Act, you would think we would possess a heightened awareness/sensitivity towards protected classes, and a clear understanding of those actions which constitute a violation against those classes. That's not to say that a violation of our community guidelines necessarily equates to a violation of Fair Housing. But I think the underlying priniciples are similar.

Take a lesson from a recent incident where a real estate agent lost their license for a full year because of an inappropriate comment they made on a blog post. Being suspended from ActiveRain is one thing. But most of us can ill afford to have our license revoked!

 

53 Comments on "Free Speech has a Cost" - The ActiveRain Community Guidelines Re-Visited

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Now, having my blogging privileges suspended is a a pretty huge deterrent.  I'm so addicted, I'd get the DT's. 

4:32pm • #1
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Well, some of us would save money if our license was revoked - just kidding.

I'm keeping mine till I'm done with real estate by choice.

4:40pm • #2
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Rich, Who is the judge, jury and executioner?  Or is it a jury behind close doors?  The inquisition revisited?  Or just plain common sense and courtesy should rule?  Take care. Aj :-)

4:43pm • #3
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Rich...

Some things should be obvious ... but if they were, there wouldn't be a need for this post.

4:44pm • #4
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Gracious Rich...

Can you imagine how pleasant things could be if folks would just agree to disagree? :)

Thank you for continuing this series. The Members pay more attention when this topic is coming from a Builder :)

TLW...ROAR!

4:52pm • #5
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Always good to revist this, as people sign up all the time, should be common knowledge, unfortunately it is not.

5:01pm • #6
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I am so amazed that you have to constantly bring this up over and over again.  The Golden Rule and Common Sense, where in the world are they these days?  I don't get it.

5:09pm • #7
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AJ:  One would think that common sense and courtesy would rule the day. Unfortunately, that isn't always the case.

Richard: To some, it's obvious. To others, a 2X4 upside the head seems to work better....

TLW:  I commited myself to completing this series. I started it shortly after I was hired by AR and feel it has tremendous value to our members....

Missy: Repetition is the key to effective education!

5:12pm • #8
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Rich, I was sad when I first saw this because it is such a shame that time and posts have to be wasted because of the lack of courtesy and just professionalism.  But, we do need this series and appreciate your time and efforts to keep us all focused on the positive goals!

5:27pm • #9
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Rich, I'm happy to see this visited again. Participating on ActiveRain is definitely a privilege and has absolutely nothing to do with free speech. If folks want free speech then they can start their own blog and free speech all they want. This site is a professional site and has professional guidelines    set forth by the founders and owners. I'm not quite sure why that is difficult for some to understand.

5:34pm • #10
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Fortunately, the huge majority of members - maybe 99.5% - do seem to follow this guidelineis, even with so many newer members.  One way to keep it that way, of course, is t repeat explanations like this periodically.  You and others on the ActiveRain team do a marvelous job of maintaining order!

6:20pm • #11
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can't afford to be suspended from AR either. Just scrolling above slightly, we know all of these people who commented above, some in person (yea), but most by reputation and communication. All pros each one of them. Nobody can afford to offend or lose what happens here.

6:30pm • #12
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Rich, wonderful post, and I greatly appreciate the privilege of being involved with AR, all of the support that comes with it and the awesome people I learn from.  Thanks for your commitment to see this through.  This is a very welcome message.   

7:06pm • #13
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Great post - just sorry to see that it is necessary.

7:27pm • #14

You go!  I agree full heartedly.  I'm not interested in listening to someones' slanted view on a topical subject, more less a highly discrimiating view.  Let's have discussions about something we don't know about and most importantly, something we all can use in our business.  I enoyed your blog....good luck with your business and I hope you continue to go after those who seem to have a chip on their shoulders. 

7:42pm • #15
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Rich- I think some of the offenders would never say the things they write, in person.  Somehow, typing away on their computers gives them the feel of anonymity.  It's a shame that they constantly need to be reminded that the rules of decent behavior, not to mention legal consequence, do apply.

7:58pm • #16

Well said.  I have been surprised at some of the posts that seem top attack or suggest unethical activities.  While I have posted some silly ones, were I a broker/owner and one of my agents posted some of those unethical things, I would have a serious problem with our company reputation they were playing with.

8:01pm • #17
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Another great post Rich...I am wondering if I missed something since this issue has to be re-visited again...glad I did, if I did.

8:09pm • #18
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Desperate posts call for desperate measures. It's a shame it's necessary but I'm relieved to see that the powers that be have instilled protocol that must be respected or be-gone.  I've read too much here that just doesn't belong on a social business platform.

8:13pm • #19
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Hi Rich...Thank you for guiding us once again.  It's amazing that we, as adults, need to be reminded to be decent.

Kate

8:13pm • #20
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So, Sparky...  Maybe there should be a series that people have to test through in order to post.  Or not...  Maybe there should be a bunch of these sent out in the Daily A|R mail to all of the members.

8:15pm • #21
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Rich,

I strongly agree with the spirit of this post! But just out of curiosity which punishment is harsher...losing your real estate license for a year or being banned forever from Active Rain??? Please don't answer this too quickly!!! Thanks,   Fran

8:17pm • #22
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Rich,  I think this whole thing is similar to what one instructor teaches real estate students -- it is okay to talk about the property (e.g. the topic and agree or disagree), but one never can talk about  the people (don't make it personal).  It is really very simple - there is no reason for personal attacks EVER.

8:23pm • #23
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I haven't been around long enough to have encountered the disagreements you are referring to but feel secure that you are in the cat-bird seat to oversee the fairness of this great network. On the behalf of everyone, I thank you.

9:30pm • #24
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Rich- You did good with this one! I don't snitch on the people who have said nasty and hateful things to me, I just delete their comments and move on. Debate is healthy and opposing viewpoints is great, but we must do it respectfully. I don't want my license revoked! And I certainly never want to be banned without rain!

9:47pm • #25
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I have officially hit the big time with my first "hater" comment on my AR blog.    I guess it means I've finally hit a nerve with my competition...   oh well  ::delete::

9:47pm • #26
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"Blogging, by it's very root and nature, serves to evoke and stimulate meaningful discussion and debate. Many times these discussions involve contrary, dissenting, or unpopular points of view. How we deal with such differences reveals the very core of our character."

Thanks for this particular comment. It;s why I am glad I found Active Rain and why I am glad it embraces and encourages free expression without abuse!

Keep on keepin' on!

9:49pm • #27

Hi Rich- Thanks for re-visiting the AR community guidelines. It all goes back to the Golden Rule..."Do unto others as you would have them do unto you!"  Its OK to promote yourself, but when you put someone else down in the process of building yourself up or proving a point...there is something wrong with that.

9:49pm • #28
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Rich - you do such a good job of community the guidelines that AR has enacted in a way that anyone can understand, without sounding authoritarian yet speaking with authority. The message is clear that violations are not tolerated and that the risks go far beyond our reaches. The challenge, of course, is in the enforcement and the fair and consistent treatment of all offenders - sorry, my HR hat is on. :)

Jeff

9:50pm • #29
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Rich, I'm surprised that you would even need to write this post.  I am sure there was a very good reason though.  We are all professional here, at least I hope we are.  Civility, common sense and remembering what our mom taught us should help all of us stay on track.

10:24pm • #30
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Rich, along with the free speech has to come some common sense. If it's not something that you wouldn't want to read about yourself...don't write it. Don't publish it.

I have begun reading what I write as if it were from someone else but about me. Great rule of thumb.

Thank you for the reminder. We all need it that blog on a consistant basis. I think I mentioned once that I wouldn't want your job. But, you're doing a great job. Later in the rain~Deb

10:28pm • #31
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From all that I have seen, there is so much less of this of going on that it is now barely a trace. Good Guidelines are always appreciated and with all the amazing things shared here, you must be more than pleased with what you are seeing out there.

10:30pm • #32
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I completely live by the agree-to-disagree belief. In my last post, I tried VERY hard to say what I needed to say, without stirring the pot.

12:15am • #34
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What happened to 'entitlement'?  You mean we aren't 'entitled' to say and do whatever we want? :)

Your expounding on the guidelines like this is bringing a tremendous amount of depth to each Rich....

Now...can we get the link on the home page in BIG BOLD RED letters so they will click on it. How about a flashing Community Guidelines???

12:31am • #35
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By our very trade and licensing we have agreed to be ETHICAL and perform our business in a PROFESSIONAL manner with integrity.  Anything less than that and you are in the wrong profession.  For those who lack simple common sense, they probably shouldn't be in the business let alone blogging. 

4:41am • #36
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I read that post...I would say if you want to talk about someone of some story that irks you...just don't use real names or companies by name.

6:44am • #37
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Can I say that I "hate" hate speech.....  Seriously though there are things that garner hate and sometimes that needs to come across.  I hate fraud.  I hate unethical people.  I know you're talking about the politically correct hate speech, but I'm not a PC kinda guy.  For me....there's right and wrong.  Just b/c you may hate someone or something, it doesn't mean that you need to blab it to the world.  What's said can never be taken back.  Therefore it's important to measure words b/4 they're spoken.

9:17am • #38
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I agree with Neal above. I wrote some things about a bank I was upset with and edited it to take out the bank's name. Since this is a public forum much of the time, I feel a responsibility to be careful about what and how I express myself. Look at what's coming back to haunt people on MySpace - and it could reflect poorly on any one of us professionally if we write without keeping the Golden Rule in mind.

10:29am • #39
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Bottom Line: Never write anything that don't want someone or a specific group to read. Once its out there, you can't take it back....EVER. -Charles

1:31pm • #40

Take a lesson from the Sean Hannity and Alan Colmes segment on Fox TV about how to have a respectful and spirited debate on even the most emotioanally charged issues.  They offer a great role model for how to disagree respectfully if some of us need a reminder.  I have not been on the network lately(working like crazy implementing a new business model), so I guess there has been some recent challenges on respectful discourse. 

Vance Walden
2:22pm • #41

Take a lesson from the Sean Hannity and Alan Colmes segment on Fox TV about how to have a respectful and spirited debate on even the most emotioanally charged issues.  They offer a great role model for how to disagree respectfully if some of us need a reminder.  I have not been on the network lately(working like crazy implementing a new business model), so I guess there has been some recent challenges on respectful discourse. 

Vance Walden
2:23pm • #42
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Post unto others as you would have them post unto you. :)

Maybe this could be the AR golden rule.

2:36pm • #43
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Rich, I am so glad to be a part of such an incredible forum for discussion and sharing.  Because this media is also a public venue, everything we say is available to the public.  It reminds me of one of the basic principles of leadership, "Praise people in public.  Criticize them in private."  If you something negative to say that you are not willing to share with someone privately - have the decency to "Get over yourself!"  We do not need your negative opinion smeared all over the rest of us.

2:36pm • #44
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We agree to disagree. I feel censorship creeping up the AR drain pipe. Got a semi-scolding from someone above just yesterday for using what I thought was an OK (derriere) word in the rain. I think I am pretty mild compared to some. It's OK to be half dressed in a gag cowboy outfit?  That's professional? But that's OK because I think I have a sense of humor.  I would like to see Sally's suggestion taken into consideration with a red flashing sign because they are that important to AR's success.

2:43pm • #45
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Rich, your post got me thinking about a post that I wrote yesterday.  I had no intention of slighting anyone, and the article that I referred to & linked in my post I had originally read in the Grand Rapids Press (presented as a humorous article, with sidebars.)   For future reference, does it cross the line because it is partly about China?  Should I remove it?

My Post: Got Milk? The unabridged version...

2:51pm • #46
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Even if one has a different or dissenting or negative opinion of something, it can be represented without resorting to hate speech, slurs or anything malicious.  Is losing my license or AR membership worth it?  Not at all.  Thanks for the reminder, Rich.

3:16pm • #47
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Thanks for revisiting this again. We don't get why people feel the need to be this way in the first place.

5:52pm • #48

Great post Rich!  Unfortunately, common sense isn't common.

T. D. Furbush / Kensington-Hart Financial Group, LLC
7:24pm • #49

Great post Rich!  Unfortunately, common sense isn't common

T. D. Furbush / Kensington-Hart Financial Group, LLC
7:26pm • #50
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Rich - Good reminder.  I am a follower of the 3 C's - Courtesy, Kindness, Conscience, well make that 2 C's and a K.  I am very careful when I write a post, save it in draft, re read it, then post it, etc.  Treat others as you wish to be treated, don't say anything if you have nothing nice to say.  I am a nice person.

But I have gotten carried away in comments a couple of times and written something I shouldn't have.  The Irish side takes over.  Then I think - What was I thinking?  I wasn't thinking.

And that is the same thing.  I have had to chew on my own foot a couple of times.  Yuck.

4:04pm • #51
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Rich...

Hate...just a strong word, that is such a distasteful emotion.  I feel sorry for anyone that has that strong and hateful emotion/thought about anyone or anything.  Such a waste.

Live my friend Virginia, I've said things I regret (I have to you), and wish I could take it back, but once said/written the deed is done.  I believe that people who say things on the Internet would say the same things in person, it's just part of who they are.  Having met so many of my fellow AR members they truly are in person what they are on the Internet.

I also would not want your job, and can see how you must feel sometimes, like in your "Love/Hate this job" post  I am reading the blood God Calling and working on myself to be a better person.  Picking a think, habit that is not good and eliminating it.  Saying things before thinking about it is a good one to work on.  Thanks for the reminders, Liz

10:57pm • #53
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Rich...I'm tapping my fingers....waiting for your posts to the New Localism. Thanks for being you and all the hard work you do. Still eagerly awaiting clues to posting awesome post to the new platform! I want to see your work in your newly sponsored community!

8:47pm • #54

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