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Pressure Forms the Pearl!

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Services for Real Estate Pros with The Connection

I feel like I need to create a new post!  Today I gave a speech entitled "Pressure Forms the Pearl!" at our local Toastmasters Club at Boise Bible College.  (It is the closest meeting place to us and we meet at a perfect time: High Noon on Wednesday!)

Since I am a candidate for a doctorate degree, I must keep on track every day!  The task is so overwhelming that I must take it one small step at a time.  I must continually overcome the feeling of anxiety.

The feelings I have been experiencing are wild!  Last night I was up all night feeling like I was in a little raft in the middle of the ocean in a big storm!  So, to feel the calm and peaceful comfort of being in the authentic community of Active Rain, I need to jump in with both feet!

My experience is becoming a huge growth curve for me!  Let me explain.  Pressure Forms the Pearl!

An oyster responds to an irritating object with action.  It secretes nacre (a liquid substance to protect itself).  Layer after layer is poured over the irritating object and a pearl is eventually formed.

The pressure I am experiencing is my research project.  It consumes practically every waking moment in my life!  Writing this post is a struggle for me because of all the reading and writing I need to do.  This research project is like writing a huge scholarly book in five months.  It takes time and energy and LOTS OF IT!

My beautiful wife and wonderful son are with me.  They are very supportive and encouraging!  We are being formed together in deeper love and understanding for each other and others!  Many of you in The Rain are very supportive and encouraging to us!  Thank You!

So, here I am.  I can become better or bitter.  I choose to become better. I choose to become stronger.  I choose to be empowered.  I choose to embrace the moment and keep moving forward.

I am growing so much that I am amazed.  I feel like I am walking on water.  It's a very uncomfortable feeling at times, but I am doing it every day.

So can YOU!  As a Real Estate Professional, you can grow beyond your wildest dreams.  Choose to do the impossible.  Choose to stretch beyond your imagination.  Choose to stay in discomfort until you become comfortable.  It's worth it!

Let the pressure you are experiencing mold you into the person you want to be!  Pressure Forms the Pearl!

 

Comments (17)

Pam Pugmire
Silvercreek Realty Group - Meridian, ID
Meridian Idaho Real Estate

Congratulations on being a Doctorate Candidate!  That takes a lot of determination!  I wish I had been there to hear your speech!  I'm sure you were terrific.  Nice to have you back for a post! 

Aug 13, 2008 01:08 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Hi Dan, I've done Toastmasters before and to me it was great fun, especially the impromptu speeches. I agree with you that pressure forms the pearl. You spoke of growing with your solo piloting days and also about breakthroughs. With all your research and work in the doctoral area you will break through to something new and continue to grow. Enjoy the journey. You are doing just fine and you are incredibly blessed to have your family there at your side as you do this work. Keep us all posted with an occasional post when you get the chance. You have to take care of your priorities now.

Aug 13, 2008 01:59 PM
Dan Woodworth
The Connection - Garden City, ID
Encouraging Communicator

Hi Pam, Thank You for your encouragement!  I appreciate your kindness and inspiration!   

Aug 13, 2008 02:04 PM
Dan Woodworth
The Connection - Garden City, ID
Encouraging Communicator

Hi Gary, Thank You for your encouragement!  I will keep everyone informed about this exciting journey!  I feel like all of you are a large part of this process!

Aug 13, 2008 02:08 PM
Susie Blackmon
Ocala, FL
Ocala, Horses, Western Wear, Horse Farms, Marketing

Boy oh boy... I'm working up to a huge Tahitian black pearl!

Aug 13, 2008 09:49 PM
Jeff&Grace Safrin
F.C.Tucker 1st Team Real Estate - Valparaiso, IN
SpousesSellingHousesTM

Great story about the pearl Dan I read it years ago - thanks for reminding me....Dan - I encourage you to press on - you will gain strength in your struggle, I have had similar anxiety in taking my nursing state boards for 2 days years ago  and my daughter just survived the law bar exams. God is with you in the midst of it all....carrying you like the poem footprints in the sand. When you achieve your goal- no one will ever be able to take that away from you and it is yet just another platform or springboard to move forward!

the best is yet to come :)

Sincerely,

Grace

 

Aug 14, 2008 03:53 AM
Dan Woodworth
The Connection - Garden City, ID
Encouraging Communicator

Hi Susie, You are very creative!  I love your analogy of a huge Tahitian black pearl!  Thank You for vision!

Aug 14, 2008 08:50 AM
Dan Woodworth
The Connection - Garden City, ID
Encouraging Communicator

Hi Grace, Thank You for your affirming and encouraging words!  I am experiencing increasing strength!  I love the footprints in the sand story!  The spring board is a great picture for me!  Thank You for your inspiration!

Aug 14, 2008 08:53 AM
Adam Waldman
Westcott Group Real Estate Company - Hauppauge, NY
Realtor - Long Island

DAN - Good message about keeping your head in the game when the going gets a little tough.  Those with persistence will see the benefits in time.

Aug 15, 2008 10:19 PM
Dan Woodworth
The Connection - Garden City, ID
Encouraging Communicator

Hi Adam, Thank You for your encouragement!  I am going where I have never gone and learning what I have not known.  I am being transformed in this experience!

Aug 16, 2008 06:08 AM
Sondra Meyer:
EXP Realty, LLC - Corpus Christi, TX
See It. Experience It. Live It.

Dan, this is an awesome post reminding us that pressure can be great thing.  I suspect that youtitle is something that will stick with me.  Thanks. 

I hope your research project goes smoothly. And, that the experience you gain from it will serve you well in the future.   

Aug 16, 2008 07:08 AM
Dan Woodworth
The Connection - Garden City, ID
Encouraging Communicator

Hi Sondra, Thank You for your encouragement!  I am being transformed in this research project.  It is an amazing experience of searching with perseverance for the passion in my heart!  As I discover key principles I will create posts for Active Rain!

Aug 17, 2008 11:01 AM
Paul Jones
Kansas City Regional Homes - Olathe, KS
PIC Properties - Kansas & Missouri

Thank you for always writing inspiration.  You will get through this and remember education is power!Paul Jones Re/Max Olathe Real Estate

Aug 24, 2008 11:11 AM
Dan Woodworth
The Connection - Garden City, ID
Encouraging Communicator

Hi Paul, Thank You for your encouraging words! I am writing my chapter 3 and I will remember your words! I am progressing and I will finish! I see it done!

Aug 25, 2008 03:52 AM
-- Casey Brischle
Columbia Bank - Spokane, WA
Spokane Home Loan Mortgage Professional

Dan, your posts are amazing so inspiring.  You have another blog subscriber in me!  Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

Aug 27, 2008 05:41 AM
Dan Woodworth
The Connection - Garden City, ID
Encouraging Communicator

Hi Casey, Thank You for your encouragement and subscription!  We are moving upward and onward!

Aug 28, 2008 04:56 AM
Brooke Shepherd
Keller Williams Clients' Choice - Colorado Springs, CO
Speak With Honesty~Act with Integrity

Another great blog Dan, thank you so much!  Keep us posted on how you are doing!

Brooke

Sep 22, 2008 04:17 AM