Good Grief - I can't believe that it has happened, yet, again!

On Friday I went to a model, here on Long Island, that I recently staged with furniture and accessories I had chosen and purchased for the builder.  When everything was delivered 2 weeks ago, I noticed that there were scratches on a table leg as well as on an end table.  I reported this to the delivery men who quickly called the company to set up an appointment for a repair person to visit the house and correct the imperfections.

So, on Friday, while I was waiting for the repairs to be made, I casually walked through the staged rooms.  Almost immediately I began to see the small changes: chairs moved a little further into the room; kitchen counters rearranged; table settings moved; a little ‘tweak' here and there on the mantel.... and I began to wonder - who did this?  Was it someone who came to look at the model?  Was it a realtor who had nothing to do at an Open House?  Was it the builder...or one of his workers?  

Just exactly WHO is this ‘Home Staging Fairy' who comes into staged houses and does this sort of thing?  You see, this has happened to me before and on more than one occasion!  I've spoken to other stagers and they have had this happen to them as well.  Aside from it being somewhat annoying to be ‘second-guessed', I also find it rather amusing to learn that there are so many ‘would be' stagers out there (thanks a lot HGTV)!

I have a message for these ‘invisible helpers' who think that they are performing ‘home improvement' service....enough already!!  Listen...every time that I stage a house, I  leave interesting pictorial books on the coffee table along with my ‘trademark' pair of reading glasses...why not just sit and read and ‘take a load off'....just please, stop trying to ‘upstage' the stager! 

 
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38 Comments on The Home Staging Fairy Strikes Again!

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26
2008
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I have been guilty of tweaking things here and there. Most of the time I go home and rearrage all of my stuff because the stager gave me great ideas!

8:16pm • #1
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Val I understand some people just feel like they have to put their "signature" on things.

8:26pm • #2

Val, I agree with you, that's a pretty rude thing to do, but doesn't it appear a buyer might be considering the property. Ya never know. Also, it makes you keep an eye on your clients house more often.

8:47pm • #3
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Val, I'm sorry to laugh but I don't find this hard to believe at ALL.  Of course everyone knows better then the person who actually STAGED.  Sure the reading glasses are strong enough?  :)

8:56pm • #4
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Hi Val!  Fun post.  seems like there is often a "Fairy" where you do not want one; but never a "fairy" where you need one.  i.e., I would like an invoicing and an administrative fairy . . . but no!

Glad to see you here.  I've missed you're bloging here on AR! 

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 and share your wisdom with staging newbies learning about our many difficulties and occasional successes (smile)  It's a tough world out there~

9:42pm • #5
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Dinah - at least you're honest!  Staging is fun once you get to the 'decorating' aspect...glad "we" inspire you to go home and try out new ideas!

Larry & Pat  (and all others!)...I hope that you realize that this entire post was written 'tongue in cheek'!!  I'm just having some fun with my pet peeve!!

Hey Carole!  Now I'M the one who is laughing!  Stronger reading glasses indeed!  I'll have to remember that the next time I'm buying a batch at the dollar store (I guess that you DO get what you PAY for after all)!!

Karen - Well said, my friend!  Maybe we need to catch a few of these 'fairies' and really put them to work!!  And thanks for the kind words - I really have missed being here and blogging and keeping up with everyone!  You can thank the aforemention Carole (see above!) for 'kicking me in the pants' and getting me back on AR!  I will stop by Real World Home Staging and sign up!!  Thanks!

Val

9:56pm • #6
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Happens all the time - women especially are touchers.

11:30pm • #7

OMG! I just checked on one of my stagings that recently sold and found the fairies were there too - all the way in California! Its nice to know I'm not alone with this problem. I just hate it!!! What is even more funny, is that I can't remember where my keys or phone are but, I remember how the pillows were or the bottles in the kitchen were left! too funny!

And, I thought the glasses were my signature??? Are Stagers like minded or what?

11:45pm • #8
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Never know what motivates someone to do a thing like this. All the best

11:59pm • #9
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27
2008

Holy Cow!.. Those fairies made it all the way up to Kelowna BC Canada... you would have thought they would have frozen their wings off after being in sunny Californina!   Someone has done the very same thing to a multi million dollar property that I had staged....guess I need to adding books with pictures of my work, if they are going to change it, they might as well get it right!

Kym Tarr
12:01am • #10

LOL....  Some people just can't leave things alone can they.  And they always know better than the pros.  When I have had crews in painting in staged homes we are always very careful to put them back in the same carpet dents they came out of...

4:50am • #11

Reading your post gave me a good chuckle.  The programs on television do make it seem as if anyone can stage a home, or sell one for that matter.  Some things are better left to a professional.   

5:27am • #12
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Too funny Val but sadly true for most of us. I call the Realtor if it's a major change like furniture moving from one room to another. I explain the purpose of why I do things (which may not always make sense to them) like not pulling chairs out too far to obstruct traffic. I emphasize that this represents my work.  It would be like painting stripes over a painter's art while not yet purchased. When the house is sold let the owner take liberty with their things to put them where ever they want.

6:33am • #13

This was a funny post.  It made me think about my own line of work. Oftentimes, I'll write a letter for a client and send it over for approval.  It's funny how they have to add a totally unnecessary comma or reword a perfectly good sentence.  Just to put their own little touch to things.

At least I know who my fairies are, though! hahahahhaha

~Renae

6:50am • #14
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I think people fidget with stuff while the realtor waffles on!

And, of course, there's always a chance a cleaner has been in.....?  Really?  Nah!  Forget that one!!

Cheers, lady.  Did you beach and read this summer?  Hope to see you soon.

Juliet

8:06am • #16
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Val ~ I don't think any one of us can say that nothing has ever been touched/moved! 

8:54am • #17
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Val, Isn't THAT a nice welcome back!  A very well deserved feature, congratulations!!

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I love it , I guess we all have a little 'my way' bug in us, where we are tempted to change things around for our own little visual satisfaction then just leave it for the annoyance of the rest fo the world

10:15am • #19
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Wonder if it wasn't the sellers themselves....  Sometimes they have a perception of what things should look like....

11:01am • #20
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I used to rent  ou tmy beach house in Santa Cruz for a week at a time. I was amazed at how many people spent the week rearranging silk plants, pillows, rugs, art work, candles and nick nacks around the house. I even had one group throw away the bath room rugs and replace them with a different color!

 

11:23am • #21
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Thankfully this has never happen to me.  I guess that fairies will not mess with Mother Fairy (me) LOL

11:25am • #22
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Val ~ We have all been there. The funny thing is, they do not even know what they are doing. If I had a plumber come in and do work on my house I would not go and change a pipe after he leaves.

 It just crack-up when these people think they know more then us. Why did they call us in the first place?

3:22pm • #23
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I haven't had this happen in vacant homes that we've staged, but I have found sellers who are living in a house full or part time tend to start wanting to get in on the act. Suddenly I may find a few things that weren't intended (or needed/wanted) as part of the staged look.

Some clients start going out and buying lots of new things and I have to gently tell them that our goal isn't to redecorate but to stage, which often means "less is more".  No, really, the massive number of new animal print pillows really aren't necessary!  Especially if you don't plan on using them at your next house...

4:48pm • #24
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Hi Val, very frustrating! It almost makes you want to set up a small shock device to teach meddlers not to meddle!! Just look at it as your fine work has inspirred others to become stagers in their own minds!LOL! ~Emily

5:17pm • #25
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Welcome back NY Sista! 

I think all home stager's have fairies lurking around.  Mine is my husband!  :)  I think I created the monster of all fairies!

5:49pm • #26
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Hey guys...I have just had the BEST TIME reading everyone's response!  I wrote this as a "poke" at the absurdities of home staging and had to laugh at the differing reactions...bottom line is that most of the Home Stagers have experienced this at one time or another...

Now, most of us know that once we stage a house, we don't generally go back in until it's time to "de-stage", and let's face it...by that time the listing is sold and we just want to get our 'stuff' out and move on...but on those rare occasions when you have to go 'back in', be prepared because someone will have inadvertently 'messed' with your staging!

Kathleen - you're so right...we really ARE touchers, aren't we?!

OMG, Amber!  You totally 'hit the nail on the head'!  Yes!  We DO remember EXACTLY where we placed things!  Do you think that might be because the "Before and After" pictures, that we inevitably download, might contribute to this?!

Bob & Carolin - I truly appreciate your stopping by to read about a 'staging' experience!  It shows that, as realtors, you have open minds!

Kym - I love your sense of humor!  You've 'played' right into this now, haven't you?!!  You go girl!!

Chris -  I would have to say that putting everything back, right down to the dents in the carpet, completely exonerates you from being one of those pesky 'Home Staging Fairies'!!

Karen - ok..so that's a NEW one on me...they actually have moved your furniture from one room to another?????!  Oh...that is one BAD, BAD, fairy!!!!!

Jean - one might think...except that this was a "Model Home"...!  But I'm catching your 'drift'!

Juliet - nah!  there was at least an inch of dust everywhere...the cleaner?  I think not!  A 'viewer' whose realtor is WAY too informative about the house???  Yeah...I'd buy that...I know that if I were in that situation, I'd start rearrangin' (hey, I rhymed!)!! 

Oh, and sitting on the beach and reading books?  Oh yeah, if ONLY!  ok..so actually, yes, I MIGHT have sat at a friend's pool for MOST of the summer and gotten a tan to be envied by George Hamilton, BUT I swear, I didn't turn a page in a book!!! :) YES, I hope we do another ROUND TABLE soon (and I'll work on that...promise!)

hi Kathy!  sad, but true!  so what's that all about? Haven't you ever wondered WHY??  It kind of 'smarts', no??

Carole... thank you for that kick in the 'a-double 's'!!  YES!  it was quite the 'comeback'! (I totally need to listen to you more!)

James - I simply LOVE the "my way" attribute...yes, I think that we all, inadvertently, DO that!  We all want to leave a 'piece' of ourselves, or our 'stamp', on the world in one way or another!  And, does it ANNOY the rest of the world?  PROBABLY and YES!!!  You're funny and I love your sense of humor! 

Courtney - The 'seller' in this case was a very 'laid-back' builder...I totally doubt it, but HEY!  Ya never know!!!

Oh, Janet... that's awful!  Replacing bath mats?  What's up with that?!

Fernando - "Mother Fairy"??  What's that all about?  Should I be worried?? ;)  Just kidding!  You go right ahead and 'mess' with those bad, bad Home Staging Fairies! :)

Barbara - they call us for our 'expertise' and then second guess us!  Oh well..it's nice to be appreciated!!

Reba - I hear ya!  But Reba...'animal print' pillows???  Really?????!!

Alexandra & Emily...hmm...a 'shock machine'...that sounds good to me!  That ought to keep 'hands off'!!

Janice - hey NY 'soul' sista!  it sounds like you just might have created a mini 'staging monster'...but ya can't blame the husbands for getting all involved!  Good for you that he's helping you (and we'll forgive him for getting a little too exuberant!)

Thanks, again, all!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8:23pm • #27
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It could be nothing - someone playing with the arrangements to see if it looks better. Perhaps the way you staged it "almost" looked like home, or something familiar. Who knows. I doubt there's anything personal to it.

11:19pm • #28
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2008
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Hi Mary - and thanks for stopping by!  I agree with you that there is nothing personal to it....I really wrote about this as a 'fun' way to show what we go through as stagers.  I'm sure that as a realtor, you have similar things happen to you all the time!

Val

7:25am • #29

Val!!!  It's not just fairies, but pixies and elves and sometimes TROLLS!  I'd set up a dining table for a "buffet" - now it has place settings - not my intention!!!  Hands Off, Please!  Julie

8:48am • #30
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Val, I have not read all the comments so I do not if I am repeating anything here.  

I primarily do occupied homes, so I know it is not a mystery fairy.   However, I do find it frustrating when I have asked a client to pack up some of those "too precious to be seen" items, only to find when I return that they are right back where I removed them from.   Grrrrrrrrr :-)

9:13am • #31

Val, Good to hear from you. 

I don't know if this qualifies as a staging fairy, but my most recent client for a vacant staging went around the house and removed some accessories to give back to me.  At first I thought she was trying to save some money on my rental fee, but she said it was because she didn't like them.  Some of them could be considered "contrived", i.e., fake fruit (but very real looking), reading glasses on a book (I always do that one too), slippers on the rug by the bathtub, etc., but others were simply a matter of her taste.  This is the first time anyone had done that so I was taken aback, but graciously went back to collect them and did adjust her rental fee.

9:17am • #32
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29
2008
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Hey Val!! When I worked in model homes, if stuff was..."different"...it's because someone came in and stole something- then tried to cover it up. The best would be when they'd try to take the utensils, that were glued to the placemats... :)

7:17pm • #33
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01
2008
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Is it possible someone removed it to dust and then put it back?  But I have seen people look & touch things from time to time.  Once someone removed everything from a mantle to measure it for some reason.  You never know I suppose.

9:34am • #34
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I am happy to say that the only time I have encountered such a phenomenon was after the cleaning crew had been through some condo models; they always move things around which I guess means they are really cleaning everything, but I wish they would get things back to the right spots. 

My guess is the builder's wife was your fairy -- it seems that builder's wives are always into decorating/staging.

9:25pm • #35
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18
2008
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Drive me NUTS!! As you all know we can all be a bit, well PARTICULAR (to put it nicely) about how we place things. We need just the right angle, just the right vase, etc. Then to turn and see someone has changed it...YIKES. I had a realtor actually call me and told me that she moved some chairs around because she did not like the chair. Well, the reason it was placed there was to create a conversation seating and show buyers you can fit more than just one couch in the room. Ooops, I will put them back was the reply

Too funny..Hey this is NOT such a problem unless they moved things to improper places and then blame the stager when the house does not sell.

Phyllis Pafumi

9:52pm • #36
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19
2008
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The Home Staging Fairy is alive and well in Michigan!

2 weeks ago I started staging a vacant house on Wednesday.  As I had another appointment, I had to return the next day to finish.  ONE DAY and the barstools were moved around and there was a smudge on a towel (I don't even want to know what it was!). 

Yesterday I went to destage a house, and the inflatable bed had obviously been sat on.  It was collapsed in the middle and all of the pillows and bed tray were puddled in the center.  I swear.......

7:33am • #37
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21
2008
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I have this happen too.  I've even had people I think take naps on the beds, I found blood stains on my comforter and sheets one time, have no idea, and probably don't want to know what went on.  When we leave, it's amazing the little changes that are made when we return.

11:31pm • #38
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22
2008

Well said!  This too has happened to me.  At first I thought I was losing my marbles, then realized that the maid was involved, not mine though. 

12:03am • #39

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