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Are You Trying to Get to "YES" when the Buyer is Looking for No?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Fisher & Company, P.A., Marketing & Creative Strategists

The other day I happened to answer a "sales" call at our office.  The prospect called in and he was doing such a good job of asking the textbook "buyer" interest questions that I thought he might be a shopper* from one of our builder competitors. 

Not that I am jaded and think that all "buyers" are shoppers, but sometimes the "buyers" are just to organized with their questions and ask them in a manner that smacks of "professional shopper."

As Mr. "Buyer" asked his questions, he knew enough from our marketing efforts for the builder's homes and communities that yes was the answer to each of his questions.  (He was confirming that what he had been reading and hearing was accurate.)

As I chatted with him, answering his questions, I recognized the age old trap that rookies (and desperate agents) fall into: trying to say "YES" to every question the buyer asks.  There is no faster way to getting the prospect to say thank you and hang up the phone than by answering yes to the prospect's questions.

Yes, you read that right.  It is a mistake to automatically answer yes.

Here's a few scenarios for you to role play.  Lovely Homes Realty has a three bedroom bungalow on the market in one of the best areas of town.  Built in the 1940s, the home has been totally updated and the 1/2 acre lot is oversized for the area.  An ad in the paper actually works and you are getting floor calls from the ad.  The broker has cut the advertising budget for print media down to the bare bone, so the ad has minimal information.  New Listing! $249,990. Historic location close to schools, library, commuter routes. Lovely Home Realty. Your mission is to get the buyer on the phone to come to your office.

See if you can come up with a BETTER response to each question the prospect asks:

1> Prospect 1: Is that a three bedroom home?agent on phone

     Friendly Realtor: Oh, yes, three lovely bedrooms.

     Prospect: Okay, thanks. (Click)

2> Prospect 2: I'm calling on the ad, "Historic Location".  Is that a three bedroom home?

    Friendly Realtor:  Yes, it is. Three charming bedrooms plus two full baths that have been totally updated.

   Prospect 2: Oh, really?  Does that home have both a formal living room and a family room?

   FR: Yes, it does! Your family will certainly have the space it needs.

   Prospect 2:  By any chance, does it have a large yard?

   FR: It's 1/2 Acre. The owner is a master gardener and the head of the neighborhood garden club. he has one of the prettiest yards in the area. Would you like to see this home?

   Prospect: No thanks. (Click)

I think that perhaps you can see the pattern that is developing.  The agent is rushing to answer yes.  A common new agent mistake, and actually I have overheard agents that have been in the business a long time doing the same thing, so don't feel badly if you have been rushing to answer yes thinking that this will get you the appointment and sale.  Hopefully we can coach you through to make you aware of what you are doing and help you to improve your selling situation skills.

The problem with the scenarios above is that the agent is so busy giving out information that they are failing to ask for information.  Learn quickly that information should be give and take: you give some, you ask for and take some, give some, ask for and take some.

If you study the buying habits of people, you'll find that they try to eliminate possibilities and options to narrow down their shopping list as quickly as possible.  That's what's happening in these phone calls.  The prospects were trying to find out whether or not this is a home that should go on their must see list.

In the questions above, while the buyers may have asked if the home was a three bedroom, they may not have been looking for a three bedroom, and on the second call, the prospect asked if the property had a big yard, but hung up when they heard it was a 1/2 acre lot because what they wanted was a postage stamp-sized lot.

Agent Friendly would likely have done better had he/she said something like this instead to answer:

"That particular home is a three bedroom, but there are several other homes on the market in the immediate area with both fewer and more than three bedrooms. How many bedrooms would best suit your family's needs?"

Try not ask yes or no questions.  Phrase your questions to be open ended so you can discover more about what the prospect wants and needs.  In a perfect world prospective home buyers wouldn't make us guess what they are looking for and we would save them a great deal of time, and probably money too, but they don't always. Agent Detective This is why some of the greatest detectives in the world are also some of the very best real estate agents.

On the second call, Agent Friendly blew it by talking about the large lot.  It also didn't help that Agent Friendly pointed out that the current owner is a master gardener and a member of the garden club, all of which translates to the prospect as a yard designed to require a major commitment to upkeep and maintain.

It might have been better had Agent Friendly said, "This home is on one of the larger parcels for the area.  Are you interested in a home on a larger lot, or do you prefer one that is smaller?"

Here's another tip. Everything is relative.  I live on a very large home site for my area. It's huge, but someone coming from another side of town would think that it is small.  So, to follow the line of discovery about the lot above, if the buyer says they want a large (or small) lot, I would come back with something like:

"This home has a lovely 1/2 acre home site with it.  Is that large (small) enough for you, or would you prefer something larger (smaller). 

During the second call, Agent Friendly also rambled on that the home had both a family room and a living room.  What of the caller only wanted one room, a great room? 

What I am trying to do when taking a call from a prospect I have never met is avoid yes or no answers. Yes or no does not tell me what I need to know in order to help the prospect find the best home at the best price in the shortest amount of time for their benefit and convenience.  We need to narrow our search down so that we don't waste time or have them lose interest in working with us.

How many times has a prospect said, "I'm looking for a four bedroom home," when what they really wanted was three bedrooms and an office? How many missed showing opportunities are the result of us rushing to yes instead of trying to probe and uncover the buyer's real motivation and needs?

By the way, I guess I did my job on the phone the other day, which is to get the prospect to come out to see our homes.  He and his wife visited us today and they worked with one of our associates. Now that was phone call that was very productive.  Had I rushed to yes, I probably would have lost him and we would have missed the opportunity to show our homes today.  

Take time to draft some of the common questions you get when you are on floor, and script some open ended questions to toss back to the caller.  You'll be amazed at many more showings you'll get if you don't rush to yes, and learn to give information and ask for some in return.

Happy Selling!

*Background for Realtors: In homebuilding we send out "shoppers" to find out what our competitors are doing.  We all do it.  What we are trying to uncover is what promotions they are offering, their pricing, if they have any "pocket" incentives to close the sale, features, floor plans etc.  Typically, if the builder will identify themselves and ask me, I am happy to provide them with floor plans, features and pricing plus I will tell them whatever our advertised promotion is so that I don't waste their tiime and they don't waste mine.  Call it professional courtesy.

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Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

Great info Deborah - i have to admit i have been doing that for an awful long time, i was lucky enough to have a great manager/mentor when I started......thus my conversion rate is very high......but i love how you layed it all out..........you have enough info there for 3 blogs!  :-)

Aug 31, 2008 03:11 PM
Dinah Lee Griffey
Windermere Peninsula Properties - Allyn, WA
Managing Broker Windermere Peninsula Properties

Great info. I have questioned people automatically and it has worked. I never really thought of why. I really just wanted to find them the right thing. Great insight.

Aug 31, 2008 03:14 PM
Tiffany Burke
Group one real estate - Corpus Christi, TX

This was a great post and very relevant information for us...  I have been in both scenarios 1 and 2 and you are correct neither usually work out and this is also true for open houses.

I remember something I heard a long time ago that sticks with me now at every open house and every office call;  My first broker told me once at an open house, ( I was a little offended at the time)  "This is not a corner store where costumers come in to ask if we have this or that or the other and you answer  ..yes, yes, no...then they say okay thanks  and Goodbye!  He said you have to ask them what they are looking for and then find it for them before they walk away.   Maybe this will be a little added something to all the points we kind of know but you just put into words for us.  Thanks.

Aug 31, 2008 03:56 PM
Tom Kim
Kay Kim Realty - Buford, GA

That is great information. I will definitely try to follow your lead. I've always thought that we were there to give info and not necessarily get info. Thanks!!

Aug 31, 2008 04:00 PM
Glenn S. Phillips
Lake Homes Realty - Birmingham, AL
CEO, Lake Homes Realty / LakeHomes.com

This is great stuff!!! Thanks!

Aug 31, 2008 04:01 PM
Deborah Fisher
Fisher & Company, P.A., Marketing & Creative Strategists - Fort Worth, TX

Liz, thanks for your feedback.  I need to start breaking up my posts into more edible bites.  That is excellent advice and I appreciate it.  I just like to finish what I start as soon as possible and get it out there and off of my desk.  That's the marketing background: roll something out and move on to the next idea.  It is probably my greatest weakness since the minute I finish something I am on to the next great thing; this has resulted in my being a workaholic. 

Aug 31, 2008 04:22 PM
Deborah Fisher
Fisher & Company, P.A., Marketing & Creative Strategists - Fort Worth, TX

Dinah, that shows natural sales ability and talent, something that is very fortuitous to have.  Dinah, the best salespeople are the ones who are genuinely more concerned about helping others get what they want because it comes back to them and the salesperson gets what they want: a successful career that gives them the ability to enjoy life and work for themselves.

Best success in your future sales efforts! Here's to making the last quarter of 2008 your best ever!

Aug 31, 2008 04:27 PM
Deborah Fisher
Fisher & Company, P.A., Marketing & Creative Strategists - Fort Worth, TX

Tiffany, you are very lucky to have a broker point that out to you early on in your career.  You could have wasted a lot of time spinning your wheels and getting discouraged.  Any business is tough, Tiffany, but real estate is a hard nut to crack sometimes, but when you do . . . 

Thank you for supporting my comments about Getting to Yes.  Your comments show others that there is merit to my suggestions.  

Have a great labor day. Hope you sell something TODAY!

Aug 31, 2008 04:32 PM
Deborah Fisher
Fisher & Company, P.A., Marketing & Creative Strategists - Fort Worth, TX

Tom, I predict that if you start asking for information you will not only see your showings climb, but your sales production will increase as well as you convert "suspects" to prospects to buyers. You'll clearly know what they are looking for and won't be fooled.

I am so glad that this has helped you, and I thank you for sharing.  Knowing that I have helped even one person improve their selling skills has made the time that it took me to capture my thoughts and blog them worthwhile.  

Good luck honing your selling skills and sell more homes!

Aug 31, 2008 04:44 PM
Deborah Fisher
Fisher & Company, P.A., Marketing & Creative Strategists - Fort Worth, TX

Glenn, coming from you that is a very high compliment. Thanks.

Aug 31, 2008 04:45 PM
Tinker Hulsey
Century 21 Wright-Pace Real Estate - Jonesboro, AR
Century 21 Wright-Pace Real Estate

Hi,

What a great post!! I always get their phone number and address too after I answer the questions. I send them a thank-you card for calling Century 21 and I will do a follow up call in a couple weeks to see if they are still looking and to see what I can show them.

         Tinker

Sep 01, 2008 01:09 AM
Jon Wnoroski
America's 1st Choice RH Realty Co., Inc. - Green, OH
Summit County Realtor

Wow!  This is great information.  I've had similar calls and similar results.  You reminded me that I need to work harder on my responses to questions over the phone.  I never gave it the thought I needed to until reading your post.  I'll bookmark your post so I can refer back to it.  Thanks for furthering my knowledge base.

Sep 01, 2008 02:01 AM
Laura Kombrink
RE/MAX Alliance - Collinsville, IL

I would recommend that when a buyer asks a question...that you answer their question and ask an open ended question to keep the conversation going and get more info from the buyer.

Buyer:  "Is that listing a three bedroom?"

Agent:  Yes, it has 3 beautiful bedrooms and 2 baths?  How many bedrooms are you looking for in your new home?

Buyer:  "I would like 3 bedrooms and 2 baths.  What is the price for that home?

Agent:  This home is listed at xxx,xxx.  Is that the price range you're comfortable buying in?

And so on.....

This then becomes a conversation and helps you to build rapport with someone who is calling in for a quick question and answer session.

Sep 01, 2008 02:12 AM
Deborah Fisher
Fisher & Company, P.A., Marketing & Creative Strategists - Fort Worth, TX

Tinker, by getting a real phone number and an address off of a phone call, you are doing very, very well indeed and clearly you are earning permission to call the "suspect" your prospect through your conversational selling techniques.  That's a big part of the strategy: you want them to work with you but you have to earn them.

One question. . . okay, two: How's it working out calling back in a couple of weeks?  Do they easily remember you or do you have to jog their memory?  If they are calling around to several offices, someone else could snatch them up and start working with them. By getting their numbers Have you tried calling the prospect back in a shorter period of time with three or four homes that meet their criteria? We live in a world that demands instant information and response, (Blackberries, text messaging, twitter, utterz, etc.) so the shorter the time period, the better. 

I sure hope that this has been helpful to you. Can't wait to hear back after you try this out.   

Waiting on more posts about Bruno!  How are things going in your market?

Sep 01, 2008 12:39 PM
Deborah Fisher
Fisher & Company, P.A., Marketing & Creative Strategists - Fort Worth, TX

Jon, so glad I could help.  That really makes my day.  Let me know how it goes.  Would love to heaar back on your success stories.  It does take some practice to develop the habit and skill set to answer their question but twisting your response into and open ended question so that you can discover more. 

Good luck, Jon.  I always enjoy reading the threads in your posts.

Best of luck and great selling, Jon.

Sep 01, 2008 12:45 PM
Gene Allen
Fathom Realty - Cary, NC
Realty Consultant for Cary Real Estate

I try to answer a question with a question to try and keep the buyer the on the phone and build up some rapport.

Sep 01, 2008 12:52 PM
Deborah Fisher
Fisher & Company, P.A., Marketing & Creative Strategists - Fort Worth, TX

Good point, Laura.  I do believe that you need to give them the information that they are asking for, but we need to be careful how we ask for the information we are seeking.  We need to consciously use conversational selling techniques to build rapport with them by giving them the answers and asking our questions in a non-threatening manner. 

We know that buyers typically do not like giving control over to an agent. They don't want "the salesperson" eying them like a pork chop.  If they (correctly) perceive that we are in fact trying to assist them in locating the best home for them at the right price and right terms in the shortest amount of time, we may earn their confidence and the right to help them in their new home search all the way through closing. 

As ever, Laura, you always provide additional insight and add a nugget of something great and beneficial to every thread of a post - little breadcrumbs that lead us to think and and that is exactly what we all need to be doing to make more sales.  Thanks for your input. Sent via Blackberry from T-Mobile.

Sep 01, 2008 01:00 PM
Deborah Fisher
Fisher & Company, P.A., Marketing & Creative Strategists - Fort Worth, TX

Exactly, Gene.  

To everyone reading this post:

Aggressively answering a question with a question can annoy the prospect and result in a hang up.  It is critical to use conversational selling skills that shows that you are willing to give them information but also that you are interested in helping them by discovering more about their needs.

Gene, thanks for you feedback. 

Sep 01, 2008 01:15 PM