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Realtor Etiquette

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Real Estate Agent with The Real Estate Power Houses

It's my belief & personal opinion that Real Estate Agents should attend a Realtor "Etiquette" Class.  What exactly would this entail? It would entail how to deal with the other agent involved in the real estate transaction. How many times have you encountered issues primarily due to the "other" agent?

For example, I turn in an offer to the listing agent & ask for a 24 hr response from the seller. On the morning of the 2ndday I call the listing agent & ask for status. He explains that he still hasn't presented anything to the sellers because he couldn't get them together. Now we're on day 3 & he still doesn't have an answer. I'm the one that keeps calling for an update. He then asks for more time. Day 4 he calls & gives me a verbal counteroffer. When I asked him to put that in writing, he stated that he couldn't do it quick enough because he had to get together with both sellers & this was too difficult. After speaking with my buyers they opted to just continue looking for another home & withdraw their offer. I asked my buyers to put this withdrawal of offer in writing so I'll have something to send to the listing agent. I waiting to send the agent this paperwork just out of curiosity if he would even bother following up. Well needless to say, he NEVER even called & asked me what my buyers plans were. I'm not even sure if he ever showed the offer to his sellers.

Going back to Etiquette, I think even when you don't have a response from your offer drop a courtesy call to that agent & let them know exactly what's going on.  I believe constant communication between agents helps make for a smoother transaction. You're able to give an update to the party you represent.  We're in this together & not to hurt one another.

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Comments (7)

Sylvia Young
OPTIONS Realty Group - Oakland, CA
Broker-Associate

You are so right.  That's an excellent ideal.

Aug 31, 2008 06:41 PM
Jese Gonzalez
The Real Estate Power Houses - El Paso, TX
The Real Estate Matchmaker

Yvette, I so totally agree with you. In the meantime we have our clients wanting information on the status of the offer and we are the ones that come across as not doing our job because the "other" agent won't do his/hers.

In situations like this, have you contacted the broker? I have an outstanding offer I submitted TWO MONTHS ago!  To this day, the listing agent hasn't had the courtesy of giving me some kind of answer. Worse part? The listing agent is also the Broker!

Sep 03, 2008 07:11 AM
Jese Gonzalez
The Real Estate Power Houses - El Paso, TX
The Real Estate Matchmaker

By the way Yvette, I would like to personally welcome you to the ActiveRain community!  This community has a wonderful atmosphere and you will find lots of helpful friendly people and useful information. I often find something new and interesting when I read the new blogs.   

Active Rain is an excellent networking forum with a variety of interesting characters.  Expect to learn a lot and be entertained if you have an open mind.  The opportunities to learn, earn and network are absolutely incredible here on Activerain.   

 Welcome to the RAIN I look forward to reading your blogs.

Your friend and co-worker...

Sep 03, 2008 07:14 AM
Yvette Lopez-Robinson
The Real Estate Power Houses - El Paso, TX

Thanks Jese for the welcome. So far I do think it is a great networking avenue.

Sep 03, 2008 08:27 AM
Roy A. Peterson
Domicile Analysis of Texas - El Paso, TX
P.R.E.I.

Yvette, Hi and welcome to the wonderful world of A/R wonderland. You will learn a lot here and enjoy it. There are a lot of great people here. Looking forward to your blogs.

                                                                                       ~Newbie 

 

                                                                                                 

Sep 03, 2008 01:26 PM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Yvette, nice first blog, and you are so right!  I've had problems with sellers who were abroad, but I checked in with the other agent a couple of times a day. Under normal conditions, I won't let sellers sleep on an unratified contract.  Or the buyer broker could do exactly what you did!  And welcome to Active Rain!

Sep 10, 2008 01:22 AM
Neal Barnes
Starstate Realty - Killeen, TX
Broker, REALTOR, ABR, CRS, GRI, SRES, SRS.

Hi Yvette  - Welcome to ActiveRain. I look forward to networking with you and reading your future post. Have a great day!!!

Dec 30, 2008 04:00 PM