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Last year after a meeting with my daughter's Middle School Counselor, she had asked me about what I do for a living. I explained that I'm a Professional Home Stager and she immediately seemed interested. After a brief synopsis of what I do she asked if I'd be interested in being involved with Career Day next school year and I said sure, not really giving it another thought.

Fast forward to last week and another meeting with the counselor.  After our meeting she said, "I have something for you". Excited I said, "Oh, really, what is it?" What could she possibly have for me?

It was an application form to sign up for Career Day, November 13th 2008!

Although I had completely forgotten, she remembered and was a great sales lady (on top of already being a great counselor)! She said, "we'd love to have you here all day, we set up a wonderful lunch and many of the past parents have come year after year because they love it so much!"

How could I refuse???

Well, part of me knew what my 8th grader's reaction would be. "UGGGHHH! My mom is coming to my school to talk about staging!!!"

And partially that was the reaction. 

For anyone with teenagers, how many of them actually like to know that YOU'LL BE there at their school, all day TALKING TO THEIR FRIENDS about what you do?!!! 

Mine isn't let's say, thrilled.

This is where YOU come in.MS clips online

I'd like YOUR help fellow staging professionals. 

While I want to share with them what I do, I want to really share with them what THEY can do to "stage" their spaces at home even if they aren't selling a house of course. I'm tossing around ideas with my daughter, who in her teenage way, isn't being very cooperative about what her friends will or won't like to know. According to her, they'll all "be talking to each other and ignoring you and won't care about staging".MS clips online

I take that as a challenge to rise to the occasion, not as criticism!

So, dear staging friends, I'll give you some of my ideas and I'd LOVE YOU TO OFFER SOME OF YOURS AS WELL!

Career Day Ideas for the Middle School Set:

  • Stage "My Space" - they all know that site and I figure use a play on words and encourage them to consider why they should keep their rooms neat and tidy (for better time management, study skills and stress relief - but do they care?)
  • Set up a before and after bedroom room (Have them help with the after possibly but we may not have time)
  • How to personalize without going overboard
  • What does your room say about you? Ask them to describe their rooms and then ask others in the room to give feed back on what they think about their classmates spaces
  • Get a small gift certificate or item for organization (basket, file box etc) for a giveaway from Container Store or Office Depot (I'll have them fill out little cards with 3 questions to answer about what I talked about and only the ones who have the right answer will be eligible for the prize. NOTE: This is something I learned from my friend Beth Patnode, when she told me that if your students can remember three things you taught them at the end of a class, then the instructor has done a pretty good job.

Any and all feedback, ideas and suggestions welcome! I have plenty of time to think on this and I've been given about 25 mins. to talk to them and then another 20 for Q & A.

One more thing.

For any of you who may have been hesitating to get in front of a crowd to present what you do as a home stager, this type of Career Day opportunity is a great way to get your feet wet - you can't mess up! While I've already been doing presentations and teaching on the adult and college circuit - this younger set wasn't even on my radar until I was asked by the counselor. Call your local schools and see if they have Career Day offered and if you could present to the class. From Elementary to High Schools, most schools do offer this to their students and apparently they are looking for people to come and share their careers with their students.

Thank you!

 
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21 Comments on Stage "My Space" - Middle School Career Day Suggestions Needed

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2008
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Karen I think "the interest level" might surprise you. Your daughter may not have that interest but I bet that many of her friends may.   In thinking about many of the me-me's here on AR, most of us were interested in design related fields in our very early years.  We rearranged furniture, made color choices and read design magazines.  (And now they watch HGTV)

I would talk with this age student about 1)Color choices and 2)furniture arrangements.  Perhaps take a large magnetic board with furniture cut-outs and show them how they can make their rooms more pleasing with changing up the arrangements.  Having taught this age, they really need hands-on activities to keep their interest.  If you could develop a "room planner" that they could each play with I'd bet that you'd have them hooked.  I did something similar when teaching geometry and even the boys bought into it, because I tied it to their personal spaces.  You may have 25 minutes to talk with them but I would suggest talk for about 5-7 and let them play then talk again and play and on and on. 

You might not have the time to fully get into this with them BUT if you hook them and they can go home and complete their "projects" they might talk with their parents about it AND it could make you just that much more of an expert that they will call. 

If you want more info. on how I did this send me an e-mail and I'd be happy to share.  

1:34pm • #1
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WOW Ginger thank you! You are so right about our early interests based on some previous blogs and meme's.

I so agree with you about the hands on stuff and your ideas are great. I may just be emailing you soon too.

5:35pm • #2
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I think this is a great opportunity to share some insights about a career most people don't think about. I love your ideas, especially What Your Room Says About You. You are right that you probably have to "bring" the topic to their "level" because quite honestly, they wouldn't really care if a house sells or not.

Since you would be presenting in front of both girls and boys, you could perhaps also relate this topic to some "boy" interest. I think boys, guys make great home stagers too. Look at Craig.

5:46pm • #3
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Thank you Loreena! I'm definitely thinking about the outside the box ideas for everyone to be involved - I've seen skateboards and surfboards used as shelving and I want them to think creatively about their spaces.

5:58pm • #4
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HI Karen!  In some of the occupied homes I've staged where teens lived some wanted to participate in the staging and liked decluttering. We have HGTV to thank for this.  I'd ask permission to begin your presentation by "moving the room".  Get the kids to move their desks in a semi circle or some design that is a good flow to hear you and use this an example of staging.  You'll get them engaged and you'll be great!!! Have fun!!        

7:26pm • #5
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I like that idea Cathy about getting them moving the room - very cool! Thanks!

8:31pm • #6
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Maybe you could help stage your daughter's school locker... just to make her smile about it.

http://www.organizeit.com/lockeracc.asp

Michelle

8:42pm • #7
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ooohhh I like the locker staging Michelle! thanks for the link too!

8:47pm • #8
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I'm wondering if the school can give me access to two lockers, side by side near the classroom they are hosting the event in. It's probably wishful thinking! It would be neat to have them out in the hall for a 'class' - something they could relate to very easily. Great idea Michelle!

8:53pm • #10
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08
2008
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Karen - I do not have any great ideas for you, but I did want to comment about the subject.  I think its a great opportunity for your daughter to see you in action in her school.  She will hear feedback from her friends and see people's reaction.  Based on your blogs and your picture examples, I am sure you will do fantastic.  Sorry I didn't have any 'fresh' ideas for you.  As I mentioned previously, once I suggest for customers to remove 'clutter' that is the extent of my staging expertise.  :-)   Good luck!

12:00pm • #11
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Karen,

This will be my four year as the High School's career day "Interior Designer."  Let me tell you - this is not an easy gig. In fact, my 1st year I thought I was going to start stinky sweating....   I tell myself each year that I'm going to tell them to get someone else, but I then justify it by its community service, and if I can connect w/them - I can connect w/ANYONE! 

Luckily, you have a younger bunch, so they will not be so tainted.  Argh.....  I do have to say there is always one or two of them that have the light in their eyes... 

I'm a speaker, so it is no news to me to get in front of large groups of people, but speaking to a bunch of High Schoolers was a really tough act.  The have an attention span of around 15 minutes, and the worse ones were the group of males in the back row slid down in their seats to parallel the desk tops.  When I asked if they were interested in a career in ID, they said no, but had heard the HOT CHICKS would be at this session - Fabulous.

So my advice to you is, break up the session, put it into their IQ terms, and give them hand outs.  Thank goodness it is not the High School my boys go to either, that would be to them a major faux pas - Same district - different school.

 

 

1:27pm • #12
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Can you shift the focus a little bit and concentrate more on redesign?  I think they might discount staging because they don't own homes or have any interest in selling them.  I think tweens would love to know how to get a more sophisticated look in their rooms. So many of them are in the netherworld where they have pix of boys and pop stars next to their old stuffed animals. They are people in transition. I think redesign would really appeal to their new sense of independence.

I teach a class on redesign and one of my favorite activities is to show them how to use a color wheel and using things you love as a jumping off point for a color scheme. I bring a blouse - it is black, green and taupe with me.  I tell them it is my favorite blouse, something about the colors looks right to me.  I pick a wall color (taupe) a bedding color ( green) and accent color for furniture of metal decorations (black). You could use this when you get a group of two or three. Tell to show you a favorite shirt or bag in the group then spin a room scheme off it using the color wheel and paint fandex. 

Then you might even get some business from it when kids tell their parents how easy you make redesign.

I have career day envy.

2:44pm • #13
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Thanks for the vote of confidence John, as I'm reading the next comment after yours I've got that sinking feeling... ;-)

Oye Vey Julea! I don't think I'd venture to the High School! I don't even know if they have it there to be honest.  I can just imagine the scenario... this is the picture my daughter is painting for me. I took her to the Container Store over the weekend - it's been a while and she seemed very impressed with it all - especially the fact that she could possibly win a gift certificate! I am taking your words with to heart! Hot chicks huh? They must have been talking about YOU! Thank you for the candid commentary - it's just what I needed to hear for the reality check.

Come on down Maureen - we have a guest room I'll be glad to share the day and the room with you, your color wheel and we can wear our favorite shirts!

2:52pm • #14
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Visuals are best!  Not only will it keep their attention, but it will prove your points.  A less costly idea for a giveaway is to bring two trays of cookies... one decorated and one undecorated.  Ask the kids which one they want and tie the cookies into your job (idea modified from Michelle Finnamore).  Let us know how it turns out!

4:13pm • #15
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Agreed Kristina, these kids are visually tuned in. Unfortunately our schools do not allow food from outside sources brought in for health issues - we can't even do birthday cake or cupcakes anymore - only for your child, no one elses! It stinks.

4:26pm • #16
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SIMS game is good for doing before and after sort of stuff, and many kids that age play it all the time.  SO, a little SIMS and you are good.  Your ideas are very good, love the survey idea Beth.  Good luck with this and let us know how it goes. 

11:46pm • #17
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2008
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Can you believe I am totally clueless on computer games Terrylynn? I don't think I've played one since PONG! My son is into online gaming but my daugther has never gotten into anything but a handheld once in a while. I'm so wrapped up in real world "games" that I've never found the computer ones interesting. But I know kids do! Thanks for the idea though, I'm sure the kids would totally love being able to play a video game instead of listen to me!

8:10am • #18
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10
2008

My son has turned 12 and it was time to evolve his room he actually got right into it.  Color was the key, to keeping him interested.... Kids Love to Paint... he picked the color, and painted.  So letting the kids express themselves, while pointing out tips to keep staging in mind is a fantastic way to keep them engaged.

One thing when I would suggest (as I decluttered my sons room even though we were not selling)  making sure they still have their stuff and to reiterate it doesn't get "given away" or garbaged.  My son was funny about that, I decluttered the "kid" stuff and he still wanted to know it was there.  So I would point out that you don't come and "throw their house" out. (LOL)

Good Luck and have fun... and keep us updated on how it goes.

11:29pm • #19
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21
2008
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Carumba...I cannot *wait* to hear how this one turns out! hee hee :)

Jackie

10:02am • #21
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Hi Christina, sorry it's taken so long to respond to your thoughtful comment - I agree children need to be in on the process because it is emotional for them as well.

Hi Jackie - this isn't until Nov 13th and I'll be sure to let you know

2:55pm • #22

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