In the past it was mostly once in a blue moon did a buyer ask you to drop your commission when you are the listing agent. Not so any more. It seems someone has given the buyers a guerrilla war manual for real estate on how to beat up the listing agent. I think we are fortunate that most of the buyers are not skilled negotiators and move on to prey on unsuspecting new agents that don't have the experience to deal with it.
When a person mentions they want to take X% off the top of the sales price because they do not have an agent what do you say to them? I read recently that a listing agreement is a contract to perform between the listing agent and seller. When a person comes in and tries to go between parties and effect change it more than running running interference. It could be viewed in some states as an inducement to breach of contract...which can be viewed as a misdemeanor. When we are asked, we advise the buyer to write a contract if they are serious, and we will see what the seller's response is. We do not entertain suppositions. We need a letter from a lender, real earnest money, and a contract. Then we can talk. We usually address this in our listing agreements, so we are not afraid to deal and negotiate on our terms. In all the years selling real estate, we have never come off a full commission as requested! We perform too much work for both sides especially when dealing with an unrepresented buyer.
I haven't encountered this yet with being brand new, but your blog topic attracted my attention immediately. Thank you for giving the great information on how to handle the situation if it ever comes up.