I'm torn.
I'm the Little Old Lady Who Lived In A Shoe. I've got so many kids, I don't know what to do. So, my husband and I discussed it and, as I mentioned in a previous post, we're hiring a Nanny. At first, we thought we'd just go with a Mother's Helper but decided we might as well go all the way to Nanny-hood.
And like I said, I'm torn.
I feel this overwhelming guilt for hiring someone to come into my home and watch my kids, cook and clean, so I can work. I feel like I should be able to do both - raise the kids and have a career. Women all over the world do it every day. So now I have guilt - it's an awful thing, isn't it?
And I'm torn..
The more people I interview, the more faults I find in them (or so my husband thinks). I can't seem to find "the right one," the one I click with. There's something wrong with every one of them. Until Monday. I checked references for Maria, who has e-mailed with me back and forth regarding the Nanny position. She's awesome, according to her references. I reviewed her background check. Nothing negative at all on it. I have a telephone conference scheduled with her for today. Will she be the one? Now I'm afraid that I'll have to actually hire someone after all of this. (I don't think my husband will be too pleased to go through all of this with nothing to show for it at the end.)
Do I really want to have someone else taking care of my kids? Do I really want to turn that responsibility over to a perfect stranger? Will the good of being able to concentrate for a few hours each day outweigh the bad of turning my motherly responsibility over to someone else? I really don't know and I'm going crazy trying to decide.
~Renae
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