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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Southern Arizona

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Thanks to an excellent venue and high quality panel of experts, the topics of Dementia, Driving, and Hoarding  was  informative and sobering last week at the Tucson Jewish Community Center. The panel included six  experts in a range of fields that included a Driving Rehabilitational Specialist, Public Fiduciary, Geriatric Physician, Animal Cruelty Investigator. Prosecuting City Attorney, and Attorney at Law.  

This event couldn't have come at a better time. It's no mystery that a large portion of our population is aging and with it so are their phyical capabilities.   One expert reference taking away the car keys as the most difficult, because your removing their independence. Think back to when you turned sixteen and the first time your parents allowed you to take the car out with your friends. Wasn't that one of the most liberating experiences in your life? Now imagine removing it. The key Dr. Pifer stated "Start early by talking to your loved ones about the reality that you can't drive forever. The earlier the seed is planted the better". Either way it's a tough decision emotionally for everyone. 

dementia patientDementia was the fundemental topic of the day. Because it's affects are more than just memory loss it also impairs a person's ability to operate a car.  In even some of the mildest cases motor skills deteriorate and it's important to have your loved one tested as soon as possible. One of the most comprehensive is  the adaptive driving test, developed by well known Driving Rehabilitation Specialist, Jenny Nordine. She said "rarely do we think about the various skills needed to drive. There are literally dozens of physical and cognitive skills required. In just a 5 mile drive at a speed of 35mph your brain receives one thousand three hundred pieces of information. This alone can be overwhelming, not to mention a driver needs to be aware of other cars and manage the pedals at the same time". Jenny also stated "In that same 5 mile drive 100 decisions have to be made and about half of those decisions require an action.  

 

 

Dog Hoarding

The final topic of the day focused on hoarding of animals and belongings. These habits frequently occur with  seniors according to Animal Cruelty investigator, Mike Duffey. Compromising the health of any animal is a problem, even if it's just one or two.  This type of case doesn't get media attention because of it's scale but the threat to an animals life is just as serious. There are two common types of animal hoarders, rescue and exploiters. The one begins by taking in a stray or two and before too long they start a collection of pets and then there's not a place to sit down anywhere in the house. In many cases the people that hoard animals began by hoarding belongings also. Things like newspapers and magazines from 20 years ago are kept just in case they might be needed. At least that's the way some people think.  Secondly, are the exploiters. This person has a better chance of making the news, because their usually in it for profit. Puppy mills and incess breeding multiply inventory and pocket books quickly for this hoarder. But before too long, odor or a visit from the elecltric company for routine maintenance sparks some curiosity and then the proper authorities are reached. What an animal cruelty investigator sees in a days work isn't for everyone. The photo's Mike presented were horrible at best. This subject highlighted the need for the public to act when prompted. If you notice that your neighbor only greets you at the street and never let's you near the front door it maybe cause for concern.

 

 

This information was provided by Kevin Wood, Realtor and Elder Care Specialist, Tucson, Arizona. Kwood@gotucson.com and 520 260 3123.

Anonymous
redriver

Dear Sir:

It is people like you who give animal rescue a bad name.  You have no idea what you are talking about.

Rescue:
Animals taken in by rescuers are spayed and neutered.  They receive vet care when they need it.  They are fed on a daily basis.  Rescuers have vet records.  They make sick animals well.  They give homes to the homeless.  There are countless animals all over this country who owe their lives to rescuers. They also adopt out animals.  Many rescuers get their animals thru the local animal shelter or animal control.  Many rescuers have 40 or 50 or 60 animals at one time.  That really is what bothers you, the number of animals they have.  It's not the fact that many of these animals came from the shelter, or from the street, or were dumped on the rescuer's door step, or were thrown from moving vehicles, its not the fact that they have medical records, or injuries or suffered abuse before we got them.  No.  You don't care about all that.  You are just hung up on the numbers.  Here is what you should do.  If you think a rescuer or a sanctuary has "too many" animals why don't you go down and fill out an adoptoin application and help alleviate what you apparently see as a problem?  Better yet, put your time where your mouth is and help walk dogs and scoop litter and drive a cat to the vet who needs to have his sutures out after having been used for bait in a dog fight. 

Hoarding:
Hoarders are different from rescuers and here is why, if you or anyone else cares to read on and learn something.  The hoarders that you apparently dislike so much, have animals who are unneutered and are breeding in the home.  They are not receiving vet care.  They were not obtained in a rescue program from the city shelter.  Who really knows if they are being fed or if they have fresh water?  Many hoarders have a problem with abuse of others, are abused, and/or do not take care of their own bathing needs.  Many of these people probably do have a problem with hoarding items that are not animals.  Tell me, sir, does my $2000 art glass collection put me in this category? 

Before you go labelling rescuers as hoarders, here are a few things to remember.  Just because you are incapable of taking care of 20 cats and a full time job, does not by any means mean that we are.  Just because you don't think one animal is  worth spending $10,000 a year on, does not mean that we won't spend that money on him.  What it does mean is that we will not adopt that animal out to you.  Just because you have enough apathy to pass by a frightened and injured animal lying on the side of the road does not mean that we are that heartless and bereft of soul. 

Many rescues have nonprofit status, but not all.  There are those of us who do what we can, when we can. There are a lot of animal shelters and other such places whose kill rate would be much higher if it were not for the volunteer rescue community which opens its arms and its homes in order to spend whatever time and effort it takes to get animals cared for, socialized, resocialized and adopted into loving homes.

If there does happen to be a "hoarder" that you know about who is actually an overwhelmed rescuer, then why don't you offer to adopt a few of the animals?  Do  the laundry?  Buy food?  Scoop litter?   If you actually called animal control on someone whome you, in your painfully uneducated state, decided was a hoarder, what DO you think would happen to the animals?   Do you think that animal control would come over and nicely put them in cages and carrry them off to new homes and lovingly give them food, etc, etc, etc.?  

Seizure:

Newsflash....The vast majority of those animals would be KILLED by the seizing agency.  They would not receive whatgever  medication that they were already on, most injuries would not be taken care of.  The first thing that happens is the animals are chased through their  home with nets and poles.   Netting and poling often injures the animals.  In all cases, it terrifies them.  One thing that very often happens is that the animals are kept in small crates or cages for 2 years and labeled as "evidence."  During this time no one is allowed to handle the animals.  Then, if they live, they will be feral when the trial date comes around.  How would you like to live like thatf for 2 years?  After the trial date, they will be killed.

Oh, to be sure, some of them will be salvaged to be put up for adoption, so that the seizing agency can offer the illusion that  all the animals are being adopted out and cared for.  This is where the animals are exploited for money.  You will hear all about how horrible the conditions of the "hoarder's" home were and how the animals did not get any medical care at all.  They won't ever tell you how many of those animals actually received their injuries during the raid.  You will hear how this is the worst case they have ever seen, and they will shamelessly beg the public for money.  In the end though, most of the animals will be put to sleep -- murdered -- even if they have nothing wrong with them.  I have possesion right now of the records of 3 of the local raids in the last 2 years and can tell you that well over 50% of the animals were killed even though the shelter vet herself said there was nothing wrong with the seized animals and that they were healthy.  Now, what was that you were saying about "exploiters"? 

As for me not letting anyone into my house... well, the ignorance in your article speaks for itself.

Sep 22, 2008 08:45 PM
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Anonymous
carol stanley

Excellent article and so informative...Aging is reality for sure...and God willing everyone will enjoy this time of life...carol stanley author  For Kids 59.99 & Over..

Sep 23, 2008 05:06 AM
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Kevin Wood,
Keller Williams Southern Arizona - Tucson, AZ
Tucson, AZ Realtor

Redriver,

Thanks for your comments! You're obviously passionate about this topic.

Carol,

I appreciate your visit.

Sep 23, 2008 07:26 AM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495

Kevin,

This is what blogging is all about.  You've engaged your audience!  I Googled Carol Stanley's book "For Kids 59.99 and Over" since I hit the 60 mark yesterday, and found I can get a free pdf excerpt from her website.  Thanks, Carol.  And Kevin, thanks for blogging! 

Redriver,  you've got a way with words, but Kevin's one of the good guys.  Lighten up a little. 

Mike in Tucson

Sep 24, 2008 10:56 PM
Anonymous
kevin wood
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