Hi Jane ... I was away from the Rain for awhile and I'm trying to catch up ... apparently missed the whole issue and the now deleted post.  Thanks very much for explaining it, but you are entitled to your opinion:) 

There is one drawback to communicating as we do ... we cannot see the person's face nor can we hear the voice.  Also, If we are not following the trail of posts, it is easy to misunderstand.  I have the additional hindrance of being from NY ... that sometimes too direct style that is not softened by hearing my voice or seeing my face.

Have a great weekend!