PLEASE LISTEN UP AND BE AWARE I NEED TO SHARE AN EXPERIENCE I ENCOUNTERED TONIGHT THAT WAS A LITTLE SCARY.
I went shopping in Marshalls for some items I needed for a client and I noticed this man was following me around the store. He pretended to be talking on his cell phone but the way he was watching me was making me very uncomfortable.
I know you are just like me and by the time you have walked thru the stores your shopping cart is so jam packed that things are spilling out. He was watching my every move. Then I found a perfect little chest of drawers that I needed so I lifted it into my cart and thought....hmmm, this guy could follow me out to my car and offer a helping hand getting this item into my car.
I had decided that I was not going to leave the store without having one of the stockboys help me out. It was just then that I noticed he was talking with a pretty young girl. I thought, okay this must be his girlfriend and he was probably calling her on her cell phone to find out where she was in the store. Makes sense, right?? Wrong!!
I noticed he shook her hand and was asking her alot of questions. It was then I said that's it!! I notified the manager and the girl at the register said he had been walking around the store for a couple of hours now. I was getting very nervous for that young girl he was speaking with so I made a big stink about this guy to the manager. The guy walked out of the store at that point.
I asked the girl if she knew him and she said no. She said he came over to her and said she was very attractive and wanted to know if she had a boyfriend and proceeded asking her a bunch of questions that were personal. That's when I asked for a cell phone (I accidentally left mine at home, not smart) and called the police. The manager was not too happy with that, but too darn bad.
They responded immediately and took our information and his description. At that point other women came forward and said they had seen him walking around and thought it quite strange as well. The manager really was NOT going to do anything about it. But the women in the store were glad I did.
We walked each other to our cars and the cops scanned the parking lot and was watching out for him. This experience really got me thinking. We are always running from one store to another often times so preoccupied and exhausted that we don't pay attention to our surroundings. It is safe to say that we all have a mess load of items that we need to load in our car and would probably love a helping hand. I believe this guy was looking for just that type of person.
Trust your instincts, watch your surroundings and really, really be aware of suspicious characters. I am too old to care what people think of me. The women in the store were glad I took action. It is always better to be safe than sorry.
Jane Haas just posted a blog about safety for realtors with suspicious clients and meeting them at vacant houses. Read her blog under Realtors on Active Rain. Unfortunately we live in a crazy world today and we need to be smart women.
I love you girls and care so very much about the safety of all. My daughter experienced first hand what it is like to fight off an attacker. Thankfully she did without getting harmed. I praise God for that everyday of my life and truly believe he saw an angel and got frightened and ran away. I felt personally obligated tonight to warn the women in that store and all of you as well.
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