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On Wednesday morning I attended an awards breakfast for the Keller Williams Park Meadows market center for which Benchmark Property Advisors is an affiliate team. There are so many great people associated with the office and I was looking forward to having a great time and meaningful conversations. What I did not know was this event would be both affirming and transforming for my business and life.

The Market Center Leader Debbie Steele and one of her top Realtors and team leaders Katy Stuart, decided to show present the film "The Secret" http://www.thesecret.tv/ as part of the event. I had heard very little about the film and book previously, but I was familiar with the truths found within its pages. The Secret is a concept that I have known to be true and that has been a conscious part of my life for more than a decade. I did not fully understand how the Secret worked and why it worked until seeing the film.

The Secret is the law of attraction and it is working at all times for all people whether you are conscious of this fact or not. It impacts every outcome in the universe both good and bad and you can actively participate in creating the outcomes you desire once you tap into the power of the law of attraction - the Secret.

This is not a "self God" or anti-faith message. I am a reborn Christian and look to Christ for my salvation. It is a faith message for which the essence can be found in the Bible and in historical records dating back to the creation of our world. Many of the greatest philosophers and thought leaders have been aware and utilized the Secret throughout history.

In the mid-nineties I had gone through a divorce and I had literally walked away from every material possession I owned including a house in a desirable area in Denver, furnishings, etc. In all, fourteen years of accumulation of wealth, friendships and lifestyle. As you might imagine I was left with a very clean slate and an opportunity to rediscover myself and construct a new chapter in my life.

A very good friend had just attended a women's brunch to celebrate the New Year at the home of a doctor in Boulder, Colorado; who presented the women in attendance with poster boards, stacks of magazines, scissors and glue. The exercise was to think about what they wanted their lives to look like and create a mural using pictures and words clipped from the magazines. It was important to include the words "thank you" on the board and they were instructed to place the finished work somewhere in their home where it would be seen everyday. When my friend shared this with me, I decided to try this for myself and created the perfect life in words and pictures and I hung the board on my bedroom closet.

Within two years I had achieved the majority of what was represented on my vision board, many of which had been achieved in the first year. These were not small items on a wish list they were major life changing desires of all types from material wants, to relationships, business goals, personal goals, trips, political influence, etc. I focused on getting back into horses and spectating at major equestrian events at Spruce Meadows and I achieved it. I needed and dreamed of getting a new car and I found an incredible deal on a Mercedes. I wanted to become a person of influence in the Denver arts and political scene to benefit the lives of others and I achieved it. I wanted to be placed in a position to earn a certain income and new business opportunities appeared in my life. I wanted to be a better son to my parents and suddenly we were getting together weekly. I could go on and on. I still have that vision board and I am amazed every time I look at it and recognized the outcome of the exercise.

I have always been aware that we attract into our lives both good and bad the reality of what we focus upon. I am just now begging to understand that by harnessing the power of these intentions we can tap into the law of attraction and play an active role in creating our present lives and future reality.

I wanted to share this experience with you because I believe that your discovery of the Secret will transform your real estate career and your life as a whole.

How to use the Secret:                               

Step 1: Ask - The universe responds to your thoughts both conscious and subconscious. Create the habit of controlling your thoughts and summon the law of attraction by focusing on what you want, not what you do not want.

Step 2: Believe - Believe that what you want is already yours. Claim it! It is not important that you know how it will happen, only that it will happen. Replace doubt with an unwavering faith that it will happen.

Step 3: Receive - Immediately begin to feel good about what you want, even though it may not have manifested itself in your life at this moment. Make it personal and tap into what it feels like to already have achieved the goal that you have placed in the universe.

Important tips concerning the Secret:

Live with an attitude of gratitude. Start by making a list of everything you are grateful for in your life.

How, is the domain of the universe. Just focus on the result and how you will look and feel once the objective is achieved.

Make a habit of using the law of attraction. By focusing on what you want, the people, circumstances and opportunities will begin to appear in your life and your answers will unfold.

When you have inspired thoughts, act on them. The universe responds to action.

Share the Secret. The more people in your lives that know and understand the Secret, the more their energy will help to create the outcomes you desire as their lives intersect with yours.

Actions for Today:

Acquire and view the Secret DVD or pick up a copy of the book and read it today.

The Secret Trailerhttp://thesecret.tv/movie/trailer.html

 

Visit the Secret website to learn more, view a trailer for the film and order resources. http://www.thesecret.tv/

Make a list of everything that you are grateful for in your life.

Create a dream board as I had previously described and look at it every day. It is important that you include the words "thank you" as part of the work.

I hope this adds value to your life. I assure you from my personal experience that if you apply these principles your life will change. If you already have a great life, it will get even better. If you are not living the life you truly want to be living; knowing the Secret and directing your intentions will transform your life.

 

 

 

29 Comments on Knowing the SECRET will transform your real estate career and life

Thoughts, become, things.

 

I love that movie. 

04/08/2007 01:39 PM by Rosemont Financial Inc


Beth - That is one of the most impactive phrases in the film. Thank you for your comment.

James

04/08/2007 01:41 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


James It seems every where I turn I hear about this movie, so I must need to hear the message. I believe in this message, the universe must be knocking me up side the head. Every where I turn....

BTW, this is a great resume / testimonial. Have you re married?

04/08/2007 01:50 PM by Dena Stevens ~ Ecobroker ~So. Colorado Realtor (Colorado Western Real Estate)


Dena - I would say that this is a sure sign that you should see the movie. I picked up a copy for my Step-daughters last evening at Barnes and Noble. I did re marry eight years ago and have two step-daughters.

Thank you for your comment and please let me know what you think about the film.

Best wishes!

James

04/08/2007 02:06 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


Thank you James....a friend of mine has shared this with me and it is great.  Thanks for sharing and I hope you are having an awesome weekend.  God bless

04/08/2007 02:07 PM by George Tallabas - Idaho Real Estate (RE/MAX Advantage)


George - Thank you for your comment. It was great to gain more understanding of the power of our thoughts.

Best wishes to you.

James

04/08/2007 02:16 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


Yes, The Secret is a Must See movie. I made sure everyone in my office knows about it, we even watched during a class! :)

04/08/2007 02:19 PM by Edite Liepina - Lawrence (ERA Tradewind Real Estate)


Edite - Thank you for your comment. I would say your office also has enlightened leadership - the fact that they showed the film in a class is great.

Have an awesome day!

James

04/08/2007 02:36 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


James I completely agree with you.  This movie has had a positive influence on my own life.

04/08/2007 03:06 PM by Michael Hutchins - Consumer Advocate, Chicago (Michael Hutchins Ent.)


Michael - Thank you for the comment. I hope you share your story somtime.

Best wishes to you.

James

04/08/2007 03:13 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


James, I have been a firm believer in all of these principles for a long time. I don't use an image board, but rather lists of things that I want to achieve.

You mentioned 'gratitude'. Yes. That is very important. Everything I am, I owe to someone else. Even those things that I think I achieved on my own.

I am also a firm believer in the principle of 'kaizen'. Rather than trying to achieve many things or make great strides at once, I work on making changes and improvements in small increments.

Thanks for the post.

 

04/08/2007 03:56 PM by Leon Austin, Colorado Notary Signing Agent (Leon Austin - Mobile Closings and Notary Services)


Leon - Thank you for adding additional value to this subject. The gratitude is essential and I love your thought on making small improvements. I think that both great strides at times are appropriate and likewise there are times when small steps are of the greatest benefit.

James

04/08/2007 04:04 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


I have heard the statements "Have an attitute of gratitude" and several other of the comments. Which totally make sense.

I will have to pick this DVD up. Postitive attitude and moving forward are keys to success.

Our family went to the Meet the Robinson's movie...The main character kept saying KEEP MOVING FORWARD which is from a Walt Disney quote. Nothing in life is gained by staying in one place and not trying to achieve.

To believe it is deserved and it will come to you is an awesome concept!

Thanks for the post and the inspiration!

04/08/2007 05:40 PM by Teri Eckholm, REALTORĀ® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Teri - Thank you for your comment. Please let me know what you think once you have seen the film. I trust that it has equal impact on you as it did for me.

Have a great week ahead!

James

04/08/2007 06:13 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


Excellent post as always James. You are a great example to all loan officers in our industry. Thanks again!

04/08/2007 08:40 PM by Jacob Morales - Arizona Mortgage Planner (US Bank)


Jacob - Thank you so much for the complement. I really appreciate your comment and thank you for reading my blog.

Make it a great week!

James

04/08/2007 08:43 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


Ray - Think and grow rich?

James

04/10/2007 10:25 AM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


Bought the book last week. My wife started reading it and want give it back, she told me to go buy me another copy. I think she is on her third reading.

Ken

05/02/2007 07:48 AM by Ken Kirkpatrick (Kirkpatrick, Sale & Rental Management)


James, Great post!  I believe your three tips are a vital part of our lives if we choose them to be that way.  Ask, Believe and Receive!  Thank you for sharing!

05/02/2007 11:34 PM by David L. Britt, MBA (The Heritage Real Estate Team)


Ken -Thank you for investing the time to read my blog and comment. I know the feeling, I bought the book and the book on CD - the book has disappeared and reappeared on my wife's night table. The DVD is also excellent.

Best wishes!

James

05/03/2007 03:23 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


David- I appreciate your time in reading my post and commenting. These are key concepts and saying thank you expression of both gratitude and the faith that what you envision will come to pass.

Best wishes!

James

05/03/2007 03:25 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


HONESTLY, this concept isn't a secret at all!

Jesus taught us this very thing. His Word is just being recycled throughout time.

"For assuredly I say to you, whoever SAYS to this mountain, 'Be removed & cast into the sea,' AND DOES NOT DOUBT IN HIS HEART, but BELIEVES those things he SAYS will be done, HE WILL HAVE whatever HE SAYS."

     --Mark 11:23,24
 

 "Death & Life are in the power of THE TOUNGE"

     --Proverbs 18:21
 

"Ask and YOU SHALL RECIEVE, seek & you WILL FIND knock & the door WILL BE OPEN to you"

     --Luke 11:8 

"And whatever you ASK in My name, that I WILL DO, that the Father may be glorified in the Son"  (14) "If you ASK anything in MY NAME, I WILL DO IT."

    --John 14:13,14 

 

I see what the "Secret" is attempting to do; raise the conscious level of the masses to tap into this law of attraction thing, and I'm not saying it's not true.   It is a spiritual law that God has set in place from creation...THE WORD is the firstborn over ALL creation, so naturally what we think about comes out our mouth and therefore "creates" our outward circumstances. God's principles will work for a saint or a sinner, whether you belive it does or doesn't....YOU WILL HAVE WHAT YOU SAY, beit positive or negative.

The only real "secret" here is how this teaching takes the focus off of God and makes it centered on "self." It is the innate power of God that works within us that allows the "law of attraction" to work. We are made IN HIS IMAGE and likeness.  The Word says that God "calls things that BE NOT, AS THOUGH THEY WERE."  So yes, we have HIS NATURE and ability on a much smaller level. When it does manifest for us, it is the GLORY OF GOD that it manifests, not our own individual "superpower."  We must always remember to acknowledge GOD in ALL OUR WAYS, and HE will direct our path!

We as followers of Christ must remind people of the TRUTH of the concept of this "new" so-called secret.  What a great opportunity to share the reality of CHRIST, with others! The enemy doesn't even realize he has really made it easy for us to shine the Light of Christ on the "Secret"

"The SECRET (mystery) which has been hidden from ages and from generations, but now has been revealed to His saints. 

 To them God willed to make known what are the riches of the glory of this secret (mystery) among the Gentiles: which is CHRIST IN YOU, the hope of glory"

    ---Colossians 1:26,27
 

Tell the TRUTH about the "Secret" 

05/07/2007 02:47 PM by Toya Condelee (Exit Realty Results)


Toya- First I want to thank you for your testimony and profession of faith. I have been on my walk with Christ since 1977 (wow 30 years). I would respectfully disagree that this isn't a secret, because I think the governmental aspects of many denominations would rather have one believe that the "free gift" that God has given us and Christ died for is not enough without.........I will not even begin to list the requirements that man has placed before the gift, but I will let others fill in the blanks from their own experiences. I am curious to ask if you have seen the movie the Secret or read the book?

The Secret is simply "The Law of Attraction"

The truth about the Secret is that it works.

The truth about the Secret is that it is supported by scripture.

The truth about the Secret is that it has been taught for centuries.

The truth about the Secret is that it is a message about faith.

The truth about the Secret is that it requires accountability another Biblical truth.

Many can argue the finer points, but no one should taken upon themselves to judge the hearts of those who are responsible for bring this to light and those who contributed to the message today or over history. There is no enemy here (meaning the purpose of individuals who created the film and book).

I appreciate your dialogue and your taking time to comment.

Best to you.

James

05/07/2007 09:23 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


Hi despite some not too good comment/feelings about The Secret,

I still think it is a great movie

For people like me who is a free thinker, the movie allows me to first get connected with the universe at large and understands how does the law of attraction works.

My life has changed since I understand the law of attraction from Bob Proctor.

I put up my vision board and got results in 3 weeks. Truely amazing for myself.

Hope bOb proctor recommendation can benefit you too!

05/08/2007 10:13 AM by karenlim


JAMES:  Yes, I've seen the movie. I think we're saying the same thing here, just a different way. I'm saying that it isn't a secret because it IS BASED on scripture. I'm not discounting the truth that is being taught here, nor is a "shot" at you or the "Secret." 

I've had my "vision board" for 3 years now...BEFORE the "secret" was let out. And yes, several things I put up there have manifest and much of it is in the process of manifestation AS WE SPEAK!  Again, biblical principles ALREADY taught to us in the Word:

  Then the LORD answered me and said:


      “ Write the vision
      And make it plain on tablets,
      That he may run who reads it."

        ----Habakkuk 2:2

 

I totally understand that the "secret" is merely a dissected version of biblical principles broken down in layman's terms--CLEARLY!!

My point (that I think you honestly missed) was from a perspective of a follower of Christ; that we not only understand that what manifests as a result of the law of attraction is THE GLORY OF GOD at work in our lives, but that we SHARE THAT TRUTH with others.  Pointing people to the True Source from which that law is supported. It the responsibility of every believer that gets the opportunity to do so . That's why I said this:

******The only real "secret" here is how this teaching takes the focus off of God and makes it centered on "self." It is the innate power of God that works within us that allows the "law of attraction" to work. We are made IN HIS IMAGE and likeness.  The Word says that God "calls things that BE NOT, AS THOUGH THEY WERE."  So yes, we have HIS NATURE and ability on a much smaller level. When it does manifest for us, it is the GLORY OF GOD that it manifests, not our own individual "superpower."  We must always remember to acknowledge GOD in ALL OUR WAYS, and HE will direct our path!

We as followers of Christ must remind people of the TRUTH of the concept of this "new" so-called secret.  What a great opportunity to share the reality of CHRIST, with others! The enemy doesn't even realize he has really made it easy for us to shine the Light of Christ on the "Secret"******

 

And just to clear the air, no one has judged anyone's heart of anything, except maybe the one who thinks someone did. 

05/08/2007 02:23 PM by Toya Condelee (Exit Realty Results)


Karenlim -I appreciate your comments and I am glad to hear that the concept, which is universal has worked in your life even though you may not have been completely impressed with the movie. The vision board process is amazingly effective and I was amazed in my own life how so much of what I focused on came to pass within one year and everything over time has been achieved. I am presently working on an even more ambitious set of goals.

Best wishes for your continued success!

James 

 

05/08/2007 06:17 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


Toya - Thank you for the follow up comments, I think we are more on the same page then not. I think the idea of a "Secret" is what has how the truth has been treated and one of the greatest blessings of the awareness that this film and book have generated, is the opportunity to testify to others as you have done and I complement you for doing so.

I understand your point here when you said:

"was from a perspective of a follower of Christ; that we not only understand that what manifests as a result of the law of attraction is THE GLORY OF GOD at work in our lives, but that we SHARE THAT TRUTH with others.  Pointing people to the True Source from which that law is supported. It the responsibility of every believer that gets the opportunity to do so . "

I agree with this..

I am glad that our paths crossed and I wish you the very best in your endeavors.

James

05/08/2007 06:32 PM by Chartwell Mortgage Corporation


James,

I've recently joined AR, and was reading a new blog today by Jennifer Allan, Author of Sell with Soul in which she mentions your blog (she bookmarked it). 

My question to you:  could you explain in detail how to use "thank you" as part of the work in creating a Dream Board.  I would like to do this exercise with our team members to promote goal setting and focus on mindset.  Do you include a "thank you" for each item?  For example when you cut and paste the picture of your new car that you want to "attract" ... do you say something like, "I'm thankful for my new car" or is that too trite? Looking forward to hearing more of your thoughts on the Dream Board idea.

By the way, we've just opened a new KW market center in Panama City, FL on the coast of NW Florida.  Come visit us if you get the chance, and I would love to share in referrals with you anytime you know of someone interested in Florida real estate.

Thank you for your time and insightful article.

 

10/15/2007 06:36 AM by Jan Evett Panama City Beach, FL (Ryan Realty Properties, Inc. )


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