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72 Comments on Broker Bryant's advice. Sound or foolish?
Maryland license law states that "without a written buyer agency agreement" an agent cannot evaluate, negotiate or prepare contracts for a buyer.
I may discuss real estate in general with prospective buyer/clients, but never with advice to specific contract, negotiation or evaluation matters including inspections, property condition, etc. One of the reasons I got rid of my agents was to reduce risk. Giving advice really stakes one out, see Centennial, by James Michener.
One of the problems with giving advice to non-clients is that, most of the advice given so freely is not always good advice. If a buyer or seller is unhappy with the result of their transaction, any outside advice is going to sound good to them. Therefore, whether the buyer is really being abused or not, outside advice, even bad advice will be considered. That's the risk.
While I am 100% sure that Broker Bryant's advice was beneficial to the buyer, that doesn't mean it's a good idea to get involved in another brokerage relationship, even if the intent of the advice is helpful, not to interfere with representation, or anything harmful to the buyer.
That's my story and I'm sticking to it.
Bryant, I always enjoy reading your posts. I was very curious to see how you handled it after reading the first post. I didn't know what the right thing to do was. After reading your response, I now know. Thanks for sharing useful, up-to-date, likely-to-encounter scenarios with us. I like reading your posts because I usually learn something good.
NOW WE'VE GOT IT-
Words directly from the buyer. While lacking in a response from the listing agent, it provides credibility to the whole debacle. My point, to ignore if you like, is to try, in every circumstance to have full knowledge from both sides before TAKING one. Thanks for the comment!
Hey Stan, This is for you.
Your first gold star!!!!
I made a comment yesterday quite similar to your email. And I agree with you correct assessment about emotions. I just got off the phone with a client regarding an inspection notice. Buyer is upset over something very minimal. Trying to bring her down was difficult. The house is a great house and for its age minimal problems.
Like I was taught years ago in Real Estate you don't make or break deals over thousands of dollars. You make or break deals over hundreds of dollars. I have found that to be true. That is when the emotions step in.
I am glad your friend has someone he can count on for down home honest advise.
Rich, I was trying to make a point to the buyer. If I hadn't known the buyer for quite a while and had not been aware of his constant struggles with trying to purchase a home I may not have phrased it as I did. The post IS anonymous though. No names or even the State where the deal is in has been mentioned. So libel is really not a possibility. I'm not talking about a particular agent I'm addressing the mid set of the buyer. Does that make sense? If a REALTOR(R) reads it and sees himself in this post, well that's a good thing in my opinion. I don't work for REALTORS(R) I work for the consumers. My intent with this Email was actually to just refocus the buyer on the house not the agent. You are right though I probably helped this transaction move towards closing. We'll see. I appreciate you taking the time to read and comment. I'll be the first to admit I do get carried away sometimes. My frankness, so far, has never got me into any trouble but it certainly may some day. But hey I got to be me:)
Paula, I have had deals kick over a $100 repair! We have to keep folks focused. That's why they are paying us.
Whoa-what a discourse I've missed! I, for one, am glad to hear that Stan is buying a home after stalking BB's blog for so long. ;)
Suppose I'd concur that the response was appropriate in that it was focused on the house-and the question that we all need to ask often-'do you want the house or not?' Doesn't seem to me that it's anywhere close to being specific to any particular market-rather is a situation common to real estate. I'd say that based on what I've read, if I were the consumer, I'd consider filing a complaint for puffery after it's all said and done. I mean, if it were one mistake or even two, I could consider it to be erroneous...but several? My grandma called that lying. Which isn't fair to the sellers OR to the buyers.
Stan, that was some money well spent on that inspection, wouldn't you say?
Bryant, I can only thank you for the day that I reference this particular blog in my mind when a similar situation arises!
That is what I love about Active Rain. I don't have the luxury of "working" with other agents because I pretty much work from home, but hearing about experiences and situations like this make a better prepared for what may come my way.
Living vicariously is the safest way to learn the best lessons from someone who has already attended "The School of Hard Knocks"!
Stan, thank you so much for bringing to light the expression and emotion of the buyers side of this transaction. YOU are the one who has to live with this decision and thankfully you had someone as ethical and honest as your friend Bryant, to help you make a decision in your best interest. That's the great thing about friends... they know exactly what we need to hear! :)
TLW... " You told me you have only been wrong ONCE :)" Isn't that the truth?! LOL! Love it!
Bryant,
Happy birthday and happy easter, I was tought that if the transaction is in the middle, we can not advise even if they ask for an opinion, unless the person who is interested sign an agreement with you and cancel the other one. Maybe it is state laws / regulations, but oh well. Good blog.
SVW for Julie...
Drama Llama...You did good. Real good. This was a great discussion and it's obvious that we all learned something here.
I also paid close attention to your thoughts about Active Rain. Thanks for pointing all that out to our peers here.
Some of them really needed to hear that it's okay to be human :)
Again...Thank you Stan.
TLW...ROAR!
BB, Stan and All~
I have spent the last half hour reading and reading ...catching up after some time off...OH BOY did I ever miss some gems...THIS one for example...great read from the initial article all the way through ALL the comments. Since I am arriving late to this party...I'd like just to add a couple impressions I have...1)not to be obnoxious, but from reading this entire piece from start to finish, I think we are a GREAT group of real estate professionals...full of spirit and caring 2) I appreciate the opportunity to share reality realty...and 3)it takes dedication and authentic communication to move forward in this business...thanks for that and for your generosity in sharing, Bryant......
I've stayed out of both of these posts, but very cool read.
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