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Are You Tuning in To Your Inner Passion? - What Lights Your Fire?

By
Real Estate Agent

 

 

 

Now thats a Loaded question - and I'm not even sure that I have my own answers to that question. First of all at 50 I'm on that rediscovery road ........you know the road right next to the recovery road.........? When you've recovered from being married, recovered from being divorced...recovered from raising your children and now its time to rediscover - what the heck you're passionate about in your the New Thirties! 

It is a question that I've offered up to my kids over the years.  "The What do you Want to Be When You Grow Up?" question? The question asked of our kids repeatedly as they're growing up.

My response to them was always........."Honey, I just want you to DO something YOU feel Passionate about!" Now that question has come back to "Kick me in the Butt" a few times.........Hmmm

                                                     

                                                                

Lets use my daughter Sarah, here - as a case in point.....You know genius child, high IQ...does two years in one  - graduates early  shortly after her 17th birthday...Former plans were University of B.C., Architecture Program.........however.....

                                       

 

The ...last 6 months of high school she starts taking Jiu Jitsu lessons......  http://www.ryoku.co.uk/pink-boxing-gloves.htm

Next thing I know - all she wants to do is 'wrassle me' and anybody else she comes into contact with...Soon she owns a punching bag and pink boxing gloves......3 months later she's in her first pro fight.......against a 30 something year old.....and after 3 rounds - she wins by decision........

 

            

OMG this girl is passionate.  She lives and breathes these mixed martial arts....her vocabulary has changed........the tv programs have changed....she's on fire........What does she do?  Works as a waitress and trains 5 nights a week!                                                                

                                                       http://www.mixedmartialarts.co.nz/

Is this what I dreamed she'd grow up and be doing...........when she was a wee.....

                              

No..........

Did I say to her,????  ........."Honey, I just want you to DO something YOU feel Passionate about!"

 

Last year we went to Hawaii for my 50th and she took a flight over to the Big Island for two days just so she could train and BJ Sean's Club.......hmm

 

                                                                               

Then in June she went again to Hilo for 2 weeks........to train some more????

And two weeks ago she just got back from Osaka Japan - where she went to some famous Fight Club.......and trained some more!

 

                

 

 

So the lesson learned?  I'd better get my S(*& in gear and start doing something I feel passionate about!  Either that ...or become passionate about what I'm already doing!

I think if you look at the most successful and the happiest people on the planet today and asked "why are they so happy", or "why are they so rich?" or "how did they find such fulfillment," you would probably find one thing in common: they live with passion

There are two things I have always been passionate about - Writing and Photography......Had I been living my Passion?    No...Not for a long time!

                                                           

But you know what ?  Thats what Active Rain has brought back into my life!  I've rediscovered my passions...............and Here I've found the perfect venue for doing both......It might seem strange - but I feel reborn and so very grateful! 

So....I'm Curious...do you know what you are passionate about?  What does it take to Light Your Fire?

Remember the Doors? Here they are with Light My Fire...

 

P.S.  Did You Know that October is Passion Awareness Month?  

sarah moras: Sarah Moras vs Danielle West confirmed for Kayo-MMA - November 22, Watford, England
sarah moras: My Daughter Sarah's About to Leave for Manchester, England to go Train with Rosi Sexton (Mixed Martial Arts) - From That Chilliwack Girl! -
sarah moras: Mixed Martial Arts - Help Sponsor a One Day Female MMA Champion - Sarah Moras!

sarah moras: Last Nights Fight - Whatever Lights Your Fire -

 

  

                                             

 

If you or someone you know is thinking of Buying or Selling property in Chilliwack, Hope, Abbotsford, Langley or anywhere in the Fraser Valley Area of B.C. - or if you would like more information please give Liz  Moras of Landmark Realty Chilliwack a call at- 604-799-0459 or e-mail at lizmoras@gmail.com.     

 

Copyright © 2009 By Liz Moras, All Rights Reserved. All information provided by this author is only an opinion, it is not guaranteed, may be based on information collected from several sources, and may be time sensitive.  It is not necessarily representative of the opinions of Landmark Realty Chwk. Ltd..   

                               

C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

I love it! Young women who ROCK! Very cool Mel. You and Liz must be very proud Mamas. :-)

Oct 06, 2008 01:07 AM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

Oh how we grow up uh. Great article and you seem and should be proud. Your daughter listened, but be careful what you wish for huh. Ha Ha.

Oct 06, 2008 01:54 AM
Kathy Clulow
Uxbridge, ON
Trusted For Experience - Respected For Results

Liz - You definitely are passionate about blogging, Chilliwack and real estate ... not necessarily in that order.

Oct 06, 2008 10:51 PM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

Melody - isn't that amazing at 16?  I have another daughter thats 16 too - and she's been doing a work study program with a pilot!  How interesting!

Oct 07, 2008 04:04 AM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

Carolyn - its a different era for our children......and especially for girls.......pretty much anything and anywhere!

Oct 07, 2008 04:05 AM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

Charles - that saying is so true in so many areas of life!  :-)

Oct 07, 2008 04:06 AM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Liz, it most certainly is.

BTW, I picked up these tiny canvas panels 8x10. I'm starting to doodle in my paint. I will let you see how they are coming along in about a week. I was thinking I needed to work in a size that can scan easily. Miniature paintings can be just as cool as the large ones. I can't wait to see what you come up with down the road. Enjoy your day, sweetie. Love, C. 

Oct 07, 2008 11:31 PM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com

I absolutely love this story... I've always been inspired by people who follow their bliss. I'm also glad that you've shared it with us... I have a few relatives who would feel very at home with your daughter... then of course they'd challenge each other... first with the arm wrestling, then- well the competitive escalation becomes pleasingly predictable. :-)

Oct 22, 2008 11:39 AM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Chuck, that sounds like it could be a lot of fun (LOL).

Oct 22, 2008 11:56 AM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

Hey Carolyn -what did youdo with those tiny canvas panels- i never saw the end result! I still haven't had my colouring day!

Oct 22, 2008 11:57 AM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

I am actually turning them into a children's book with the boys. :-)

Oct 22, 2008 11:57 AM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Liz, they are coming along really lovely. Very bright and colorful, if a bit silly. (LOL)

Oct 22, 2008 11:59 AM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

You should have your coloring day, sweetie. I bet you'd really enjoy it. :-)

Oct 22, 2008 12:00 PM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

chuck - hmmmm i just had an idea!  do you think it happened because of all those arm wrestling contests i used to have with my kids? - there were many a things i said i'd let the kids do if they could beat me in an arm wrestle!  And they couldn't for years - it took a lot of pressure of of saying no! :-)

Oct 22, 2008 12:04 PM
Cecily Parks
iMove Group, Knipe Realty NW, Inc. - Salem, OR

I moved on through the recovery years and ran right into the menopause years. It's so much fun! Not.

Oct 22, 2008 12:05 PM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor
OhCarolyn scan them and let me see! :-) it'll inspire me!
Oct 22, 2008 12:05 PM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

Cecily - I'm finding they can be one and the same! :-) Evening of Primrose Oil is pretty darn amazing! :-)

Oct 22, 2008 12:06 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Oh my word, Cecily, this is the second post where menopause has been the subject of comments (LOL). I'm on a roll with this one! Dare I start bantering over here as well? :-)

Oct 22, 2008 12:10 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Liz, I would love to scan them but they are in mixed media and the oil paint takes a while to dry. Give me a couple of days and I'll upload a few. I routinely rotate the illustrations and work on them all in stages. It keeps my mind from getting bored and makes me work fast to get the next layer down (LOL).

Oct 22, 2008 12:13 PM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com

Liz- You pose an interesting question. I'm going to guess. Yes. It's 100% the reason. How's that for a confident answer? Especially since I have no idea. :-)

Oct 23, 2008 01:58 AM