Relationships and dating are hard enough without any added stress, but in difficult economic times, it's hard to avoid the added pressure of wooing your partner on a minimal budget. New couples are the hardest hit, as it may seem too soon to forego a night out on the town in favor of dinner and a movie at home (well, at least not every night). Even couples who have relationships that are well established feel the crunch of limited spending abilities. But reduced budgets don't have to put a damper on the romance of a relationship, new or long-standing. There are plenty of inexpensive dating options that retain all the romance and quality time of a pricey dinner on the town, but won't cramp your financial style (or send you spiraling into debt).

A date night does not necessarily have to include a restaurant. In fact, you can stretch your dating dollar much further if you skip restaurants all together. One of the reasons eating out gets so expensive is the service factor not only are you paying for your food, you're paying for the atmosphere of the place you're eating it and the salary of the person serving it to you (not to mention the salaries of the people behind the scenes who you'll never even see). The other big cost associated with eating out is alcohol. If you and your date are drinkers, this is going to be a logical part of the evening, but the often unreasonable mark-ups restaurants and bars impose can drain your wallet before you even get to the main course.

Instead of dropping all your hard earned money on a manufactured experience at a romantic restaurant, make your own special experience. Hit the local grocer's prepared foods section (or even prepare the food yourself!), pick up a much more reasonably priced bottle of wine, and take your date out for an evening walk and a sunset picnic. Don't forget to bring a blanket to sit on, and even a couple of tea light candles for instant ambiance. Instant romance!

If you're dead set on taking your date to a restaurant, get courageous and creative, and try something new. Do a little research (online or among friends first-hand recommendations tend to be the most reliable) and find a unique little place off the beaten path. A tiny mom-and-pop Italian restaurant, or a hole-in-the-wall exotic food spot. These kinds of places tend to be much more budget-friendly than bigger, more popular restaurants, and they have infinitely more character. Plus, given the high level of competition in the food industry, these places have to be pretty good in order to survive, so the food is usually top-notch.

Of course, you can always just stay home. This option doesn't have to be boring far from it! Instead of splurging at a restaurant, put extra effort into preparing a special dinner yourself. For even more romance, do it together. Cooking is a great bonding experience, and the preparation itself can be one of the best parts of the date. Set the table as if it were a restaurant, and light some candles to create a romantic atmosphere. Remember, the point of a date is to spend time with someone special something you can do anywhere, anytime, and on any budget.

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8 Comments on Tips for Dating on a Budget

OCT
04
2008

Ki,

Your right, why spend so much for the manufactures, I find that a picnic at sunset does more than the whole dinner thing.

Take care!

RJH

6:57am • #1
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Wife and I went to the second run, "dollar"  theater last night.  Cost: $5.00 plus we shared popcorn and a large drink for an additional $9.75.  That's pretty cheap if you ask me...

7:10am • #2
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  Next week is a double digit anniversary so dating is a distant memory but what I do remember about it was the creative times with homade something....popcorn and taking turns at choosing our favorite movie to rent....why not search the internet for recipes...if you can read you can cook !

7:11am • #3
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Making a game of courting and sparking on a budget possible. Hiking dates, biking dates, with the picnic twist during a weekend afternoon fun, healthy and you get out of the house. Make a potato salad, chicken sandwiches some hot coffee and sit by a lake and enjoy the view, then go kayaking. In rural 4 season states, there are soooo many low cost, no cost options.  Having a bonfire with other couples on a saturday night with a little liquid refreshment is fun when you are out in a moonlit night, under the stars and by a lake.  Laughing, sharing, getting to know each other from conversations.  Commuication...not planted in front of a screen vegging out. Good post!

8:15am • #4
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It is hard these days for me to find the extra money for entertainment.  We had to save money to go out for our anniversary.

8:33am • #5
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It is almost better to be married right now.  I couldn't imagine dating in this economy!  Going out to dinner and movie is almost required n a weekly basis!  With husband and baby, we are just content to stay, cook dinner at home, and snuggle.  It is the best date ever.

8:51am • #6

My first date is usually a cup of coffee at some really unique cafe on a Saturday night  around 8ish. By going this route you can get to know some more and have less interrupted and stimulating conversations without your server coming n every 10 minutes. Also by going to a restaurant its almost like you have to entice the other person with good foos, as if your company wasn't good enough. I used to go out on dates 2 to 3 times a week a around $75 bucks a pop! Thats a lot of money I could've invested and got waaay better returns than a KISS.

9:29am • #7
MAR
04

This is a great article.  I really don't think most women care where they are taken on a date nearly as much as if the underwritten dating rules are followed.  We are watching for more important things than how much money is spent on us, like making sure he pays, opens doors, shoes are clean, etc.  I will have to see if you have any more good dating advice...  lol...

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