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When Did We Stop Being A Resourceful Society?

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Real Estate Agent with Diamond Partners Inc 00244377

I was talking to a friend today about the differences between our parent's generation, the generation before them -  and how they were so much more resourceful than we are today. We have become a wasteful society and I am guilty as well as the rest of you!

The conversation had started when I was telling my friend that my husband had taken on the project of painting our garage this weekend. It's no small task. He spent an entire day cleaning out, disposing of accumulated junk and moving stuff away from the walls. He started yesterday and by the end of the day the only actual painting he accomplished was the edging. Today he is rolling. There is no way he will finish more than just the ceiling today. I was thinking I would go to the store and buy new roller covers to replace the one he throws out today - or I will suggest he cover it with Saran Wrap and see if it keeps the paint from drying up by tomorrow when he resumes. Then, I remember my father always washing out the roller covers after painting. My friend and I laughed at that! Why bother, when you can just go buy new ones? That's when the subject turned to resourcefulness and the generations before us. I reminisced about my mother, my aunt, my grandmothers who sat around darning socks when there were holes. It was the wash day ritual. Who darns socks anymore? My friend admitted that she throws them out and buys new ones, like I do too.

This week I wrote a post about how our priorities have changed when it comes to  housing - Maybe The "Live Large" Mindset Needed This Wake-Up Call  ...Surprisingly, this made it as a featured post. Many AR members agreed with me and even admitted they are living lifestyles so blown out of proportion compared to the more simplistic and modest lifestyles of the generations before us. 

Do you remember Ivory Soap? Do they even still make it? Well, some old-timers in my family had insisted on letting the soap dry out between uses to make the bar last longer.

When I was a kid it was instilled in me to remember turning off lights in the rooms that were not in use at night. Last person to leave a room was expected to turn off the light. I'm afraid to admit that today my house is aglow at night.  

Darning socks, washing paint roller covers, drying out soap, turning off the lights - can you think of the resourcefulness of past generations before us and how we could put some of their ideas to work for us today? The Great Depression required people to be resourceful. Times are tough again. Economic conditions might require some of us to THINK about how much we WASTE. Couldn't we be putting some of the ideas of past generations to work for us today?    

Stocking up on soap already.

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Carol Culkin - REECENICHOLS REAL ESTATE

Carol Culkin - Licensed Real Estate Salesperson for ReeceNichols Real Estate, is your source for real estate in Overland Park and the bordering cities of Leawood, Olathe, Mission, Miriam, Lenexa and Shawnee, Stillwell and Spring Hill. Carol has been ranked as an award winning agent and offers her clients over 10 years of real estate experience.

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Comments (13)

Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.

I couldn't agree more that as a society, our wastefulness has gotten way out of whack.  Remember Tupperware?  Now it seems everyone uses Zip Lock bags for leftovers, cookies, snacks - they always get discarded after a short use.  Or how about the use of disposable plates, cups, etc.??  For picnics and certain circumstances, okay, they make sense, but every day to drink out of a styrofoam cup that goes in the waste basket?   

Not only are we wasteful, we are filling the landfills with a lot of things that are not going to break down any time soon.   

Just as the price of gas has made some rethink their driving habits, if the economy makes us think about our wastefulness, a lot of good will come out of it.

Oct 05, 2008 05:59 AM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Carol, great post.  You know there are some new energy code requirements for light switches that turn the lights off when you leave the room?  They actually just sense movement in the room.  A while back I did a post that talks about washing out roller covers: I LOVE to wash out paint rollers!

 

Oct 05, 2008 06:03 AM
Evelyn Panning
Property Connections Realty Inc. - Alturas, CA

Our lives have become so much "easier" than in those old days.  But, things also break quicker these days.  I remember my father complaining about his "IRON wool socks" and how he wished that he could throw them away.  They lasted many, many years and my mother helped them along with her "IRON darning."  My parents couldn't bare to throw out anything that was useful.  A good part of that came from growing up in World War II Germany when they had few if any belongings, long cold winters and little of any food.  Nothing was wasted. ~ Evelyn

Oct 05, 2008 06:17 AM
Carol Culkin
Diamond Partners Inc - Overland Park, KS
Overland Park Residential Real Estate

Susan - So true - I have not even seen a Tupperware invite in years.

Charlie - That technique for cleaning paint rollers is really cool!

Oct 05, 2008 06:18 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

My daughter laughs at me and says I have a "poor mentality"...she's talking about the lessons I learned in the Peace Corps.  Everything was saved, as you didn't know if you would need it again.  While I was over there one of my electronic things broke....I didn't throw it away, I replaced the cord.  The phone broke....found a new piece and fixed it.  Food, shopped for what we ate that day or just a couple of days....and never threw food away. 

Today I save jars and plastic, recycle what I don't use, and think of how many uses something really has.  We are such a wasteful society, and yesterday I watched a brilliant Video on this.  They talked about this being planned....how Americans were Marketed to to shop.....shop....shop. By design we are taught to replace things, instead of fixing them, or buying used.  Until all these things change we will remain a wasteful society, and some people will manage better than others with their new Poor Status. We must get over the "me-me" I want it now mentality.........

oops sorry so long :)

Oct 05, 2008 06:21 AM
June Piper-Brandon
Coldwell Banker Realty - Columbia, MD
Creating Generational Wealth Through Homeownership

Carol, great post!!  I remember my parents were very resourceful.  I grew up very poor and remember wearing remade handmedowns, creative use of left over food.  Last night I made home made chicken barley soup from the leftovers from  yesterdays chicken dinner, which included boiling down the bones for stock.  Over lunch we all talked about things my parents did to make ends meet and I was thinking just the same thoughts as you blogged about.  When did we lose this resourcefulness.  I think we'll see coming years being much more modest than the past few living large years.

Oct 05, 2008 06:25 AM
Bill Ladewig
LoanOfficerSchool.com - Escondido, CA
Experience Is Your Advantage

Since the beginning of time older generations have moaned about younger.  The human condition is to always want more safety, everything cheaper and faster and to be paid more for our labor.  Tapping into those ideas will make you rich or a successful politician.

Oct 05, 2008 06:35 AM
Vickie McCartney
Maverick Realty - Owensboro, KY
Broker, Real Estate Agent Owensboro KY

Carol~ It really is sad how wasteful our society really is.  It seems we have a "disposable" mentality.  I agree with you, if we "focused" on being resourceful and saving money, and recycling things we would be better off. (Which in turn would have us saving more money too! ) The present economy is forcing a lot of us to re-think what we do and be creative and find ways to save us money in gas.  I don't know about you, but I plan all of my errands to encompass getting it all in one day if possible.   Before I used to just hop in my car and go!  Now, that just isn't so!

Oct 05, 2008 06:35 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Carol, a lot of that resourcefulness did come out of the Great Depression. When you have NOTHING you have to make do with what you have.

Oct 05, 2008 07:24 AM
Carol Culkin
Diamond Partners Inc - Overland Park, KS
Overland Park Residential Real Estate

Kathy - Sounds like the Peace Corps made you a smart person - your kids shouldn't laugh when YOU know so much from life excperiences. They should try to learn from you.   

Oct 05, 2008 07:24 AM
Carol Culkin
Diamond Partners Inc - Overland Park, KS
Overland Park Residential Real Estate

Gary - The Great Depression also caused them to "work harder and smarter" - like us Real Estate agents have had to do today just to remain in this business!  

Oct 05, 2008 07:49 AM
Barbara S. Duncan
RE/MAX Advantage - Searcy, AR
GRI, e-PRO, Executive Broker, Searcy AR

Strange you mentioned Tupperware.  It really has almost been replaced with zip-lock baggies.  Those zip-locks are expensive too.  But Tupperware was also expensive.  I sold a house to a Tupperware dealer and I got so tired of forced Tupperware parties and sales.  I still use my saltine cracker holder however.

Oct 05, 2008 01:26 PM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645

My grandmother used to make soap, rugs and many other household things.  My mother used to bake everything from scratch including bread.

Those days are lost.

Oct 05, 2008 07:22 PM