As more and more people realize that they may have to go in to default, I'm starting to get more and more calls from people asking me how to talk to their banks about how to avoid losing their homes.
The story time after time is that they called their bank and the banks all say, "Sorry, can't help you until you are already in default." Now, I've been able to help a few of these people, but most of the time I have to sit down with them and discuss their options with the HOPE program, talking to a lawyer to contact the bank or just stop the payments until the bank is ready to talk.
I tell the people that I understand that they don't want to ruin their credit and are looking for options, but the banks just aren't willing to listen and I just can't understand this. Most of these people are just in a temporary situation with a temporary job loss and are just looking for away to do something such as a loan modification that will just move 2 or 3 months worth of payments to the end of their loan.
But, I keep hearing that the banks tell the owners of the homes that if they had called when they their credit was fine, they probably would have done the loan modification, but because of their credit score, their really isn't much they can do! WHAT? They tried to call you when they didn't have credit problems and you told them you couldn't help them.
I would love to see the banks help these people who want to keep their homes do exactly that. Yes, there are situations where people won't be able to keep their homes, but I think in more cases than not, people don't want to default on their loans, they want to keep their homes. But, if these banks aren't willing to listen when the people want options, I don't think they should be surprised when these people hang up on them when they call and ask why they are late on their payments and when they are going to be expected to catch up.
Please, banks, try to show some compassion prior to the default. I think you will find you will get a lot more money in the long run and a lot fewer homes sold on short sales or be given back to you in foreclosure.

Todd Clark - broker
Kastings & Associates
Phone: (503)524-9494
Fax: (503)622-8739

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In Hawaii you need to be a Distressed Property Consultant to call the bank. Other states may be enacting similar laws so it's something to watch out for.