I just lost a loan, a commission, and any future commissions that I might earn as referrals from the aforementioned lost loan. This happens to me about once per week and it really doesn't make me angry anymore (well, a little)- but it astounds me that this happens at all. I lost this deal to a "rate shopper." If you are going to shop rates, you really must know what you are doing.
When the real estate market exploded a few years ago, many new mortgage loan officers jumped into the game and made a quick buck. Incompetence was everywhere you turned. These weren't loan officers; these were salespeople and many of them knew nothing of finance.
I am not a mortgage salesperson. I don't negotiate my rates, because I offer the best I can- right from the get-go. If someone is willing to negotiate your interest rate, that means he or she could have done better from the beginning, right?
Why would you want to deal with that person? (Before I get angry comments from mortgage professionals: There are some exceptions to this rule...like changing market conditions.)
Back to my story:
So a Realtor I know refers this client to me and he is a "shopper." Good for him. I like rate shoppers for the most part, because if they shop around a little, they can see that I am giving them a square deal and it cements their loyalty to me.
However, this time I lost the deal right away. He practically hung up on me. This guy did not know how to "shop."
He said, "I am shopping around for the best mortgage rate."
Mistake number one. Nobody needs to know you are shopping. Why would he tell me that? It doesn't change what I offer him. In fact, it can be harmful. If a dishonest loan officer knows that you are shopping around, what do you think he or she is going to do? Low-ball you, of course. That's when you get a closing table surprise.
I told him that was fine and I proceeded to quote a very fair rate and closing costs- the same rate and closing costs I would have quoted a non-shopper.
"Oh that's way too high. No way. I've found a much better deal already," he claims.
"Really? Because I just offered you a very good deal. What were you offered elsewhere?," I inquired, even though I had absolutely no intention of changing my offer.
He told me about his ridiculous, impossible rate and closing costs he was offered. Oh, and when I say "impossible", I mean that quite literally.
I explained to him that the deal he was offered would actually cost a mortgage company money and that I found it to be very unlikely. So I ask him the name of the miracle mortgage company.
"American Mortgage Specialists", he says.
I know this company. I know them well. I tell him to look them up with the Better Business Bureau. It turns out that American Mortgage Specialists has had 35 complaints in 36 months and even more complaints if you go further back. I direct him to the webpage.
I also tell him that I've never had a complaint from any client, ever. I direct him to the Arizona Wholesale Mortgage BBB profile page. (By the way, I have 15 employees, but this page says 5. I just noticed that. Not important I guess; but I still wanted to clear it up.)
"I don't care. The guy gave me a Good Faith Estimate [GFE]," he explains.
Honestly! He actually did not care that he was about to enter into a purchase contract with a lender that has 35 complaints lodged with the BBB! I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!
A good faith estimate is just that: An Estimate. It means nothing to most mortgage companies. Mortgage brokers and mortgage banks don't have to honor this document at all. Most people don't realize that, but it's true. Yep, this guy is going to get a closing table surprise. (By the way, my Good Faith Estimates are as good as gold and I tell all of my clients that. That's why I have zero complaints- no closing table surprises.)
How to shop for a mortgage:
1. Don't tell anyone you're shopping. Just say, "What is the absolute best deal you can give me on a [insert loan type here] loan?"
2. Shop on the same day, as rates change all of the time. Don't call 2 banks per day for three days. Rates will move up and down and you might as well not shop at all.
3. Check out each lender with the BBB for goodness sakes.
4. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Go with the lender that is the lowest and still offers probable rates and closing costs. If you get 4 offers and 3 are all similar, chances are lender number four is a bait-and-switcher. Go with the best of the three and forget the ridiculously good deal.