Yes, I did.  I had a business meeting with two Amish men in their barn. 
We would have met at the end of the day in my office, but they don't drive and it would have been difficult for them to have gotten a ride that time of day.  So, my husband and I agreed that we would meet at their place.

The day was warm and it was great weather even as the afternoon turned into the evening.
  On our way there, we stopped at a red light at an intersection which is adjacent to the farm down the street from my home.  All of the sudden, the stench overtook the car, and I look over and realize that today must have been fall fertilizing day.  Ewwww -- the odor permeated the car!  We quickly rolled up the windows and I took note of all of the other cars passing us having the same expression on their faces!  I wished out loud that our Amish friends also didn't spend the day fertilizing their own property, for fear I'd walk away smelling like a barn.

Well.... it must have been fertilizing day for them, as well.


As we pulled up to their property, the farm odors were quite pungent.  I have to admit, you do get used to it after a while, and it wasn't too bad in their "office" in one of the barns.  A very stark office -- we held our meeting under a propane lantern and a battery operated hanging flashlight (I think it was the propane fumes that drowned out the methane gas fumes!) 

Getting down to business, I really forgot where I was.  Gone were the dairy odors, the hiss from the propane lantern and the fact that the two men sitting across from me had no buttons on their clothing.  Instead, out came the pencils and papers and some number crunching.  The fun part was trying to explain the internet to them.  You see, Amish businessmen do use the internet, only they hire people to run their websites for them, as they will not have a computer for their own personal use.  It gets hard for them to compete with the "English" as they call us regular 'ol non-Amish folks when it comes to business, especially when so much marketing is internet-based. 

They need to expand their business, and they even have business coaches, but they need help in order to implement certain ideas.  They do have a fax and a telephone, but only check it once or twice a day ~ and that's it.  They stand firmly alongside their beliefs ~ they are all for having their products photographed and displayed online and on CDs and DVDs, but refuse to be photographed alongside their products.  Yet, they feel the same pressures of the economy and have the same worries we all do.  They have the same business questions we do:  "How do I reach the largest pool of prospective buyers?"  "How do I market my product to them?"  "How can *they* find me?"

 

 

Can you imagine, as a Realtor, what it would be like if we couldn't use the internet to market ourselves? 

If we couldn't have our photos on our business cards or web sites? 

If we couldn't answer our own phones or emails?  Receive or send faxes?  Even from our "home" offices? 

 

 


As we talked and the evening sun disappeared into the night,
I could hear the wonderful farmland noises around me.  My mind wandered during our conversation as I found myself wondering what life without electricity, without the technological luxuries I've become accustomed to, would be like.  Like Gilligan's Island "No phone, no light, no luxury... as primitive as can be".

I snapped back to reality as I found myself answering my cell phone ~ ironically ~ and explaining to my Amish friends that it was my son calling who was arriving at the Lancaster Amtrack station and needed a ride.  I haven't seen him in several weeks, as he's in New York working two internships in the television production field ~ a city only three hours from here yet it seemed worlds apart at that moment.  The boy found it quite humorous to hear that I was on an Amish farm "talking business" ~ clearly a world apart from the world he's grown up in, as well. 

I found it quite humorous too, as I drove home wondering if I still had the farmland odors permeating my clothes and hair.
  As I walked into the house, and the lights were turned on, the television was turned on and the computer awakened from it's sleep mode, I had a brief yearning to be back on that quiet, peaceful, dark farm that was worlds apart from my own home ... yet just a half hour drive away. 

But, I could do without the farmland smell!

 

 

 

 

 

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52 Comments on I spent the evening in an Amish barn....

OCT
11
2008
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Jeannie- I flagged this for a feature. It was excellently written and interesting, I read every word. I admire the Amish so much, knowing I could never live that way, yet a part of my soul yearning to.

We do have agents in our area, who- do not use the internet, who do not answer their cell phones often, have voice mail at their offices, don't have their photos on their business cards, ( we don't either- but that is another story) and who don't do many of the things we all do, yet, they sell multi million dollar properties and  do very well in their businesses. One lady has already closed this year over 14 million in sales, a slow year for her, and you would never believe it if you knew what she does NOT do!

11:32pm • #1
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Katerina, thank you for the flag! You know, it's a small world and there are many similarities as well as differences with our world and that of the Amish.  My husband and I both grew up in NYC, and his comment to me was "I never imagined myself standing around with a bunch of Amish men talking politics and economics".  It just seems like a world apart from what we know, yet it really isn't

And, I know agents very similar to who you described, and they do a fabulous business.  But, they've been in the industry forever and have an enormous sphere of influence.  That is definitely a tribute to the amount of referral and repeat business they do.  There is nothing better than a phone call from a buyer or seller saying "so and so highly recommended you". 

 

11:53pm • #2
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I slept in an Amish barn once as well.  Of course, my story was quite a bit different and involved seven jugs of moonshine.

11:59pm • #3
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2008
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Paul!  Seven jugs??  Details, please!  We need details for that one! (that is, if you can remember any of them after all that moonshine!)

 

12:04am • #4
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The Amish are an intriguing culture, especially in today's rush rush world.  I am always amazed when I see their horse and carriage go by and have often what it must be like to live without all of the modern "necessities."

12:07am • #5
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What an absolutely fascinating post!  I've always been both curious and entranced by the Amish...Very cool! Congratulations on the group feature..:-)

12:08am • #6
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Christine - what's funny is that they really do have many of the modern necessities, they're just *modified* to suit their lifestyle.  I've been in Amish households where they have Kitchenaid mixers and washers and dryers ~ but everything is run with generators and the plugs to electrical cords are altered to somehow fit these power sources.  The telephones and faxes though, while a necessity for them to run their businesses, are never *in* the house.  They are always either out in a barn or other outbuilding, far from the house.

Are there Amish were you live?

12:41am • #7
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Liz - thank you for stopping by!  Are there any Amish in BC?  I know there are a number of states in the US where there are Amish communties.  I never stopped to think if there are any up in our northern neighboring areas.

12:43am • #8
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Well,

I spent the evening watching a lousy movie, so I think you win.

11:18am • #9
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A totally different life for sure, but I think they enjoy the beauty of life soo much more, as I have so much "chatter" going on in life? 

Being from Wisconsin, we call that "Dairy Air"....

11:25am • #10
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It is a whole different world for sure.  I try not to watch too much TV, turn off the phone and spend time away from the computer.  I could definately do without the smell (lol)!

11:25am • #11
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Jeannie: Fascintating story. Thank you for posting it. The world has gotten smaller and we encounter people from many different cultures, with different cultural expectations every day. I hope you will turn this into a series and let us know how the rest of this transaction develops.

11:25am • #12

I enjoyed the fact that you went out there, visited them in their world, and probably walked away appreciating a few more things in yours.  Like my grandmother used it say...it pays to stop and smell the flowers.  Or in your case, whatever the fragrance may be! ;)

2:16pm • #14
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Hi Jeannie,

I really enjoyed reading your post. While I haven't had an Amish client yet, I certainly had heard of the different type of lifestyle. Thank you for shedding additional light.

Don't forget me if you learn of anyone moving to "The OC!"

Michael

(949) 753-7900

2:26pm • #15
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Jeannie.. Great story. It is hard to imagine what it is like to live without all the  things that we  have grown up and spoiled with. This is their (Amish) way of life and all they know.

Did you make a sale ?

3:08pm • #16
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WOW... I can't even imagine, great post, and very interesting.

6:04pm • #17
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What an awesome story. Thanks for sharing. Having lived near the Amish for many years I have the greatest respect for them and their output. Their horses are the best trained...bar none. They could get their livery backed up to the stock barn's auction and offloaded faster than most country guys driving a pickup.

6:21pm • #18

Jeanne,

I had friends that lived in Lancaster for awhile. They told us some great stories of Amish living. The husband of my friend was not a church attender, he became one fast because of his surroundings. Even the non-armish around Lancaster ( based on what I am told) have been influenced by their  spirituality

6:27pm • #19
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Jeannie,

What a beautiful post! My husband is from Lancaster County and we manage to get down there about twice a year. Your comment about the fertilizer smells brought back memories!  Sometimes I think life would be easier without all the technology trappings.

Oops..gotta go...my cell phone is ringing!  ;)

7:07pm • #20
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Were they selling a home or what? I have never heard of them selling a piece of property, I guess they would but I just never heard of it. Usually they pass property down from kin to kin. I have always wondered how it would be working with them because they are so trusting and good natured. I used to sell farm equipment and they were so respectful and considerate. They are wonderful people and life could only be so simple.

7:26pm • #21
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You paint quite a picture of the scene, and I enjoyed your post.  I hope your business appointment was successful, and hope to hear more.

8:05pm • #22
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Puts what is really important into perspective. Maybe we could do without the Mercedes and million dollar home.  We think the world comes to an end when one loses their home, don't we?  That is not what life is about.........

8:10pm • #23
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Very interesting experience.  We stayed in Amish country for a week 2 summers ago. My daughter keeps begging me to move there. She loves it.

8:32pm • #24

Wow how cool... We take vactions to the Amish country in Holmes County Ohio.  Couldnt imagine selling real estate out there...

 

9:28pm • #25
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Steve - I have to agree with you, I think I win! 

Pat - "Dairy Air"... I like the sound of that (but not the smell).  I liked what you had to say about having "chatter" going on in life.  We all do, don't we.

Joan ~ its funny because they can appreciate the importance of those things, but they won't partake of them on a regular basis.  Just long enough to get done what they need to do to be successful. 

9:50pm • #26
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Michelle - I'd love to keep you all updated, and I think a series would be a great idea!  I will definitely follow up with upcoming events.

Brad and Angela - I'm glad you enjoyed it.  Thanks so much for stopping by!

9:52pm • #27
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Brett - I've been to a number of Amish farms, but this is the first time that I posted about it, and the first time I actually had a meeting with them.  My husband and my younger son have visited with them often, and my son especially liked driving there to pick up material that was needed from them.  Not sure he especially liked the fragrance, though! 

Michael - will keep you in mind, thanks!  And thank you for stopping by and reading.  I'm glad you enjoyed the post.

9:55pm • #28
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Roland - Living in an Amish area, I realize that we've grown accustomed to their ways and have adapted on how to work with them.  Just as they have adapted to working with us.  I'm glad you enjoyed the post, thank you.

Kim - It is hard to imagine when we are so accustomed to all we have.  But, they don't feel that they are lacking in anything, which is what makes it so great to get to know them.

9:58pm • #29
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Vickie - yes, their horses are very well trained!  But they are also very hard working people, so it's not hard to imagine that they can offload their stock quicker than someone pulling up in a pickup!

By the way, they were impressed at my husband's Denali and the headlights and interior lights that illuminated our way as we walked back to the car in the dark.

Anonymous - thank you for stopping by and sharing what you've learned of Lancaster!  It's true, they have an overwhelming influence on how many people here look at things. 

10:02pm • #30
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Barbara - I'm glad I helped with your walk down memory lane!  It's funny how odors can instill a memory in us, and bring it back.  Good thing, though, that we don't have "smell-ivision"! 

I hope you enjoy your yearly visits back to Lancaster.  It's a great place to be - and be from!

10:06pm • #31
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Charles - this particular family is not selling a home, it was a meeting about a different business that I run with my husband.  But, yes, they do sell property.  Quite often, actually, and they are listed on our MLS, as well.  There is always a disclosure statement indicating that the house does not have electricity hooked up.  It's not hard to get it hooked up to the service, but they just choose not to, of course.  There is also usually at least 24 hours notice needed in order for the listing agent or office to get in touch with them, to notify them of a showing.  Not always easy if there is no phone, or if the one they have is in the barn!

Many times several families will share a phone (never in the house) in a small outbuilding on someone's property, near the road, or in a neighboring farm.  There are also many "English" (just regular ol folks) who will man the phone for any incoming calls for their Amish neighbors.

10:10pm • #32
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Margaret - thanks so much for stopping by, and I am so glad you enjoyed the post!  I would love to have a follow up with how things end up.  Either way, we will continue to have a business relationship with them, it's just a matter of tweaking things in order to help them grow without compromising their beliefs.  It should be interesting!

Tim - It definitely puts a lot into perspective.  I could do without a huge home (and mine is actually too big for my family now) and I could probably do without the Benz, too (how did you know??)  LOL.  Nobody should ever lose their home, though, but I know what you meant.  The interiors of their homes are very stark - no plush furnishings, no carpet.  They invest heavily in linoleum flooring, though!  Every Amish home I've been in has had linoleum in every single room.

10:14pm • #33
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Cathleen - I could recommend a great Realtor if you decide to make a move (ahem). 
I'm glad you enjoyed your visit to Lancaster.  Did you hit the outlets??  We're pretty well know for those!  I know better than to attempt to shop there during the weekends when it's tourist season -- gridlock!

Anonymous - Would love to hear more about your experience in Amish country in Ohio!  I had an Amish client several years ago ~ a really sweet young man who had attempted to be a landlord in our city.  The tenants just ran all over him!  He realized he wasn't cut out for being a landlord, and I helped him sell.  But, he carried a cell phone with him for work as a roofer.  That was an experience in itself!

10:18pm • #34
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In college we eat at an all you can eat Amish restaurant after playing a football game against Franklin & Marshall. The restaurant was in the barn, it was probably more interesting for them watching 75 college football players chowing down on fried chicken. I am surprised it didn't make the Intercourse News the next day.

10:20pm • #35

you made me think of that movie that Harrison Ford played in

thanks for your blog

troy downey

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birmingham, alabama

205-999-7218

10:37pm • #36
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13
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Jeannie- I came back to say congrats on the gold star that I am glad you got, like I said, it was very deserving of one. 

12:26am • #37
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My mother talks about when a man came to the door and explained to my Grandfather about how he could buy this box like machine and people would talk to you and entertain you...they wouldn't actually be IN the box....they would have transmitted pictures. My grandfather said, "Oh sure, the same time they put men on the moon."  Actually, television was a bit before then.

7:04am • #38
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Michael - You know, people reading this won't know what the Intercourse news is!  Intercourse is a municipality in Lancaster County that is right smack in the middle of Amish country.  There are a number of funndy-named towns around here.  Blue Ball, Fertility.... just to name a few.    So, who won the game against Franklin & Marshall?

Troy - Witness... is the name of the movie with Harrison Ford.  It was a huge hit around here, and I think there is even the "Witness" tour that goes on.

8:14am • #39
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Katerina - thank you again!  I am really glad you enjoyed it.  You'll have to plan a vacation trip to Lancaster County if you've never been here, and visit the Amish country in person.

8:15am • #40
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Sally & David - that sounds like me trying to explain the internet to these fine folks, and trying to explain that there are no "boundaries" limiting their advertising.  Thanks for sharing!

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Jeannie, what a beautiful post!  There are some Amish families who come here once a week with the most amazing cheeses I've ever eaten in my life!  It's a very different part of the world up there, and I'm glad their way of life is surviving into the 21st century!  

8:20am • #42
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Patricia -- ooohhh, I bet you get some great Farmer's Cheese and Pot Cheese.  They are not only surviving the 21st Century, they're adapting to whatever they can and they are thriving!

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Jeannie:

I envy the Amish way of life.  Life is so much simpler.  I know when I'm at the barn working with Eddie (my Thoroughbred) it is so peaceful.  I just want to stay there and enjoy the sounds of nature rather than go home (I live in town) and listen to the sirens and car engines.

BTW, I love the smells at the barn: the sweet smelling hay, the smell of leather, etc.

Brigita

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I'm so jealous...Lancaster County is incredible during the spring, summer and fall!  Question...are those new fireplaces real that I see in Parade magazine?  I've been noticing someone really pushing this new type of heating unit that has "amish" overlays built over the top of these units.

10:49am • #45
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Jeannie,

   We have the farm and rural thing here in Oregon, but I have to admit it is not as quiet due to the combines and other equipment; so it is a very different experience.  I do agree I can live without the smell though!

11:26am • #46
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Great post. The Amish have always fascinated me. It's interesting to hear how they do business in this age.

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"Can you imagine, as a Realtor, what it would be like if we couldn't use the internet to market ourselves?  If we couldn't have our photos on our business cards or web sites? If we couldn't answer our own phones or emails?  Receive or send faxes?  Even from our "home" offices?  "

I remember when I didn't have internet to market myself, didn't have a website, didn't have a cell phone, didn't have a fax (had a telex machine instead) -- I wouldn't trade today's technology for yesterdays.  I much prefer the tools we have today ~ Evelyn
 

2:29pm • #48

My wife and I were just in your area and stayed at the Old Mill House in Osceola.  Got lots of pictures of covered bridges and had a nice relaxing time!

8:02pm • #49
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Brigita - I can just imagine how peaceful it must be in your barn.  But, I think the smells of sweet  hay and leather are much different from what might be found in a dairy barn! 
Thanks for sharing your thoughts about Eddie.

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Karl - I have seen those fireplaces advertised in Parade magazine as well.  But, I have never seen them advertised here locally!  I think it's a hoax or at least a bit of false advertising.  Unless they happen to be popular in other communities with Amish.  I've just never seen them anywhere here, and I can't imagine that they wouldn't be the latest and greatest thing found during this home-heating crisis. 

I'll let you be the judge ~ buy one and let us know what you think!

8:23pm • #51
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Cat - I'm sure it must be very different with the machinery!  Dairy farm smells are the same, I'm sure, no matter what sort of farm they are coming from.  Thanks for sharing!

Adriana - I'm really glad you enjoyed it!  Thank you for taking the time to read and comment.


Property Connections Realty - You know, I didn't even think of all of that when I posted those words!  You're completely right, it wasn't too long ago that our offices didn't have all of those luxuries.  It just makes you wonder just how lost we'd all be if we had to start all over again. 
Thanks for stopping by!

Garren - I'm so glad you enjoyed your visit!  Were you visiting friends or family, or just happened to pick our area for a visit?  i was just thinking how I'd like to take a trip to Florida ~ small world!

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